It's a cuckold's world

[davenjenn]

My husband is a good lover, but he is also a confirmed cuckold and I am very happy to indulge him in his needs.

I have always been a bit of a cheater but as I get older the urge seems to increase and I do my best to make sure that Dave catches me at it. I am past 40 but I am still slim an trim and it's not hard for me to find lovers -- in fact he expects it of me now. And when he watches it turns us both on even more. We were fantasizing last night what a wonderful world it would be if all girls were like me, screwing around and making sure their hubbies know all about it!

What do other's think -- actual and prospective cuckolds. How much do wives want to cuckold their hubbies?

Jenny

 

[Islander55]

My husband is a good lover, but he is also a confirmed cuckold and I am very happy to indulge him in his needs.

I have always been a bit of a cheater but as I get older the urge seems to increase and I do my best to make sure that Dave catches me at it. I am past 40 but I am still slim an trim and it's not hard for me to find lovers -- in fact he expects it of me now. And when he watches it turns us both on even more. We were fantasizing last night what a wonderful world it would be if all girls were like me, screwing around and making sure their hubbies know all about it!

What do other's think -- actual and prospective cuckolds. How much do wives want to cuckold their hubbies?

Jenny

I enjoy fucking other men and my husband is fully supportive. I do not really think of it as cuckolding even though it technically is. It is something I share with my husband by letting him watch or just supplying the details before and after. It allows me to satisfy my need for variety and is especially useful now that we are older and he is starting to slow down. I am over 60 but find I can go a lot more than I imagined when given the opportunity.

I do think that there are a lot more women cuckolding their husbands than most would suspect. I worked in a fairly large high school and it was pretty easy to spot a number of affairs going on. Not sure if their husband knew but I doubt it.

 

[SlutAddicted]

I think that as women become less and less inclined to indulge the expectations that a male-centric society has imposed upon their sexuality it will become obvious that many wives need more than what their husbands can offer and can readily get it with other men. The natural outcome will be greater prevalence than cuckolding.

Likewise as men open our eyes to this reality we will see it as natural and be more inclined to accept it....or for guys like me, fully embrace and enjoy it.

Although I think most of it will likely take the form of what Islander55 describes rather than what guys on porn sites imagine.

 

[Pliantjoed]

My husband is a good lover, but he is also a confirmed cuckold and I am very happy to indulge him in his needs.

I have always been a bit of a cheater but as I get older the urge seems to increase and I do my best to make sure that Dave catches me at it. I am past 40 but I am still slim an trim and it's not hard for me to find lovers -- in fact he expects it of me now. And when he watches it turns us both on even more. We were fantasizing last night what a wonderful world it would be if all girls were like me, screwing around and making sure their hubbies know all about it!

What do other's think -- actual and prospective cuckolds. How much do wives want to cuckold their hubbies?

Jenny

I think it is better that only a handful of women enjoy this. Not because I don’t enjoy it but because it makes them unique and special.

The mass of women (and men) who are pure and dutiful to their partners give an illusion that this is how things should be. When people explore beyond these norms it’s different and exciting. Some of us find the thought of our partners being satisfied by another exhilarating. The fact that another man could get my wife to do things she wouldn’t dare do for me is thrilling. For others it would be repulsive.

If all women were as adventurous, that would be the norm, the expected and for us that enjoy the adventure would probably think loyal monogamy was the excitement.

Just my thoughts

 

[davenjenn]

I think it is better that only a handful of women enjoy this. Not because I don’t enjoy it but because it makes them unique and special.

The mass of women (and men) who are pure and dutiful to their partners give an illusion that this is how things should be. When people explore beyond these norms it’s different and exciting. Some of us find the thought of our partners being satisfied by another exhilarating. The fact that another man could get my wife to do things she wouldn’t dare do for me is thrilling. For others it would be repulsive.

If all women were as adventurous, that would be the norm, the expected and for us that enjoy the adventure would probably think loyal monogamy was the excitement.

Just my thoughts

 

[davenjenn]

I think I would like living in a world in which the women were mostly as adventurous as I am. Trying out new things with new people is exciting for me and openly being able to chat about that as the norm with people that I meet would be special

 

[davenjenn]

I enjoy fucking other men and my husband is fully supportive. I do not really think of it as cuckolding even though it technically is. It is something I share with my husband by letting him watch or just supplying the details before and after. It allows me to satisfy my need for variety and is especially useful now that we are older and he is starting to slow down. I am over 60 but find I can go a lot more than I imagined when given the opportunity.

I do think that there are a lot more women cuckolding their husbands than most would suspect. I worked in a fairly large high school and it was pretty easy to spot a number of affairs going on. Not sure if their husband knew but I doubt it.

I think it may not even be entirely natural for a girl not to have a few affairs along the way. I think it would be sexier if we could talk about it openly and even have affairs openly too. Always with our husbands enthusiasm, of course

 

[davenjenn]

Emotional attachment is inevitable, but maybe that is not such a bad thing

 

[davenjenn]

Yeah emotion does make sex better! IMHON

 

[davenjenn]

Nobody minds much these days if you have male friends that you like and even touch, it becomes "wrong" only when you sleep with them. I just like to be sexual with my male friends and sometimes with guys I don't know that well. My husband isn't the jealous sort. I just wish our behavior was more common and out in the open. It brings a new zest to life

 

[screwher]

My husband is a good lover, but he is also a confirmed cuckold and I am very happy to indulge him in his needs.

I have always been a bit of a cheater but as I get older the urge seems to increase and I do my best to make sure that Dave catches me at it. I am past 40 but I am still slim an trim and it's not hard for me to find lovers -- in fact he expects it of me now. And when he watches it turns us both on even more. We were fantasizing last night what a wonderful world it would be if all girls were like me, screwing around and making sure their hubbies know all about it!

What do other's think -- actual and prospective cuckolds. How much do wives want to cuckold their hubbies?

Jenny

I can agree with this. When I first started dating my now wife she was adamant about monogamy and loyalty. But she had limited experiences before me. So it was about four years in our relationship when she found herself in a hotelroom getting fucked by another man! Fortunately we’ve both embraced the idea of her having sex with other men!

Apart from the hubby getting on board, I honestly don’t think our story is that unique. I’m sure most married women would like nothing more than to be able to step out on occasion. But don’t want to risk harming their marriage.

 

[Mtnmike]

I have to admit I would love this. Years and years ago I did have an affair which hubby found out about. This led to us joining the swingers scene for awhile but that sort of petered out as too many dramas. Things were good for quite a few years until a holiday nookie night was not satisfying for either of us . We tried everything but nothing helped and these days we just have the VERY occasional mutual masturbation session which I am realising is not enough for me anymore. He would rather go to bed early alone to sleep than fuck me . The saddest thing for me is that we used to be able to talk about it but these days ....just doesn't happen. Its been so long that I can't even remember what a cock in my pussy feels like. Thought about having a FB irl but I don't think I could actually do it. Sorry for the long post...

Sorry for your demise but I'm glad to be hearing from a lady in my same plight. Proves there are women in this life to.

 

[Mtnmike]

Yes that would be great. I think for my hubby the risk of emotional attachment would be too scary.

In there lies the problem for most men.

 

[davenjenn]

I have to admit I would love this. Years and years ago I did have an affair which hubby found out about. This led to us joining the swingers scene for awhile but that sort of petered out as too many dramas. Things were good for quite a few years until a holiday nookie night was not satisfying for either of us . We tried everything but nothing helped and these days we just have the VERY occasional mutual masturbation session which I am realising is not enough for me anymore. He would rather go to bed early alone to sleep than fuck me . The saddest thing for me is that we used to be able to talk about it but these days ....just doesn't happen. Its been so long that I can't even remember what a cock in my pussy feels like. Thought about having a FB irl but I don't think I could actually do it. Sorry for the long post...

That’s a very sad story. It‘s ok that he isn’t the way he is supposed to be but, there are plenty of guys who would maje love to you and your hubby would probably love it.

 

[Islander55]

I think it may not even be entirely natural for a girl not to have a few affairs along the way. I think it would be sexier if we could talk about it openly and even have affairs openly too. Always with our husbands enthusiasm, of course

I agree. Just doing something or someone different now and then spices up the sex life for a couple. If you can be open and share the details, it can become a very exciting for a couple. For most people, I do not believe being exclusive allows them to fully appreciate sex. Of course guys should have the same rights but as we get older, it seems to be a lot easier for women to find partners than it is for men.

 

[Umanual]

Hmmmm, I am conflicted on this. My wife has cucked me many times, ..eventually we discussed the situation, came up with a plan that works for us and I am good with our situation. I am very open to her enjoying sex with other men, I am however, not into being humiliated. It may not fit the usual trend of a cuck, but I am well endowed and enjoy sex play immensely. I get super turned on supporting my wife, and taking part in her cheating sessions... which really isn't cheating as we discuss everything before hand. She has a bf now that I like as well, I am ok with her spending time with him alone occasionally, just needs to share when she gets home... Oddly, I enjoy the whole concept...

 

[Mtnmike]

I agree. Just doing something or someone different now and then spices up the sex life for a couple. If you can be open and share the details, it can become a very exciting for a couple. For most people, I do not believe being exclusive allows them to fully appreciate sex. Of course guys should have the same rights but as we get older, it seems to be a lot easier for women to find partners than it is for men.

You ain't just whistling Dixie there, it's been just about impossible trying to find a woman comfortable with an old man.

 

[Mtnmike]

Hmmmm, I am conflicted on this. My wife has cucked me many times, ..eventually we discussed the situation, came up with a plan that works for us and I am good with our situation. I am very open to her enjoying sex with other men, I am however, not into being humiliated. It may not fit the usual trend of a cuck, but I am well endowed and enjoy sex play immensely. I get super turned on supporting my wife, and taking part in her cheating sessions... which really isn't cheating as we discuss everything before hand. She has a bf now that I like as well, I am ok with her spending time with him alone occasionally, just needs to share when she gets home... Oddly, I enjoy the whole concept...

I don't really like the humiliation of a spouse either, I know some are into it & that's alright to, just not my cup of tea. Your situation is " Wife Sharing " which is a much more preferred for most people. So wonderful that y'all have worked it out & can enjoy it.

 

[Mtnmike]

Should have added " Hot Wife " is also what you are doing, sounds much nicer imo

 

[wifewatcher1997]

For a period of 10 or so years, my wife took on a dozen or so lovers. Some were only one-time (after the vetting process) and others lasted longer with a few being off/on for a few years. My wife always had to go through a process of talking, emails, texts, etc. to build rapport and attraction before even meeting and more. I was kept in the loop but I found it more erotic to find out about the hookups after the event and not prior. Sometimes it was a text message from the hotel or his place and sometimes it was that night noticing a hickies on her breast. For us, it was more the hot-wife than the cuckold (even though I would have been fine with that too!). A few occasions I got to watch or participate (MMF and MFM) but mostly she played with her lovers away or when the family and I were out. Yes, she left cum-stained panties on my pillow for me and another time I found three used condoms in my bedside trash can...filled. That was hot as they weren't there in the morning but when I got home from work...surprise.
The best part is one of her initial lovers has remained a friend for the duration and he and I have become friends as well. They have sparked some interest in rekindling the spark this summer and it looks good for a connection soon. I can't wait because I will get to hear and watch it all transpire and reclaim her that night!

 

[davenjenn]

I have done all of what you suggest below. But I suppose for me, having affairs on the road or with friends are the most fun and then telling hubby about it afterwards. He likes cum stains too,

For a period of 10 or so years, my wife took on a dozen or so lovers. Some were only one-time (after the vetting process) and others lasted longer with a few being off/on for a few years. My wife always had to go through a process of talking, emails, texts, etc. to build rapport and attraction before even meeting and more. I was kept in the loop but I found it more erotic to find out about the hookups after the event and not prior. Sometimes it was a text message from the hotel or his place and sometimes it was that night noticing a hickies on her breast. For us, it was more the hot-wife than the cuckold (even thought I would have been fine with that too!). A few occasions I got to watch or participate (MMF and MFM) but mostly she played with her lovers away or when the family and I were out. Yes, she left cum-stained panties on my pillow for me and another time I found three used condoms in my bedside trash can...filled. That was hot as they weren't there in the morning but when I got home from work...surprise.
The best part is one of her initial lovers has remained a friend for the duration and he and I have become friends as well. They have sparked some interest in rekindling the spark this summer and it looks good for a connection soon. I can't wait because I will get to hear and watch it all transpire and reclaim her that night

 

[cubbyfire04]

My husband is a good lover, but he is also a confirmed cuckold and I am very happy to indulge him in his needs.

I have always been a bit of a cheater but as I get older the urge seems to increase and I do my best to make sure that Dave catches me at it. I am past 40 but I am still slim an trim and it's not hard for me to find lovers -- in fact he expects it of me now. And when he watches it turns us both on even more. We were fantasizing last night what a wonderful world it would be if all girls were like me, screwing around and making sure their hubbies know all about it!

What do other's think -- actual and prospective cuckolds. How much do wives want to cuckold their hubbies?

Jenny

In my estimation (and experience) a cuckold's desires are typically rooted in one of two nearly completely opposing ideas. Indulge me in my theory:

1.) Some cuckolds have a deep desire to feel emotionally submissive... It can manifest itself as the need to feel humiliated, embarrassed, jealous, panicked, etc. There's an innate response in all of us when faced with a feeling of helplessness. The weight of that experience varies in all of us, but something is learned once the situation passes. We are rewarded by learning experiences.

Or...

2.) (My perspective) Some cuckolds have a deep desire to be emotionally empowered by witnessing something (or in this case someone) they cherish providing others with, and experiencing some level of joy. Think about the last time you had a delicious meal with friends... "Oh my God, you HAVE to try mine, it's so good!" Doesn't it feel good when they try it and are suddenly experiencing the same excitement as you? The analogy obviously carries lower stakes than watching someone fuck your partner, but the reward pathway is the same.

Obviously none of the two of us are wired to perceive cuckoldry the same way. It varies from being an absolute need to an absolute hard no for both men and women.

 

[davenjenn]

You are probably correct about this and in our case it is #2. the delicious meal variant. I love to provide my hubby with special little tastes along the way.

 

[Islander55]

You ain't just whistling Dixie there, it's been just about impossible trying to find a woman comfortable with an old man.

I can not imagine that many younger women interested in an older man though I am sure there are some. I think it would work better with older women but I know more women start getting away from having sex as they get older so it becomes a woman's market. It is too bad because I think women can more easily enjoy sex as they get older but I think it becomes more of a mental issue. I do know some women my age complaining about their husband's lack of attention but I am not sure how far they would go to scratch that itch.

 

[Mtnmike]

I can not imagine that many younger women interested in an older man though I am sure there are some. I think it would work better with older women but I know more women start getting away from having sex as they get older so it becomes a woman's market. It is too bad because I think women can more easily enjoy sex as they get older but I think it becomes more of a mental issue. I do know some women my age complaining about their husband's lack of attention but I am not sure how far they would go to scratch that itch.

Totally agree, if I was to be honest, I don't really want a young thing. At my age I know i'm slowing down, not in the shape of a 20 something, so just trying to keep up with one would probably kill me lol. I'd rather have a woman closer to my age that likes things I do, go at things a little slower, you know stop & smell the roses. My girls are 27,28 & 32 & I know I was the same at that age but Shit they are always going or doing something everyday, no way I could do that now lol. You are also right about older women, after menopause or other health issues, most have lost their desire. I to have lost some of my desire, not sure if because of age, long term sexless or a combo of both, I miss more the touching, hugging, cuddling etc than the sex itself. I know I weird lol.