I used to be exclusively Chat, but I'm now almost 100% Forum

kreemi_pi

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I'm in the process of what seems to be a complete transition from Chat to Forum.

There are advantages and disadvantages to both. Most of my reasons, though, are more specific to me than systemic.

I suppose right now I just feel that Forum suits me better. It allows me to express myself better and show more of my sexuality and sense of humor.

I tried to talk to people about it in open chat. Nobody seemed to really care, they're Chatters and many don't even know what Forum is. I never saw many who did both.

I don't have a question. I'm just talking. Jump in if you want.
 
I ditched chat a while back. Always felt a bit samey or else like there was some in joke going on which I didn't get. Forum lets me post in detail. People either like or they don't. I'm ok with that.
 
I ditched chat a while back. Always felt a bit samey or else like there was some in joke going on which I didn't get. Forum lets me post in detail. People either like or they don't. I'm ok with that.
Yeah I hear you about th inside jokes. Also, sometimes it's just dominated by a few people that know each other and it shuts down everyone else.
 
Yeah I hear you about th inside jokes. Also, sometimes it's just dominated by a few people that know each other and it shuts down everyone else.
Some of the forum threads are a bit exclusive too. Try and break into them or avoid them. On the forum there's always another thread to join or start one yourself - like you just did!
 
Some of the forum threads are a bit exclusive too. Try and break into them or avoid them. On the forum there's always another thread to join or start one yourself - like you just did!
I've started a few threads, they never go anywhere. I haven't cracked the code yet
 
I start some though not recently. Occasionally one takes off, some flame and die, most fizzle out fairly quickly. A metaphor for my sex life perhaps. I love posting on other threads. Nothing posted nothing gained.
 
I'm in the process of what seems to be a complete transition from Chat to Forum.

There are advantages and disadvantages to both. Most of my reasons, though, are more specific to me than systemic.

I suppose right now I just feel that Forum suits me better. It allows me to express myself better and show more of my sexuality and sense of humor.

I tried to talk to people about it in open chat. Nobody seemed to really care, they're Chatters and many don't even know what Forum is. I never saw many who did both.

I don't have a question. I'm just talking. Jump in if you want.
I love your thread posts, very lively, sharp, funny. I gave up chat after a few minutes. Just a zoo!
 
I'm in the process of what seems to be a complete transition from Chat to Forum.

There are advantages and disadvantages to both. Most of my reasons, though, are more specific to me than systemic.

I suppose right now I just feel that Forum suits me better. It allows me to express myself better and show more of my sexuality and sense of humor.

I tried to talk to people about it in open chat. Nobody seemed to really care, they're Chatters and many don't even know what Forum is. I never saw many who did both.

I don't have a question. I'm just talking. Jump in if you wan
 
I've started a few threads, they never go anywhere. I haven't cracked the code yet
I think it relies on getting the right people sucked into a well thought out topic.

AmPics has several successful, self feeding threads, but I think you have to have the time to stoke the fire, which most of us do not. That assumes of course you're into sharing yourself like that. There are a couple though that seem to be more of a personalized hangout.

Otherwise, find a few of the long running threads, like the games in The Playground and make yourself a regular. You'll find your people pretty quick that way.
 
I like the anonymity & privacy of chat. Next day no one knows what’s been said. Whereas in the forum you can get notifications for things I said months ago & had long forgotten about.

But someone of your humour and wit is wasted in the chat
 
I’ve only been in Lit a short while. Looked at chat originally and it seemed very “quick” and random. I was seeking more substantial “conversations “ on a few topics so searching the Forum and then engaging in private messages from there has proven more satisfying. However, I became chagrined then ultimately amused by a large number of individuals in a forum that indicate they want to chat about a specific topic and then when I attempt to start a conversation, they ghost or respond in very short sentences and don’t really have much to say or just “like” my comments.
It confused me at first but then I learned to lower my expectations.😭😭
 
A blend of both forum and chat works best for me. I always start in the forum posting replies and browsing around.....which sometimes elicit a back and forth with someone who's interested in the same kinks as me. I love when these interactions go private in a sexy hot PM chat.
 
A blend of both forum and chat works best for me. I always start in the forum posting replies and browsing around.....which sometimes elicit a back and forth with someone who's interested in the same kinks as me. I love when these interactions go private in a sexy hot PM chat.
They are the best , the outcome can be good too
 
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