I have a question for the tied the knott people

[creme de'menth]

If your married or w/ only one person are you completely happy with that person as far as never having sex with another again?

Or do you sometimes think about how exciting it use to be having sex with a new person or a one night person etc..

 

[BgMma]

I thought of other people sometimes. That isn't a big deal. Fantasising is normal, just be sure to share them. Your partner and you should be willing to explore them together.
Edited to add that I do not condone cheating, but I do think that random thoughts do no harm as long as they stay just thoughts

 

[babyrose29]

I've been with my man 2 years, but i still can't beat the feeling of having sex with some one for the first time

 

[BgMma]

i enjoy that feeling as well!

 

[creme de'menth]

I don't advise anyone to cheat ever but I just wanted to know if people that are together a long time think about that type of stuff. I guess its only normal.

 

[cricketbug]

IMHO

I personally think it's normal. Hubby and I've been together for 5 years, married for almost 4. It's perfectly normal. We actually have conversations about "What if" it were to happen. BUT, it's only conversations....

 

[Lady K]

I have been married for over 11 years, and been only with my hubby for 12 1/2 yrs. Hell yeah, I think about it and if he said he didn't I would say he's lying. He is very closed to the idea though of acting on his attraction to someone else, so we don't discuss it. I miss that excitement of being with someone new, but I love how close we are too. Absolutely no inhibitions on my part after so long together.

 

[creme de'menth]

I have been married for over 11 years, and been only with my hubby for 12 1/2 yrs. Hell yeah, I think about it and if he said he didn't I would say he's lying. He is very closed to the idea though of acting on his attraction to someone else, so we don't discuss it. I miss that excitement of being with someone new, but I love how close we are too. Absolutely no inhibitions on my part after so long together.

Wow 12 years that's a long time. It's nice though that your so sure of the realtionship.

 

[CrownJoolz]

monogamy

Monogamy doesn't have to mean monotony. When you're in a safe, loving relationship and both parties are open to new ideas, things can be wonderfully exciting. BTW, I'm married almost 13 years.

For me, when I was single, there was nothing worse than having an exquisite physical chemistry with someone, only to discover that person was lousy in bed.

CrownJoolz

 

[ksmybuttons]

Re: monogamy

For me, when I was single, there was nothing worse than having an exquisite physical chemistry with someone, only to discover that person was lousy in bed.

CrownJoolz

I wouldn't risk the special relationship we have for a possible bad experience.

16 years in April married, over 18 years together.