How do you like to be spanked?

[babygirl4u1966]

Do you prefer hand, paddle, hairbrush or maybe a caning?
Me, I personally I like a good long hard hand spanking.

For me it's the humiliation, not the pain. Not that I have any choice, but over the knee and with a firm hand gets me going. But whatever my owner feels is what I deserve is what I get!

 

[Artfan2]

If I could choose I would choose a bare hand on my bare bottom, accompanied by much groping and fondling.

Spanking a bottom that's bare is the best way to do it! Perhaps some slapping of your front as well as spanking your bottom to even things out?

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

He liked over-the-knee spanking the most. It is incredibly intimate to lay across your D’S lap and his body’s response of course made it even hotter.
He always would begin slowly and allow time for me to acclimate to the pain & get my endorphins flowing, making the whole experience delicious and intense.

He would warm up my bottom by rubbing the flat palm of his hand all over it in a variety of directions. He would Progress to raking his nails lightly across my skin before he took his first good swipe.

This describes my method also. I always use a gentle warm-up period of caressing and massaging before hand-swipes of increasing intensity. Sometimes I'll nibble around both cheeks first, or use one or two fingers to "massage" between the cheeks.

Afterwards, always an "after care' period of cool, damp towels and gentle massage.

 

[shewantsmore]

https://imgur.com/LaHnWtF

Thats exciting esp combined with a paddle riding crop or cane

 

[Uncut1969]

Love a good smack on the ass ! Not
Leaving bruises or real red ! Love my cock slapped side to side !

 

[DevotedHusband1]

Neither one of us is into heavy BSDM, but I love taking a spanking from my queen.

Once a week, we will have a relationship inventory. She puts on lingerie and sits in a chair in our bedroom. I get completely naked, kneel before her, and lotion her feet. She talks about how she thinks things have been going in our marriage, what has been good, what could be better, and what will make her happy in her heart. When it's my turn, I avoid criticizing her and focus on talking about things I love about being her husband. I shower her with compliments and tell her how lucky I am. I am always erect at this point, and she likes to tease my shaft with whichever foot I'm not tending to.

After that, it's time to hold me accountable for anything I did in the last week that displeased her. Forgotten errands, backtalk, a poor attitude, subpar bedroom performance -- this is where those issues, when they come up, are addressed. She has me get a hairbrush from her vanity. Then I stand at attention while she takes a firm grip on my balls and we talk about what I did wrong, how it made her feel, and how I can do better. Then she gives me however many swats on my backside she thinks my infraction deserves. A forgotten errand may only get me a couple of love taps, but a mediocre erection, an inopportune ejaculation, or a poor attitude mean that my ass is definitely going to hurt by the time she's done.

This turns us both on tremendously and afterwards we always have sex that is wild and passionate even by our standards. Good times!

 

[longboy2022]

I’m the same… the harder I’m spanked the wetter my pussy gets!
And if I can get some slaps on my boobs or across my pussy too? it feels incredible!

have you been fingered whilst being spanked? asking for a friend.

 

[petes478]

Harder and more often than Hubby is willing to do...

Seriously, my favorite is his open hand on my bare ass. Paddles and straps and floggers can be fun, but if I am gong to be be struck with something other than his hand, I want to be really whipped, and not just on my ass. If I am going to be spanked, I want his hand on my bare bottom (or slapping my boobs, but I think that's taking us out of the spanking discussion). And I sure won't say no to him fondling my boobs or playing with my pussy while he spanks me or between swats, but I'm just happy when he spanks me...

Your husband is lucky to have you

 

[hbcacouple]

I am partial to a bare hand spanking with hard smacks that leave handprints. After enough swats, the sensation is almost like my skin is burning. As my husband mounts me from behind, the pressure of his pelvis against my burning behind is over the top. I always have the most intense orgasms after this kind of treatment. I have not enjoyed being spanked by others. I have tried with men a few times. I was spanked by a woman once. I would try that again. I don't care much for spanking others. I saw a woman cropped on her labia and mons. She was really into it and it was one of the most intense and erotic things that I have ever seen.

 

[eroticspank]

I have fucked a woman doggie style with a freshly spanked ass before. It is amazing how the warmth of her ass feels on my thighs and crotch. I love it.
ES

 

[lil_jenni]

I have fucked a woman doggie style with a freshly spanked ass before. It is amazing how the warmth of her ass feels on my thighs and crotch. I love it.
ES

There was a time that my second favorite thing after a good spanking was to get fucked from behind (my first favorite has always been cock worshipping Hubby afterwards). But then one night after I got a spanking, Hubby flipped me onto my back and fucked me. My God, the friction of my burning ass cheeks against even smooth sheets was amazing. It quickly became my second favorite, until the night he spanked me, flipped me over, strapped me down, and then ate my pussy until I was screaming in pleasure and pain over and and over. That almost even beats worshipping his cock to show I learned my lesson after a spanking... almost.

 

[eroticspank]

There was a time that my second favorite thing after a good spanking was to get fucked from behind (my first favorite has always been cock worshipping Hubby afterwards). But then one night after I got a spanking, Hubby flipped me onto my back and fucked me. My God, the friction of my burning ass cheeks against even smooth sheets was amazing. It quickly became my second favorite, until the night he spanked me, flipped me over, strapped me down, and then ate my pussy until I was screaming in pleasure and pain over and and over. That almost even beats worshipping his cock to show I learned my lesson after a spanking... almost.

That sounds great! I like spanking and pussy eating.
ES

 

[NikkiSiDee]

Tomorrow I will be flogged on my bare Ass. First with a dildo deep in my boipussy until my butt cheeks are crimson red. Second session will begin after the dildo is removed. The anal beads will be shoved up my anus. I will again be flogged until welts and/or blood. Caning may also be used, I hope!

Then my trans lover will fuck me doggy style with her 7 inch SheCock.

In anticipation, I will spend the night highly aroused, locked in a cock cage, dildo in my ass, neck collar locked and holding the flogger and the keys to my cage.

I've been instructed to photograph my preparations, text her the photos, and post them on the internet.

I'm extremely aroused at this long awaited event! It's not for everyone. I'm a very submissive faggot and this is a dream come true event of the highest magnitude for me! I will have multiple orgasms and I will delightfully lick them up!

If I perform up to her expectations, I will be highly rewarded! She will let me suck her cock and eat her scrumptious ASS!

 

[NikkiSiDee]

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[Gln1517]

Naked, bound to bench. I like the hand or flexible paddle. Paddle if a female, definitely a hand if it is a male. The real turn on is to be taken after the spanking, either a dildo or strap on from a female. Cock from a male.

 

[davidsteele]

I liked to be caned on my anus, taint, and balls.

 

[colorfulnayyy]

I’ve enjoyed getting spanked with a hand and flogger. I’d like to explore into paddle play and more hand spanking sound lovely.

 

[touche]

I've discovered I truly enjoy being bound, standing, hands above my head for a good spanking. For tools, I prefer the suede flogger and crop. But we have a silicone 'string' flogger that I really like as well.

 

[fma20fma]

bare bottom/doggy/hard and sharp stinging especially when i am tipsy and mad horny on a weekend anal night plan.

 

[Quitecurious]

Why choose? Love hand spankings as I’m laying across someone’s lap and then moving to other tools. Typically in a session I get spanked with more than one thing. I’ve been spanked with a crop, cane, wooden spoon, hairbrush, and belt all in the same session.

 

[Quitecurious]

Never had a caning. Seems harsh. And of the others or a belt. Hand preferred though.

Caning is harsh. But if you like pain it’s pretty fun.

 

[lanceGibs]

Why choose? Love hand spankings as I’m laying across someone’s lap and then moving to other tools. Typically in a session I get spanked with more than one thing. I’ve been spanked with a crop, cane, wooden spoon, hairbrush, and belt all in the same session.

A higher threshold for pain nudges your threshold for pleasure

 

[Wonderer67]

Last time I got spanked, I was very nervous since I wanted to push myself. We worked out a safe word just in case…

My wife was a little nervous too. She does not like hurting me, but she knows it’s something I sometimes need.

She had me kneel at her feet as she instructed me what to do, what to expect and generally talking me up to get me aroused. (She’s a great dirty talker).

She told me to get in position over her legs, my upper body on our bench, my bum right where she wanted it and my feet barely on the floor… She started with her hand and got me “warmed up” and went on to a paddle. It hurt a lot more but I was determined to take it. She cherried my ass.

At times it hurt so bad I had all of my body weight on her legs as I recoiled in pain from the paddling. (it was wonderful)

I looked over my left shoulder and saw this beautiful blonde woman, sitting so erect with such perfect posture as she spanked me. I looked over my right shoulder and looked down at her beautiful stockinged feeet and shoes.

She said she was done… she read me like an open book. My ass was on fire. I asked for more but she would not.

I was giddy that I took it all. No safe word was used. I was proud of myself.

My ass still has some slight bruise marks, nine days on…

That is how I like to be spanked.

 

[MissPennyLane]

I don't think anything feels as good as an open palm, I really enjoyed a particularly "thuddy" paddle with a partner recently though.
My pain threshold is so different each day, some days I can take an absolute beating and thrive on it, other days one smack is enough to make me cry.

 

[lanceGibs]

I don't think anything feels as good as an open palm, I really enjoyed a particularly "thuddy" paddle with a partner recently though.
My pain threshold is so different each day, some days I can take an absolute beating and thrive on it, other days one smack is enough to make me cry.

A big hug to make you feel better on days you feel like crying