How do you like to be spanked?

[sohc52]

I'm with you on the bare hand spanking. Ideally over the knee or some other slightly degrading position. Caning if the person is well trained in safety and the scene/justification is well executed. In my opinion caning is most pleasurable when already on the verge of subspace. Just as long as it's not a flogger, meh. A flogger has never done anything for me. (Anyone else?)

(I'm rambling to avoid writing a grad school paper, probably need a good spanking for procrastinating)

Are you a woman?

 

[SpanksToYou]

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Very cool video sissy boy26

 

[FunLuvinDesiWife]

Not hard!

 

[MasoBln]

I like it when my eggs are beaten extensively with a wooden spoon.
Cane hits on the soles, five rounds of 100 hits each side.

 

[Dearelliot]

I prefer CBT over spanking because spanking leaves obvious marks. ..If it were not for the marks I prefer a hairbrush or wooden spoon...only by a dominant woman.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

I once get spanked with a flogger, or should I say she attempted to use a flogger. It was way too painful.

Flogger really depends on the material used to make it, the size and width of the falls, how it’s thrown.
A flogger with long wide falls will be more thuddy
A flogger that’s shorter and very thin falls will be more sting.

 

[eroticspank]

I agree. The flogger takes practice to hit the correct spots on the body and with just the right force. It can cause your whole body to tingle all over. Then you feel the sting more, some pain but mostly warmth.
ES

 

[Marcie48]

It starts like this but gets more serious as our arousal builds.Marcie

 

[SissySalina]

Oh, to be spanked in such a way!

https://imgur.com/Cyl6x

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I like to be on all 4's, naked, and taking my Master's across my ass.
When it stings and is red, he gently rubs and it feels so good.

 

[mywife4othermen]

https://imgur.com/OvbAX7Z

 

[mywife4othermen]

https://imgur.com/LaHnWtF

 

[mywife4othermen]

https://imgur.com/M1crPjo

 

[Wonderer67]

I am male and don’t like it too rough. But I like it humiliating.

My wife and I have been reading the book together, “yes Misteress , Why Men crave Female Doninarion” and its a great experience for both of us, since we’re both able to talk about things that turn me on and for her to get more comfortable and get ideas for ways to look, feel and behave more dominant. (It does not come naturally to her). We’ve been sort-of practicing a dominant female relationship over the past 10 years or so and the book has been really helpful for us.

Anyway, we live on a farm and our house is fairly close to a major road. The other day, out of the blue while working, she had me drop my drawers, she had me bend over an old plow that we have behind the house. Cars are passing all over the place - they couldn’t necessarily see us unless they were looking, unless someone pulled down the driveway.

She shackled my wrists to the plow, with some nice soft Velcro handcuffs we use occasionally (she was obviously Planning this) and delivered a wonderful, humiliating spanking, turning my ass pretty pink and then red. The spanking lasted abt 20-25’minutes, and I was turned on by the traffic passing, and the thrill of getting caught and the terror of if someone came down the driveway, since we lease our barn to another farmer.

Fucking hot!!!

 

[eroticspank]

I am male and don’t like it too rough. But I like it humiliating.

My wife and I have been reading the book together, “yes Misteress , Why Men crave Female Doninarion” and its a great experience for both of us, since we’re both able to talk about things that turn me on and for her to get more comfortable and get ideas for ways to look, feel and behave more dominant. (It does not come naturally to her). We’ve been sort-of practicing a dominant female relationship over the past 10 years or so and the book has been really helpful for us.

Anyway, we live on a farm and our house is fairly close to a major road. The other day, out of the blue while working, she had me drop my drawers, she had me bend over an old plow that we have behind the house. Cars are passing all over the place - they couldn’t necessarily see us unless they were looking, unless someone pulled down the driveway.

She shackled my wrists to the plow, with some nice soft Velcro handcuffs we use occasionally (she was obviously Planning this) and delivered a wonderful, humiliating spanking, turning my ass pretty pink and then red. The spanking lasted abt 20-25’minutes, and I was turned on by the traffic passing, and the thrill of getting caught and the terror of if someone came down the driveway, since we lease our barn to another farmer.

Fucking hot!!!

Great to read this story. It sounds like your wife is getting more into domination. I think one thing that some women don't see is the power they have and how it can be intoxicating. Once they get to the point of seeing their partner get very turned on, have an amazing orgasm, or just a completely unexpected reaction; that they created they begin to feel it and like it.
ES

 

[lil_jenni]

Harder and more often than Hubby is willing to do...

Seriously, my favorite is his open hand on my bare ass. Paddles and straps and floggers can be fun, but if I am gong to be be struck with something other than his hand, I want to be really whipped, and not just on my ass. If I am going to be spanked, I want his hand on my bare bottom (or slapping my boobs, but I think that's taking us out of the spanking discussion). And I sure won't say no to him fondling my boobs or playing with my pussy while he spanks me or between swats, but I'm just happy when he spanks me...

 

[Dreamer110]

Harder and more often than Hubby is willing to do...

Seriously, my favorite is his open hand on my bare ass. Paddles and straps and floggers can be fun, but if I am gong to be be struck with something other than his hand, I want to be really whipped, and not just on my ass. If I am going to be spanked, I want his hand on my bare bottom (or slapping my boobs, but I think that's taking us out of the spanking discussion). And I sure won't say no to him fondling my boobs or playing with my pussy while he spanks me or between swats, but I'm just happy when he spanks me...

I certainly hope your husband realizes how lucky he is.

 

[eroticspank]

https://imgur.com/OvbAX7Z

I think that is a flogger? Does anyone know for sure what she is using?
ES

 

[Dearelliot]

I like a ritual spanking for punishment. The Mistress makes me get the riding crop or paddle and undress and go in the other room bent over the sofa, while she talks on the phone. It would be nice if she were talking to another woman, discussing what she was about to do, but that can't happen

 

[LittleSwitchy]

I don’t like being spanked. Now giving spanking. Oh yessssss. Preferably bare hand. Either right on the round of her butt or at the crease between cheek and leg. That’s a great spot to get her attention.
I’ve tried paddles, floggers. To me seemed to lose something. Maybe I just like the personal touch. Nothing like that feeling of skin on skin swats.

 

[Titsandclits]

Harder and more often than Hubby is willing to do...

Seriously, my favorite is his open hand on my bare ass. Paddles and straps and floggers can be fun, but if I am gong to be be struck with something other than his hand, I want to be really whipped, and not just on my ass. If I am going to be spanked, I want his hand on my bare bottom (or slapping my boobs, but I think that's taking us out of the spanking discussion). And I sure won't say no to him fondling my boobs or playing with my pussy while he spanks me or between swats, but I'm just happy when he spanks me...

This is so arousing, you want everything I would love to have the opportunity to do but doubt I ever will.

 

[Retrieversandspaniels]

Harder and more often than Hubby is willing to do...

Seriously, my favorite is his open hand on my bare ass. Paddles and straps and floggers can be fun, but if I am gong to be be struck with something other than his hand, I want to be really whipped, and not just on my ass. If I am going to be spanked, I want his hand on my bare bottom (or slapping my boobs, but I think that's taking us out of the spanking discussion). And I sure won't say no to him fondling my boobs or playing with my pussy while he spanks me or between swats, but I'm just happy when he spanks me...

I’m the same… the harder I’m spanked the wetter my pussy gets!
And if I can get some slaps on my boobs or across my pussy too? it feels incredible!

 

[LittleSwitchy]

I think that is a flogger? Does anyone know for sure what she is using?
ES

That’s a flogger. Hard to tell if she’s actually hitting. She might be fanning or barely missing. He might be anticipating the hit.

 

[stxjimmy]

I’m the same… the harder I’m spanked the wetter my pussy gets!
And if I can get some slaps on my boobs or across my pussy too? it feels incredible!

Does Al fresco UK pussy slapping appeal?

 

[Retrieversandspaniels]

Does Al fresco UK pussy slapping appeal?

That does sound very arousing…