How do you like to be spanked?

[Bbl87]

The couple times I've been spanked it was painful and without my prior consent, so...

That sucks.

I really never thought much of spanking as an erotic thing until I was asked to do it (as the spanker). It took some time and exploration, but I've gotten to the point where I do enjoy it, mainly based off my partner enjoying it. No matter what there is a certain amount of pain, just the nature of what it is, but if there's consent and the person doing it actually cares about the enjoyment of the receiver, it can be fun.

 

[Bbl87]

There's a lot of things I hope to enjoy and explore when I'm with the right man

For sure! Word of advice, make sure you find someone really willing to explore! I won't call it a mistake, but I really didn't get that in my current situation.

 

[fma20fma]

Caning is harsh. But if you like pain it’s pretty fun.

yes.

 

[Pink5Frills]

Do you prefer hand, paddle, hairbrush or maybe a caning?
Me, I personally I like a good long hard hand spanking.

Hand spanking by an older woman and myself dressed as a girl, with my skirts up and panties down, over her lap, in a room full of women in their sixties.

 

[PaxNurgle]

If I piss Her off, and if, for whatever reason, She feels like I need some discipline, to be "Broken," then yes! It's hot!
Although I wish I had more of a pain tolerance than I do. Those big, thick leather floggers hurt deep to the bone.

 

[emme8]

Recently I was punished for making to many suggestions. Bob told me to bend over, spread my legs, and hold on to the wall. I was hit with the suede flogger on my ass and pussy. It was delicious. Between that, my ass being fucked hard with a dildo to open me up for Bob's cock, then Bob's cock. It was amazing.
I didn't cum, for several reasons, but I am looking forward to a follow up.
Hopefully Bob will take a few pictures of my red ass.

 

[mrsrobinsonxx]

Do you prefer hand, paddle, hairbrush or maybe a caning?
Me, I personally I like a good long hard hand spanking.

I'm not a great fan of pain, but I recognise that some men do like to inflict it. I'm happy to bend over and get a leathering with a slipper or a belt but I always slip some cotton panties on. Not much protection really, but it does allow him to do it a little harder. I allowed a guy to use a cane once, but 2 strokes was enough. Hand slapping during sex is fine.

 

[aaron2878]

Im not big into pain, but will enjoy a nice bare ass hand spanking. Anything else I'm not going to enjoy.

 

[Gerilynn69]

Over the knee or tied over the bed. I like bare hand, floggers, crops and slap sticks. Thudding more than stings. I prefer to earn my spankings.
Of course getting spanked while getting railed is fantastic.

 

[lanceGibs]

Over the knee or tied over the bed. I like bare hand, floggers, crops and slap sticks. Thudding more than stings. I prefer to earn my spankings.
Of course getting spanked while getting railed is fantastic.

Welts are rewarding

 

[AnnieLit]

I'm not a great fan of pain, but I recognise that some men do like to inflict it.

Men (and women) enjoy giving only as long as you enjoy receiving. That is unless you happen to play with a true sadist, but then you shouldn't be there in the first place.

I allowed a guy to use a cane once, but 2 strokes was enough. Hand slapping during sex is fine.

If this question ever comes up again, don't shy away from a cane because of the past experience. That guy that tried it on you, I am sorry to say, but he had no idea what he was doing. Everyone has their sweet spot - too soft and it does nothing, too harsh and you can't take it. But there is absolutely no way to find it if you don't start light! The first few strikes with ANY new implement should feel almost like a caress, building up anticipation, fear, need. Then slowly increase the impact. And go back to light and easy. Increase again, give a bit more, and up and down, higher and higher at every peak.

 

[Hornynipples61]

I like to be caned on my ass hole. Spread my cheeks and duct tape them open. I like to be on all fours with my legs spread and ass up high and my face down. I also like the diaper position...my arms hooked on my knees spreading them wide.

 

[Older_Pervert]

I like to be caned on my ass hole. Spread my cheeks and duct tape them open. I like to be on all fours with my legs spread and ass up high and my face down. I also like the diaper position...my arms hooked on my knees spreading them wide.

Mmmmm I like the sound of you!

 

[Older_Pervert]

I like to be caned on my ass hole. Spread my cheeks and duct tape them open. I like to be on all fours with my legs spread and ass up high and my face down. I also like the diaper position...my arms hooked on my knees spreading them wide.

I use a cane and/or riding crop……

 

[Hornynipples61]

I use a cane and/or riding crop……

I'd love to get a riding crop. Which is better?

 

[Older_Pervert]

I'd love to get a riding crop. Which is better?

Depends if you’re seeking raw pain/punishment or a steadier, building sensation that’s more sexual/foreplay. The cane is harder and more painful. The crop more adaptable; it can be painful or more playful…..

 

[Lady2020]

Ever so lightly.

 

[cowboyup6977]

Ever so lightly.

To start

 

[sweetheart97]

Bent over, gag in my mouth, skirt on with no panties. A bare hand is lovely. Not too hard with plenty of warm up.

 

[Milene]

I fantasize a lot about having one (or more!) of those wooden sorority paddles used on me, but I think the reality would be too much for me To take.

 

[twister947]

I fantasize a lot about having one (or more!) of those wooden sorority paddles used on me, but I think the reality would be too much for me To take.

In my experience, when the strokes come in relatively quick succession it doesn't take much to overwhelm me to the point of breaking. If the strokes are spaced out and recovery time is allowed between them, I can go forever. That is the key to the door to subspace.

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

I like to be caned on my ass hole. Spread my cheeks and duct tape them open.

mmmmm. I have a few toys that would do quite nicely for that spot ...

 

[Nudisterica32]

Leather strap ,being paddled, I’ve been caned several times

 

[Older_Pervert]

Leather strap ,being paddled, I’ve been caned several times

You sound like my kind of woman!

 

[hopeful_wife]

The crop more adaptable; it can be painful or more playful…..

This is why I have one.