How do you know if you're GAY or if you're BI

[Brinnie]

Are there any surefire ways of finding out?!

Bonus question (2 pts) why the fuck do people not know their orientation?

 

[Samandiriel]

You can tell by how many pairs of shoes you own.

 

[Prime]

i'm still tyring to figure that out myself

 

[mercy's_grace]

Frankly, I'm confused by the question.

 

[RomyDelaney]

It's all about the cats

If you have more than one cat then you're gay. *raises hand*

 

[Brinnie]

If you have more than one cat then you're gay. *raises hand*

and if you have 1 dog?

 

[RomyDelaney]

and if you have 1 dog?

Then you're Bi.

*making this up as I go along

 

[robbie_boy1]

Happy Birthday

and if you have 1 dog?

Not sure how I know, but i like both sexes and have one cat and one dog..lol

 

[The Mutt]

Get in bed with a man and a woman. See which one you spend the most time on.
It may not answer your question, but it will be a hell of a lot of fun.

 

[Queersetti]

Are there any surefire ways of finding out?!

Bonus question (2 pts) why the fuck do people not know their orientation?

There is no surefire way to find out. Some people wrestle with it their whole lives.

One reason that some people don't know their orientation is because of the social stigma attached to homosexuality. They don't want to accept a self image that is so at odds with what they have been taught is socially acceptable.

 

[Mikijl Dragon]

I always viewed it as being:
A. Gay - exclusive to the same sex
B. Straight - exclusive to the opposite sex
C. Bi - not exclusive

A 1-time encounter I would not factor into this, as curiosity is human nature. Thoughts but not acting I would say your curious.

This model works for me and dang it if it works for me it should work for every one else

Bonus round:
People sometimes refuse to introspect because they are afraid of what they may find or they just don’t like being put in a category.

 

[WyldChylde]

I always viewed it as being:
A. Gay - exclusive to the same sex
B. Straight - exclusive to the opposite sex
C. Bi - not exclusive

A 1-time encounter I would not factor into this, as curiosity is human nature. Thoughts but not acting I would say your curious.

This model works for me and dang it if it works for me it should work for every one else

Bonus round:
People sometimes refuse to introspect because they are afraid of what they may find or they just don’t like being put in a category.

You pretty well exactly quoted what I was thinking!

 

[The Mutt]

All of the gay men I know say my "claim" of bisexuality means I am in denial about being gay.
I never used to tell women I was bi because I think it would have made them less likely to want to have sex with me.
Fortunately, my Mistress Miss Oatlash is bi herself, so we can have all sorts of fun together.

 

[SweetErika]

I know I'm bi because I am attracted to and enjoy sex with men and women. I know I'm not a lesbian because I'm attracted to men. Not too difficult.

However, I didn't really know I was bi for a long time because I don't think I saw it as an option. I mainly recall hearing "gay" and "straight" when I was growing up, and since I knew I wasn't gay, I just figured I was straight. I had always dated men, and didn't really have any experience with women, so my feelings about women were mistaken for just a healthy appreciation, which I believed was a normal part of being straight.

 

[The Mutt]

I know I'm bi because I am attracted to and enjoy sex with men and women. I know I'm not a lesbian because I'm attracted to men. Not too difficult.

However, I didn't really know I was bi for a long time because I don't think I saw it as an option. I mainly recall hearing "gay" and "straight" when I was growing up, and since I knew I wasn't gay, I just figured I was straight. I had always dated men, and didn't really have any experience with women, so my feelings about women were mistaken for just a healthy appreciation, which I believed was a normal part of being straight.

I have a healthy appreciation for your AV.

 

[Never]

Try to have sex with everyone you know. If that doesn't work, whip out the Ouija board.

 

[DarkAurora]

lmao @ some of the answers.

Seriously, knowing your sexual orientation is not that hard. When figuring out your sexuality, do not take into count whether you find a man or woman, pretty or cute. Just go on basic sexual instinct. If you want to do sexual things with a man, then you like men. If you want to do sexual things with a woman, then you like women. If you want to do sexual things to both men and women, then you like both!

 

[SweetErika]

I have a healthy appreciation for your AV.

LOL Thank you! Let's see if you appreciate this new one.

 

[The Mutt]

LOL Thank you! Let's see if you appreciate this new one.

~swoon~

 

[Brinnie]

LOL Thank you! Let's see if you appreciate this new one.

wot was the old 1?

 

[SweetErika]

wot was the old 1?

Same gift, different wrapping paper.
After all of your questions I've answered, if you didn't notice, you're out of luck unless I decide to repost it in the future.

 

[Little Bird]

Not sure how I know, but i like both sexes and have one cat and one dog..lol

Two cats, on dog!

I feel atracted to people, not their bodys. It is of no importance to me, if they are male or female.
I think one is straight, if he only thinks in sexual ways of the opposed gender and gay/lesbian if only thinking of the same. Anyone else I think is bisexual, from the man, who fantazises about sucking a dick once in their life to the "lesbian", who admires a guy behind.

Bonus question (2 pts) why the fuck do people not know their orientation?

I think it is because they think they must be either sraight or gay and would be only bisexual, if they would do anything with both men and women.

 

[evelyn_carroll]

How do you know if you’re gay or bi?

First one’s easy. Your gay if your life’s a breeze, you’ve got loads of money, have devoted lovers and smile a lot. (I looked it up.)

I think you’re bi if your parents saddled you with a name like Evelyn, which can be a man or a woman. Or was that the other way round? Evelyn Glennie – probably the finest living percussionist (Scottish chick!) Evelyn Waugh – novelist (English geezer).

On the other hand, I saw a great film last week (Layer Cake) which may answer the question more definitively. One character says (with some emotion and aggression in his gangsterly tone) “Making love to women is for poofs.”

I think that should settle it.

 

[numezze]

i wondered that myself, but i think i have a sure fire answer,
at least for me....

if you enjoy sex with the same sex, but dont like the though of snuggling up or kissing the same sex, your bi.

its strange, but i have had sex with more than a few men, and while i have no problems sucking a guy off and swallowing every drop and realy love to take a good hard one in my ass, the thought of kissing a man revolts me!
numezze

 

[SweetErika]

i wondered that myself, but i think i have a sure fire answer,
at least for me....

if you enjoy sex with the same sex, but dont like the though of snuggling up or kissing the same sex, your bi.

its strange, but i have had sex with more than a few men, and while i have no problems sucking a guy off and swallowing every drop and realy love to take a good hard one in my ass, the thought of kissing a man revolts me!
numezze

What are you if you enjoy sex, snuggling up, and kissing with both sexes then?