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[G00dg1rL]

Hi. I’m new here. I love reading erotica, smut, and real life love/sex/romance stories. I’m in my 30s and still learning/figuring out/unsure of exactly what I want sexually. And probably not very experienced for my age because I’m kinda reserved and vanilla. I like some things sometimes, but then other times those things make me feel bad.



I’m hoping I can share some thoughts/feelings without being made to feel like I’m strange. I mean, i probably am a little strange, but that’s beside the point. Lol

 

[climbon2940]

Hey! Welcome!

 

[Pip84]

Welcome,have a lot of fun xx

 

[Dirtydaydream94]

Hi. I’m new here. I love reading erotica, smut, and real life love/sex/romance stories. I’m in my 30s and still learning/figuring out/unsure of exactly what I want sexually. And probably not very experienced for my age because I’m kinda reserved and vanilla. I like some things sometimes, but then other times those things make me feel bad.



I’m hoping I can share some thoughts/feelings without being made to feel like I’m strange. I mean, i probably am a little strange, but that’s beside the point. Lol

Feel free to message me anytime! No judgment here and welcome to LIT.

 

[Bisexguy70]

Hi. I’m new here. I love reading erotica, smut, and real life love/sex/romance stories. I’m in my 30s and still learning/figuring out/unsure of exactly what I want sexually. And probably not very experienced for my age because I’m kinda reserved and vanilla. I like some things sometimes, but then other times those things make me feel bad.



I’m hoping I can share some thoughts/feelings without being made to feel like I’m strange. I mean, i probably am a little strange, but that’s beside the point. Lol

You wont get any judgement on here. Its good to get some of those feelings off your chest and explore. Writing erotica and sharing your dirty thoughts can be fun. Im not much of a writer but i love sharing things on various posts. Welcome to lit. Were all strange so you'll fit right in!!

 

[Bisexguy70]

I might add its a good idea to write something in your bio. You might mention a few more details about your kinks or fantasies.

 

[cascadiabound]

Welcome. Check the stickies at the top for good information and advice. This is a particularly good one (from the playground):

https://forum.literotica.com/thread...ience-words-of-wisdom-aka-how-to-lit.1561485/

I recommend you be careful in the 1st days/weeks you are on lit. It's a deep rabbithole and while there are lots of good people here there are not so good folks too. I avoid interacting privately with members who have zero or low post numbers. You are not required to respond to people who message you. How people behave on open threads can be a helpful indicator of who they are (but not always).

PS we are all strange here.

 

[G00dg1rL]

I don’t know what I’d even put in the bio. I’m confused and unsure, and trying to figure myself out. I’m shy and mostly vanilla and haven’t had nearly as many partners as most people my age, so I’m kinda at a disadvantage I guess. Idk
I like having orgasms, I know that much. Lol

 

[cascadiabound]

I don’t know what I’d even put in the bio. I’m confused and unsure, and trying to figure myself out. I’m shy and mostly vanilla and haven’t had nearly as many partners as most people my age, so I’m kinda at a disadvantage I guess. Idk
I like having orgasms, I know that much. Lol

You don't need to put anything in your bio.
And omg - I *hope* you like orgasms! They are fun and feel great.

Check out other people's bios as you feel like it, there is a huge range of how people approach this. No rush. You be you. Go slow. Trust yourself. Reveal only what you wish. You don't owe anyone anything.

Be safe.

 

[G00dg1rL]

Welcome. Check the stickies at the top for good information and advice. This is a particularly good one (from the playground):

https://forum.literotica.com/thread...ience-words-of-wisdom-aka-how-to-lit.1561485/

I recommend you be careful in the 1st days/weeks you are on lit. It's a deep rabbithole and while there are lots of good people here there are not so good folks too. I avoid interacting privately with members who have zero or low post numbers. You are not required to respond to people who message you. How people behave on open threads can be a helpful indicator of who they are (but not always).

PS we are all strange here.

Thank you. Yeah, I’ve already had like 8 guys message me.

I’m not trying to get into any virtual relationships. Just hoping maybe I can learn some things and get some insight from people who have had more/different experiences.

 

[sexymanfun]

Feel free to say hi

 

[cascadiabound]

Thank you. Yeah, I’ve already had like 8 guys message me.

I’m not trying to get into any virtual relationships. Just hoping maybe I can learn some things and get some insight from people who have had more/different experiences.

I wouldn't be surprised if you get several dozen private messages. I recall being completely overwhelmed by messages and my ingrained good manners did not serve me particularly well.

There is so much good information here and good insights on so many topics. Read threads. Read and read. If there is a topic that you are curious about, use the search function to find threads about it. Talk has more threads that have conversations about things, but the Cafe sometimes does too.
The BDSM library stickie at the top can be helpful, but it has not been curated or added to in a long time, so some information may be out of date.

 

[twister947]

Welcome, and stay safe.

 

[Boat1]

I don’t know what I’d even put in the bio. I’m confused and unsure, and trying to figure myself out. I’m shy and mostly vanilla and haven’t had nearly as many partners as most people my age, so I’m kinda at a disadvantage I guess. Idk
I like having orgasms, I know that much. Lol

...there's not a thing in the world wrong with any of that!... Please don't think that ANY of that lessens you in any way whatsoever.
Also, the advice from @cascadiabound in posts #7 #9 and #12 is excellent, sound advice IMHO

 

[Boat1]

Hi. I’m new here. I love reading erotica, smut, and real life love/sex/romance stories. I’m in my 30s and still learning/figuring out/unsure of exactly what I want sexually. And probably not very experienced for my age because I’m kinda reserved and vanilla. I like some things sometimes, but then other times those things make me feel bad.



I’m hoping I can share some thoughts/feelings without being made to feel like I’m strange. I mean, i probably am a little strange, but that’s beside the point. Lol

Also, I LOVE the message/sentiment or this thread!
Please take it to heart!

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/do-you-know-how-great-you-are.1613898/

 

[Tallcajun]

Welcome, and stay safe.

What twister said. Ditto!
Take your time getting to know the place.

 

[ChasBozwell30]

Hi. I’m new here. I love reading erotica, smut, and real life love/sex/romance stories. I’m in my 30s and still learning/figuring out/unsure of exactly what I want sexually. And probably not very experienced for my age because I’m kinda reserved and vanilla. I like some things sometimes, but then other times those things make me feel bad.



I’m hoping I can share some thoughts/feelings without being made to feel like I’m strange. I mean, i probably am a little strange, but that’s beside the point. Lol

Hi, welcome to the site!
You'll find a lot of like minded people here. It's a great place to discuss yourself and learn about yourself. I've definately learned a lot about myself here. And there's nothing more normal than being a little strange, we all are x

I hope you have a lovely time here x

 

[drobert44]

Hi. I’m new here. I love reading erotica, smut, and real life love/sex/romance stories. I’m in my 30s and still learning/figuring out/unsure of exactly what I want sexually. And probably not very experienced for my age because I’m kinda reserved and vanilla. I like some things sometimes, but then other times those things make me feel bad.



I’m hoping I can share some thoughts/feelings without being made to feel like I’m strange. I mean, i probably am a little strange, but that’s beside the point. Lol

You are in the right place….

 

[Blueeyes4u100]

Hi. I’m new here. I love reading erotica, smut, and real life love/sex/romance stories. I’m in my 30s and still learning/figuring out/unsure of exactly what I want sexually. And probably not very experienced for my age because I’m kinda reserved and vanilla. I like some things sometimes, but then other times those things make me feel bad.



I’m hoping I can share some thoughts/feelings without being made to feel like I’m strange. I mean, i probably am a little strange, but that’s beside the point. Lol

Welcome and just have fun here. It is a great place to explore, meet new friends and mostly enjoy yourself.

You can share your thoughts or feelings with me anytime goodg1rl. Just message me here anytime.

Have an awesome day and remember you smile.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Hi! Welcome to Lit. Feel free to poke around, find what might interest you, go down a rabbit hole or two. Just be you, even if you’re not sure what that means yet.

 

[DinglyDangly]

Hi. I’m new here. I love reading erotica, smut, and real life love/sex/romance stories. I’m in my 30s and still learning/figuring out/unsure of exactly what I want sexually. And probably not very experienced for my age because I’m kinda reserved and vanilla. I like some things sometimes, but then other times those things make me feel bad.



I’m hoping I can share some thoughts/feelings without being made to feel like I’m strange. I mean, i probably am a little strange, but that’s beside the point. Lol

This is the place where strange will seem like vanilla, once you've been here a while.

 

[Dreamliner]

Enjoy your time here gg. You may find a few threads somewhat intimidating, however, overtime I am sure you will settle in an find your best fit.