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Welcome to BDSM Talk and the Café. If you're new to BDSM, you might want to start out by taking a stroll through our Library (<---clickie), where our Librarians over the years have gone to a great deal of effort to organize and categorize the many many threads created there, and group them in such a way that one might be able to browse through the listings and find topics of interest *to them.*Hi everyone,
My name is Paul and I'm new to BDSM.
I'm 26 years old and looking to create strong long-lasting friendships with others involved in BDSM who are open and willing to talk to someone brand new to it all.
I want to come out of my shell and explore the lifestyle.
I like to think that I'm open-minded about everything and willing to try everything once.
Thank you for listening, hope to hear back from some people soon.
Thanks Anne.
It took me a while to build the courage, though.