I Just Wish I Would Have....
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those damned juicy questions
I am learning. Sometimes it's painful, sometimes I kick myself in the ass, and sometimes I am overwhelmed with joy.
More than anything else, as I grow, I am learning that I cannot change the past, but I can change my present, and thus, perhaps, my future.
"My only regret is that I was not born somebody else." - Woody Allen
That said, can I suck your pussy out?
I am learning. Sometimes it's painful, sometimes I kick myself in the ass, and sometimes I am overwhelmed with joy.
More than anything else, as I grow, I am learning that I cannot change the past, but I can change my present, and thus, perhaps, my future.
"My only regret is that I was not born somebody else." - Woody Allen
That said, can I suck your pussy out?
alltherage
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I would have had sex with women much younger, would not have married my ex(still would want the kids though) and I would have worked harder on my education earlier.
Re: those damned juicy questions
You are absolutely right, riff. We are always learning..and yes I am constantly kicking myself in the ass...I thought with age that I would get smarter...I guess at 38 I still have lots to learn.
Cassidy,
who is always ready for riff's tongue
riff said:I am learning. Sometimes it's painful, sometimes I kick myself in the ass, and sometimes I am overwhelmed with joy.
More than anything else, as I grow, I am learning that I cannot change the past, but I can change my present, and thus, perhaps, my future.
"My only regret is that I was not born somebody else." - Woody Allen
That said, can I suck your pussy out?
You are absolutely right, riff. We are always learning..and yes I am constantly kicking myself in the ass...I thought with age that I would get smarter...I guess at 38 I still have lots to learn.
Cassidy,
who is always ready for riff's tongue
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I had this friend and she was going thru a really tough time in her marriage, we both knew that if they did spilt up, the two of us would have beed together. One night, she and I went out and met for drinks so she could talk things out. We ended up drinking a little to much and we started flirting and turning each other on. We ended up in my car kissing and feeling each other up. We were interupted by the people getting in the next car, and then it hit us that she was still married and we had to stop. I only talked to her a couple times on the phone after that and she ended up back with her husband (which is a good thing for her).
I just wish I would have had that night with her, she was so fine and had just about everything I was looking for in a woman. I know we did the right thing by stopping, but Damn, I wish I would have!
I just wish I would have had that night with her, she was so fine and had just about everything I was looking for in a woman. I know we did the right thing by stopping, but Damn, I wish I would have!
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Good Gawd, JL!
How far back are we supposed to look. . .and how long are these posts supposed to be...?
~H~
How far back are we supposed to look. . .and how long are these posts supposed to be...?
~H~
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What if .....
I had stayed in Colorado ... would I had finished what I started there ....
I had said yes to meeting his mother & not freaking out cause he was getting serious..
I had taken that interview - would I be a docotor of some sort by now...?!?
I had accepted that photography scholarship .....
Just some things I wonder about from time to time.
I had stayed in Colorado ... would I had finished what I started there ....
I had said yes to meeting his mother & not freaking out cause he was getting serious..
I had taken that interview - would I be a docotor of some sort by now...?!?
I had accepted that photography scholarship .....
Just some things I wonder about from time to time.
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Fly_On_Wall
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Looking back i've done nothing, so there isn't much I can say I regret or would like to change.
mabey the change i'd like to make is actualy getting out there with people more often
mabey the change i'd like to make is actualy getting out there with people more often
Hamletmaschine said:Good Gawd, JL!
How far back are we supposed to look. . .and how long are these posts supposed to be...?
~H~
Have you made that many bad choices?? LOL.....
I thought that maybe everyone has at least one very memorable choice they made that redefined their lives..I don't ask for much..just a pint of emotional blood now and then.
So tell me..
Cassidy
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If it's 'blood' ya want . . .
Blood ye shall have, o juicy one.
Actually, I don't spend a lot of time kicking myself over the wouldacouldashoulda's in my life. With one major exception:
The only member of my family that I was close to was my brother, who was in many ways my best friend. He died unexpectedly a few years ago, and I regret that I didn't have a chance to see or speak to him one last time.
I regret that almost every day since it happened.
~H~
Blood ye shall have, o juicy one.
Actually, I don't spend a lot of time kicking myself over the wouldacouldashoulda's in my life. With one major exception:
The only member of my family that I was close to was my brother, who was in many ways my best friend. He died unexpectedly a few years ago, and I regret that I didn't have a chance to see or speak to him one last time.
I regret that almost every day since it happened.
~H~
riff
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What if
I had not quit graduate school and stayed in Florida?
I had done a term of service in the military instead of rushing off to college?
I had never answered a letter from a Russian girl?
I had developed a romantic relationship with a very good friend of mine in Florida. Would it have worked?
What if I had turned down the job I have been working at for 4 years (longest ever and time to change, I think)?
What if I had ever gotten married or had the courage to ask?
I don't know. I'm here as I am. I don't know if I regret some of the what ifs because I am enjoying (though not content in many ways) with my life.
And the discontents are really just messages to me from myself that the ball is in my court and all I need do is make decisions and take action.
What if I had never bought that bottle of astroglide? LOL
I had not quit graduate school and stayed in Florida?
I had done a term of service in the military instead of rushing off to college?
I had never answered a letter from a Russian girl?
I had developed a romantic relationship with a very good friend of mine in Florida. Would it have worked?
What if I had turned down the job I have been working at for 4 years (longest ever and time to change, I think)?
What if I had ever gotten married or had the courage to ask?
I don't know. I'm here as I am. I don't know if I regret some of the what ifs because I am enjoying (though not content in many ways) with my life.
And the discontents are really just messages to me from myself that the ball is in my court and all I need do is make decisions and take action.
What if I had never bought that bottle of astroglide? LOL
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I wish I would have gone to college straight after H.S. graduation as opposed to working 2 jobs!
Because it's been a lot harder now to go through school, work and be a full time mom. It would have been much easier way back when.
But such as life. I try not to live my life with regrets and what ifs.
Because it's been a lot harder now to go through school, work and be a full time mom. It would have been much easier way back when.
But such as life. I try not to live my life with regrets and what ifs.
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I can't say that I've always made the best choices, but I know that I always did what I felt was right for me at the time. There are days that I have regrets, like wishing I was still single, but I'm glad that I found someone that loves me as much as he does. Sure I think about leaving him from time to time, but would that leave me any better off than I am now? I'd still be miserable. At least with staying with him, the miserable days are less often.
I do have only one regret I can honestly hold myself accountable for. I was with my first true love for a year or so, we broke up and after I bounced back with someone new, he came back and wanted me again. I turned him down. I do wish that I'd have seen where that path would have gone. But then again, I'm glad I didn't, I wouldn't have found true love a second time! I have learned to grab each moment before it passes me by. And not to wish for it to come to me, but to go out and grab it.
I do have only one regret I can honestly hold myself accountable for. I was with my first true love for a year or so, we broke up and after I bounced back with someone new, he came back and wanted me again. I turned him down. I do wish that I'd have seen where that path would have gone. But then again, I'm glad I didn't, I wouldn't have found true love a second time! I have learned to grab each moment before it passes me by. And not to wish for it to come to me, but to go out and grab it.
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We all have what if's, things that we either regret not doing or wish we would not have done in the past.
But, we are what we have experienced and learned in our lives and without those experiences we would not be who we are today.
So, do I have regrets? Yes. Do I wish I would have not done some things? Yes. But I am who I am because of them. So I guess I really wouldn't change anything.
But, we are what we have experienced and learned in our lives and without those experiences we would not be who we are today.
So, do I have regrets? Yes. Do I wish I would have not done some things? Yes. But I am who I am because of them. So I guess I really wouldn't change anything.
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Regrets, what-if's? I think Sabineteas wrote it best. Yes, I have had my share of them and probaby will continue to keep having them in my life.
People are in constant change - as they get older their values and their needs change. I'm not the same person I was yesterday and tomorrow I won't be the same person I am today.
Have I learned from my mistakes? In some ways I have, in other ways I still continue to make some of them over and over no matter how much I know what the outcome will be.
Marriage, job, having one last time with someone - some of these things we'll never know because we can't go back and do them over again.
I just wish I could see the future sometimes, but then again, maybe the future wouldn't want to see me. And it seems the past has hurried me along, it went by too quickly.
Enchanted
People are in constant change - as they get older their values and their needs change. I'm not the same person I was yesterday and tomorrow I won't be the same person I am today.
Have I learned from my mistakes? In some ways I have, in other ways I still continue to make some of them over and over no matter how much I know what the outcome will be.
Marriage, job, having one last time with someone - some of these things we'll never know because we can't go back and do them over again.
I just wish I could see the future sometimes, but then again, maybe the future wouldn't want to see me. And it seems the past has hurried me along, it went by too quickly.
Enchanted
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juicylips said:
Wisely said, S.
You sound so comfortable to be who you are. I envy you.
Cassidy
Cassidy, thank you. Am I comfortable with who I am? Not always, because I always could be better. But then, I hope I am as good as I can be, because to be less would be a waste.
The key is to always try to be your best. If one does that, you can eliminate many regrets.
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My only regret is that I should have been a lot more careful with my money. I've tried to always live for the moment, but it was much easier when I had a job!! Now, at 49 and unemployed, it appears I haven't saved a thing!! Hopefully I will still have time to learn my lesson!
Hopefully I will still have time to learn my lesson!
