How do you like to be spanked?

I love a good flogging! But I enjoy a bare hand the most. Intimate and raw. Especially when accompanied by a soft touch after a really sharp smack. I love the duality.

It’s funny, as a kid, my dad used the belt, and I think the anticipation was always more intense than the actual spanking...it actually felt like a release of all of that built up emotion...hmmmm...I wonder if that is why I enjoy it so much?

ah, an OTK (Over the Knee) spanking with a. bare hand, the other hand holding your left hand behind your back. Rapid fire spanks........and just once in awhile, with legs open....spank right on that pussy?
 
I'm with you on the bare hand spanking. Ideally over the knee or some other slightly degrading position. Caning if the person is well trained in safety and the scene/justification is well executed. In my opinion caning is most pleasurable when already on the verge of subspace. Just as long as it's not a flogger, meh. A flogger has never done anything for me. (Anyone else?)

(I'm rambling to avoid writing a grad school paper, probably need a good spanking for procrastinating)
Hands are the best.
 
I love a good flogging! But I enjoy a bare hand the most. Intimate and raw. Especially when accompanied by a soft touch after a really sharp smack. I love the duality.

It’s funny, as a kid, my dad used the belt, and I think the anticipation was always more intense than the actual spanking...it actually felt like a release of all of that built up emotion...hmmmm...I wonder if that is why I enjoy it so much?
Good little submissive girl
 
We have an elk skin flogger with a polished wood handle. A good spank soft enough to be used in front as well as in back. I love when she does that. :heart:
 
Tits down, ass up, hands pulled forward and tied to the bedframe. I love bare handed, but a flogger is my favorite when used as a whip to get that stinging from the tips.
 
i prefer otk bare handed spankings till the tears just run down my face.

i love, love,love a good belt spanking.
and i do have kind of a love / hate relationship with the rubber paddle.
but oh..the sting. and the print it leaves. *sigh*
the cane.. on my thighs or calves.

heavy floggers and the bull whip.. yes please.!
also, i love the burning flick of a dragon-tail.
but whipping isn't actually spanking. right?! :D
 
How do I like to be spanked? Frequently.
Bare handed to start, on my belly across the bed. Then if his hand hurts, he can move to more impactful implements, his worn belt would be nice, then the crop, and cane if i have been particularly naughty, or good.:)
 
Wife loves this
 
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I like a bare hand spanking. Hard. I'm also fond of the belt. I've never tried caning, but I would really like to with someone who knows how.
 
I like a variety. Usually my impact starts with a flogger and we end up using 5+ implements. My favorite is the wooden paddle. We are starting to do weekly maintenance spankings and I am so happy.
 
Hands alternating with a quirt.

I've not yet been spanked in the way I'd like. I'd like to be draped over a dominant woman's lap with my penis and balls nestled between her thighs. That way she can squeeze her thighs if I should squirm.
 
I love a long warm-up, and then some sudden, stinging, bun-pinking smacks! I never want to bleed or to end up bruised, but lordy how I love the sting!

Depending on the mood, I sometimes want to know what I'm getting in terms of how many and how hard, sometimes I want mystery. Sometimes I'll say "Meet me in the bedroom and warm me up. I'll need 10 of your best." Other times, I'll say "Roll the dice," which means I'll take the product of the two multiplied together. It could be one--could be 36. I won't know until it's over! (If it's just one, it'll be a heller!)

For the warm ups, I love an open hand--one that alternately caresses and spanks. As I get wet, I love having a finger draw my moisture up onto my ass cheeks between warm-up pats. For the hard stuff, we have a leather paddle and it makes a smacking sound that lights me up almost as much as the sting! We also have a thin wood paddle with holes in it. It doesn't have the rich, deep, whacking sound that the leather does, but yowey, the result!

My life-long lover did it to me the best. She and I traded red butts for 40 years! But my current guy is catching on. I'm nearly insatiable when my ass is "Just right"
 
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I prefer to spank with my hand. But I have spanked with a belt, a buffalo hide flogger, a big suede flogger, two matching turquoise horse floggers with metal handles, a wood paddle, Another wood paddle with a pad on the back of it for more serious or soft spankings, a couple of crops, a variety of kitchen accessories, a hair brush, a fireman’s hose attached to a nice wood handle, a rope spanker with strands of rope, a quirt, a whip, a large dragons tail, a matching set of smaller dragons tails, and maybe a few other things but that’s most of it. Never all at once but on ocassion most of the group one after another :D and actually I don’t like to be spanked at all myself but am glad to help where I can.
 
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Hard. With a hand or with a belt. I like my spankings to sting,and leave welts on my ass.
 
I am shy, crypto-exhibitionist, have a nose for theatre and love shocking people. It is important for me to be seen being punished (or at least be suspected to..).
 
My all time favorite is the deer skin tails on the polished oak flogger my Mistress bought. She prefers to be a "gentle" Mistress. And it makes a great slapping noise on my butt, leaving "softer" welts.
 
I'm a sucker for the classics: either over their knee or leaning over a desk/the bed and spanked by hand. :rose:
 
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