I Don't Want To Be A Good Boy.

[Fly_On_Wall]

Why do I always have to be the Cute one, the nice guy, the good boy, one of the nice people?

I keep to myself, say something when i feel like it but not offten. If someone has a problem, I offer to help the best I can, if someone is feeling down I offer a shoulder and an ear. I try to stay in good grace with all. I'm always around and see and hear things others don't know about. I'm rarly noticed unless I make it a point to be. This has giveing me the nice guy identity .

But sometimes I feel like brakeing open my shell and becomeing a whole new Nasty, mean me. hehe Like that would ever happen.

the question....
... To stay the nice guy, and make friends easyer.
Or to be the bad bay that is inside me trying to get out and have people say. " He was so quiet and nice, we never expected this of him"

Or is there a commen middle ground.

signed the Bad Boy trying to get out

 

[Guest]

Me too. Except for the male part.

(cookie difficulties)

 

[Mellon Collie]

Well, I suppose you could always develop multiple personalities like STG. But I like you just the way you are.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

there is an in between.. and i'll bet you can find it if you really want to... why dont you start by ripping off all your clothes and showing us all what you're really made of?

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

Same as you Willing. I'm carbon based organisum

I couldn't 'rip' off all my cloths then what would i wear later?

 

[Willing and Unsure]

well then take them all off... just get nekkid and let us help you become that rebel within

 

[MysticSwing]

HERE HERE!!

well then take them all off... just get nekkid and let us help you become that rebel within

I agree! Bad boy?? Yoo-hoo, where are you?? Come out, come out where ever you are!!
~~Mystic

 

[juicylips]

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the question....
... To stay the nice guy, and make friends easyer.
Or to be the bad bay that is inside me trying to get out and have people say. " He was so quiet and nice, we never expected this of him"

Or is there a commen middle ground.

signed the Bad Boy trying to get out

I think most of us want to do what you are talking about. But fear of what others thinks holds us back.
We would still love you if you showed us a "bad boy" side every now and then.

Cassidy,
who likes both sides of you

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

I try I try.... but i can't seem to pull away from the way i act... Unless i get pissed


Then that is a whole other me...

 

[Isabella Thorne]

Why do I always have to be the Cut one, the nice guy, the good boy, one of the nice people?

signed the Bad Boy trying to get out

what's that darling? you cut one? now that isn't being a good boy at all ...

ha ha ha ... you just started this whole thing cause you want a spanking ... lol ... you bad bad boy you .... assume the position, baby ...
______________________________
When I turned seventeen
We had passion, we had dreams
Thought the love we were fighting for
Was something holy, something more

When I turned twenty-one
we were outside on the run
When I walked out with my girl
We went halfway around the world

I dreamed I saw her standing there
Running for the boy inside the man
I was hit hard by the light so bright it burned
All at once I knew she'd understand
Boy inside the man
The boy inside the man

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

lol You always point out my spelling mistakes in the nicest way isabella *kiss* I'm going to fix it

 

[GuyJD]

So go to your nearby record store, buy the latest P. Diddy CD/tape, and listen to "Bad Boys 4 Life" song about 10 times.

That ought to do it for you. You'll be a Bad Boy 4 Life like me.
Just remember the motto.
************************LOL***********************

We ain't going no where...........we ain't going nowhere........WE ARE....BAD BOYS 4 LIFE!!!

 

[celiaKitten]

Fly - the good boy was not the one showing me the boxer briefs...

 

[horny_giraffe]

So you want to be evil

I can understand that. Nobody wants to be the guy that nobody finds tough enough to be threatening. It sounds like you feel like someone is stepping on your toes.

I remember that my ex was flirting with me shamelessly a few weeks ago. I was starting to feel like one of those guys that she thought she could say anything to because she knew I was never going to do anything.

The next time she made an overly sexual comment, I pulled her close, grabbed her ass, and whispered a rude and filthy invitation in her ear. That shut HER up pretty quick. No more Mr. nice guy.
Called her bluff.

As far as I'm concerned, I never wanted to be evil. Being evil is easy. What I really wanted was to be threatening. I don't want to be Steve Urkel, some guy you could count on to squeak a lot, but never actually do anything. I just want some friggin' respect.

 

[celiaKitten]

Ummm, wow girraffe ....



yeah, wow.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

horny_giraffe that's what i ment hehe... That's what I'd 'like' to do hehe.... but i cna't go against who i am I'd end up just being nice and listning

 

[horny_giraffe]

So you want to be evil

I can understand that. Nobody wants to be the guy that nobody finds tough enough to be threatening. It sounds like you feel like someone is stepping on your toes.

I remember that my ex was flirting with me shamelessly a few weeks ago. I was starting to feel like one of those guys that she thought she could say anything to because she knew I was never going to do anything.

The next time she made an overly sexual comment, I pulled her close, grabbed her ass, and whispered a rude and filthy invitation in her ear. That shut HER up pretty quick. No more Mr. nice guy.
Called her bluff.

As far as I'm concerned, I never wanted to be evil. Being evil is easy. What I really wanted was to be threatening. I don't want to be Steve Urkel, some guy you could count on to squeak a lot, but never actually do anything. I just want some friggin' respect.

 

[celiaKitten]

Fly ........

Come out come out ..

 

[Silverlily]

I try I try.... but i can't seem to pull away from the way i act... Unless i get pissed


Then that is a whole other me...

Sounds like a motivation issue. Why wait until you're angry? Didn't anyone tell you women go for the bad boy? There is something unbelievably intriguing about a man (or woman) revealing a newer, darker side. Take it in stages, a few smart ass comments here, a sharp one liner there, you get the idea.

Good luck, I'm looking forward to watching the transformation.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

Okay Kitten eyes, will do... been trying awhile though. It's just hard to be mean to people
Unless they really really need it

 

[Silverlily]

two things

a. You don't have to be mean to be the bad boy, just wicked.

b. Some people need to be handle roughly, in fact, some prefer it.


go on, make your next post sneer....please

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

OMG......

I"m rolling on the floor here cause i'm trying to come up with a snear..... but all i can think of in response to you is........

Thanks for the advice, I'll keep that in mind.

oh shit. I can't stop laughing....... Oh i do good at being bad hahaha

 

[Silverlily]

lol

Not really a good start is it? (but a very endearing one )



psst - it's spelled sneer, no wonder you can do it.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

Yes but I'm dyslexic so spelling means squat to me.


lol... How about I add on a little Piss off ( is that good)

 

[PowerOfOne]

I once dated a "good guy", as you put it, with the same traits. Being the evil person that I am I ...errrr...helped him to come out of his shell. I created a monster and he is now breaking hearts all over the place. Needless to say, he is not with me so my "creation" turned on me. Be careful what you wish for. There is nothing wrong with being a "nice", "shy" guy. I would prefer you over the monster that I created.