How Many Virgins Have You Initiated
I'm not interested in this from a "notches on the bedpost" perspective. Rather, how many people chose you to have one of their most significant (at least potentially) life events with.
Personally, I'm in my 50's and had the honor of deflowering (I hate that term) three girls/women. The first was my girlfriend at my Senior year in HS, at my all night party--we were both 17. We crept away from everyone else and did it in a field--not the best experience but memorable. She later married a friend and I see her and her husband occasionally.
Later that summer, my present wife and I did it for her first time in a bed listening to a Johnny Mathis record--this was a long time ago--1965. Very romantic and sensual. Unfortunately, it was pretty painful for her so we had to finish the job the next day in a local woods. This time, she really got into it and began a life time of hot sex--slightly less hot these days unfortunately.
My last experience was a Jewish girl my Freshman year of college. We had a hot 3 month romance which then fizzled due to cultural differences, etc. She had a Jewish boyfriend at home but didn't want him to "be the one"--I never understood why. I know they eventually married but don't know if she ever told him about me and her first experience.
One that I'll always regret is a high school & college G/F who asked me to initiate her during Christmas Break our Sophomore year. We hadn't seen each other in quite awhile so I was really surprised and felt truly honored. Unfortunately, we were both pretty drunk at the time w/ no "protection" and in her home with the possibility of her parents walking in, so I declined. When she came to visit me for a weekend two months later, I was ready but she was already in a sexual relationship with another guy and while we slept together, we did not have sex. I've recently reconnected with her after 30+ years and we have discussed that time and our lives. I really believe she is the love of my life (and vice versa) and tremendously regret ever letting her get away from me--not in a sexual sense but love & marriage.
I think each of these women would view the loss of their virginity favorably--they were tender, emotional and sensitive moments. At least I certainly hope so.
I'm not interested in this from a "notches on the bedpost" perspective. Rather, how many people chose you to have one of their most significant (at least potentially) life events with.
Personally, I'm in my 50's and had the honor of deflowering (I hate that term) three girls/women. The first was my girlfriend at my Senior year in HS, at my all night party--we were both 17. We crept away from everyone else and did it in a field--not the best experience but memorable. She later married a friend and I see her and her husband occasionally.
Later that summer, my present wife and I did it for her first time in a bed listening to a Johnny Mathis record--this was a long time ago--1965. Very romantic and sensual. Unfortunately, it was pretty painful for her so we had to finish the job the next day in a local woods. This time, she really got into it and began a life time of hot sex--slightly less hot these days unfortunately.
My last experience was a Jewish girl my Freshman year of college. We had a hot 3 month romance which then fizzled due to cultural differences, etc. She had a Jewish boyfriend at home but didn't want him to "be the one"--I never understood why. I know they eventually married but don't know if she ever told him about me and her first experience.
One that I'll always regret is a high school & college G/F who asked me to initiate her during Christmas Break our Sophomore year. We hadn't seen each other in quite awhile so I was really surprised and felt truly honored. Unfortunately, we were both pretty drunk at the time w/ no "protection" and in her home with the possibility of her parents walking in, so I declined. When she came to visit me for a weekend two months later, I was ready but she was already in a sexual relationship with another guy and while we slept together, we did not have sex. I've recently reconnected with her after 30+ years and we have discussed that time and our lives. I really believe she is the love of my life (and vice versa) and tremendously regret ever letting her get away from me--not in a sexual sense but love & marriage.
I think each of these women would view the loss of their virginity favorably--they were tender, emotional and sensitive moments. At least I certainly hope so.
It was worth it. I like showing people their true destiny 
