How can couples pick up woman. . . ladies please help =)

[eman]

This one is more for woman then men. My wife and I are both in our early 20s, good looking and healthy. She wants to be with her first woman and have a threesome also. Not at the same time but its something we would like to do. I've tried posting on the web and going to pay classified sites and we get a lot of fakes or losers. Ladies straight, bi, lesbian, what is a tasteful polite way of picking up a woman you think is flirting with you? How do I say hey your digging me but my wife wants you or how does my wife say to a lady, are you into threesomes or girls?

If your a straight woman how could I ask you/know if your intrested in the 2 for 1?

=)

 

[tyme]

I dont know but me and my husband are having the same kind of problem. Its hard to find someone to bring into your bed that you both agree on and that you trust enough to be clean. we still plan on who ever we pick to wear protection but that is not 100% so you still have to be careful. let me know what works for you.

 

[Wiggles]

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[bjewl]

Open minded

Good question. Our trouble is doubled as we live in a small, fairly isolated community. It is not discrete enough to just ask people you meet casually as they will know most of your friends and family even if you've never met them before. LOL
Still any ideas of how to approach women with the idea of a bisexual encounter would be encouraging.

 

[BreadMan]

Guess what we are having the same problem. Small town and all that stuff.
But we did meet a couple last night online.
I would suggest that you keep trying to find someone online.
Try Yahoo messanger Chat rooms. I'm sure in Ca there has to be a lot of Bi curious women
Good luck

 

[watergirl]

what a nice idea...

Well.. as a twenty something woman who'd love to find a nice couple for some fun... honesty and humor would be the way to go....

I don't think it should be just up to you to find someone - she's looking, too, right? If you meet someone you're interested in, and are flirting... just tell her that you're married.. and that you think your wife would love to meet her... wink wink nudge nudge. This is could come off sleezy or cheesy, but I'm a pushover for goofy guys... try to keep it light ?

And, yes, be careful! Happy hunting, and Happy New Year's!

 

[Hexiegirl]

OK, seems a lot of the folks that are looking have posted, so I guess I'll make as post from the other side.

For clarity, I am married but also bisexual. I let my husband be with other women if he wants and he lets me as well. The normal rule for men is "The dick does not enter the body" LOL

If you two go out as a couple to a dance club and meet some people, that's a good place to start. Since you are looking for a bisexual woman, let your wife do the picking. That way she can find a woman whom she is attracted to. She can also initiate the flirting. She can start the flirting in the club and you'll know pretty soon if the woman is into it or not. And just say that you're married up front. It usually works its way into the conversation somehow. Then the hubby can come up and chat or dance too. If she runs away, well then, maybe she won't be into the idea of a threesome (but don't rule out the girlie lovin').

Anyway, I always love it when other women flirt with me. And I don't mind at all when their husbands do too. Then, at the end of the night, just tell them what a good time you've had and your wife especially. Give them your phone number and names and that's about all you can do. I have received numbers this way and thought it was great!

Good luck everyone~~~

 

[eman]

Thanks for the advice everyone! we'll let ya know how it goes. Maybe even post some pics if all goes well and the other lady is up for it.

Where actually in Atlanta now so if anyone is in our area let us know. Also, we travel a lot. We're going around the US in march.

-e