Lately I've been watching more and more gay videos, and they keep turning me on. Just today I sent pics of my cock to other guys around my area. I've built a friendship with this one guy, and I think we are going to meet up soon. I've never done anything with a guy before so I'm nervous about it but also excited for the first time. Sorry if this is a useless post, but I thought i would share with you what I think is a major point in my life.
I think I am bi-sexual
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stlpenguin
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I have a few comments :
First, I've recently become very disenchanted with labels in general. If I were to label myself, I might call myself a bisexual male with some notable gender identity issues. However, I'm not sure assigning yourself a package of qualifications under one label is a healthy thing. What, exactly, does being bisexual actually mean? Do you want to have sex with a man? Are you simply interested in a certain aspect of the act, such as oral or anal? Or, are you romantically attracted to men? Would you like a boyfriend? Could you cuddle and watch a movie with a guy?
I think bisexual means something entirely different to everyone who calls themselves that. I consider myself gender dysphoric, or transgendered, or whatever. Call it what you will, I believe a large part of my identity to be female. So, while I refer to myself as bisexual, I believe I'd be able to have a romantic relationship with a man because it satisfies a feminine urge in me. Sex is nice and all, but there's a lot more to it than that.
Think about what you're looking for in a man. It's okay to call yourself bisexual. Just take some time to think about what your needs and desires are, and make sure that before you assign yourself that label, you understand that it doesn't define you.
Secondly, make sure, PLEASE, that you're going about finding a hook-up with a guy in a safe way, or that a hook-up is really what you want. (I assume a hook-up is all you're looking for, as you're sending out pictures of your meat-hammer without even knowing the guys you're sending it to). Give some thought to actually meeting someone before jumping right into sticky fondling. If nothing else, as you're still seemingly in doubt about what direction your sexuality is headed, taking the time to get to know the guy might give you a better grasp on whether you want a man or just a penis in your life. Also, if the answer turns out to be "neither," you've not made a terrible mistake.
Some food for thought. As always, good luck finding your happiness - and if you bottom, remember to use a LOT of lube.
First, I've recently become very disenchanted with labels in general. If I were to label myself, I might call myself a bisexual male with some notable gender identity issues. However, I'm not sure assigning yourself a package of qualifications under one label is a healthy thing. What, exactly, does being bisexual actually mean? Do you want to have sex with a man? Are you simply interested in a certain aspect of the act, such as oral or anal? Or, are you romantically attracted to men? Would you like a boyfriend? Could you cuddle and watch a movie with a guy?
I think bisexual means something entirely different to everyone who calls themselves that. I consider myself gender dysphoric, or transgendered, or whatever. Call it what you will, I believe a large part of my identity to be female. So, while I refer to myself as bisexual, I believe I'd be able to have a romantic relationship with a man because it satisfies a feminine urge in me. Sex is nice and all, but there's a lot more to it than that.
Think about what you're looking for in a man. It's okay to call yourself bisexual. Just take some time to think about what your needs and desires are, and make sure that before you assign yourself that label, you understand that it doesn't define you.
Secondly, make sure, PLEASE, that you're going about finding a hook-up with a guy in a safe way, or that a hook-up is really what you want. (I assume a hook-up is all you're looking for, as you're sending out pictures of your meat-hammer without even knowing the guys you're sending it to). Give some thought to actually meeting someone before jumping right into sticky fondling. If nothing else, as you're still seemingly in doubt about what direction your sexuality is headed, taking the time to get to know the guy might give you a better grasp on whether you want a man or just a penis in your life. Also, if the answer turns out to be "neither," you've not made a terrible mistake.
Some food for thought. As always, good luck finding your happiness - and if you bottom, remember to use a LOT of lube.
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Well, it sounds as if you are ready to take the plunge, as it were. Many of us here were in the same situation once upon a time, having realized that we wanted to try something different, and taken steps to bring the desire to reality. I congratulate you on your willingness to explore your sexuality in this new way, and wish you the very best experience.
It's good that you have taken a little time to build a friendship with your potential partner. That's the best way, IMO, and any time taken to get to know a sex partner and build a comfort level will surely enhance the experience when you are finally naked together.
Go for it, be safe and sensible, and above all, enjoy yourself. Here's wishing you an incredible first time with another man. I hope you will share everything with us afterwards.
It's good that you have taken a little time to build a friendship with your potential partner. That's the best way, IMO, and any time taken to get to know a sex partner and build a comfort level will surely enhance the experience when you are finally naked together.
Go for it, be safe and sensible, and above all, enjoy yourself. Here's wishing you an incredible first time with another man. I hope you will share everything with us afterwards.
human_male
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Feel free to post about anything you damn well like. And keep us informed about your hookup.
I suppose I must be bisexual too though that label doesn't really seem to fit me either.
I suppose I must be bisexual too though that label doesn't really seem to fit me either.
