how long do you wait

cajunman

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how long do you wait to cheat or divorce when your spouse says that they do not like sex anymore
 
cajunman said:
how long do you wait to cheat or divorce when your spouse says that they do not like sex anymore

Only you know what's right for you. Cheating is never good. Divorce is an option though, especially when you think in terms of the rest of your life.
 
I'd look at them and say well, YOU are sure going to miss it!

Divorce is optional as well as having sex with someone else.

The question is did they mean sex with you?
 
I would suggest counseling or try to get to the root of the real problem. If it were the end of desire I would pursue a divorce within a year or opt for an open marriage if it was acceptable to my partner.
 
Nora said:


It's only polite to give them a chance to change their mind first.

Are you always so polite? Im not sure I would be in the same situation! :D
 
oh

this is a thread for me.. I'm currently in this very situation. See, I am the one that doesn't want sex with my SO. But it's not because I don't love him or because he doesn't turn me on.

It's because sex hurts. (Medical condition that I'm trying to find a solution/cure for)

It's possible that the person not wanting to have sex has a emotional/physical problem.

Cheating nor divorce is going to change that.

Seek counseling and/or have the person get a check up. A lot of people as they age have a lack of sexual desires.

Menopause can cause problems as well as depression and a variaty of other health problems.

If you love the person.. find a way to get to the root of the "problem"

If it's just the person doesn't love you.. get a divorce... then find another relationship to be in.
 
Lady X said:


Are you always so polite? Im not sure I would be in the same situation! :D

lol I figure he could masturbate for a good 15, 20 minutes. Take a shower, get duded up in some lounge lizard clothes and by the time he's done splashing on his Brute that 43 minutes will have whizzed by! Then he can go find a someone to cheat with on a clear conscience.
 
Nora said:


'xactly.

So, you got 30 minutes, HS.

I usually last longer than that.... and that's without




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Nora said:


lol I figure he could masturbate for a good 15, 20 minutes. Take a shower, get duded up in some lounge lizard clothes and by the time he's done splashing on his Brute that 43 minutes will have whizzed by! Then he can go find a someone to cheat with on a clear conscience.

:D LMAO ... ok
 
HeavyStick said:


I usually last longer than that.... and that's without

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Save it up, baby. Only 20 minutes to go!
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Guess I should shave my legs real fast, eh?
 
Nora said:


Save it up, baby. Only 20 minutes to go!
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Guess I should shave my legs real fast, eh?

nonsense, we can roleplay. I'm the tourist in Paris and you're a local gal.
 
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