Honest Question

[TheNiteSiren]

I didn't know where else to put this. Its a question for the females on this forum. I am a virgin who has never been fully penetrated and I an intact. I want to break through my hymen with the least amount of pain. I am in my mid-30s and I am not holding my breath for Mr. or Mirs. Right...This is embarrassing but I have no one else to ask.

 

[photobuff56]

im not a women but why not leave things as is as long as you can still have an orgasm. I don't see you accomplishing anything by doing that.

 

[TheNiteSiren]

im not a women but why not leave things as is as long as you can still have an orgasm. I don't see you accomplishing anything by doing that.

I cannot go into detail but the liklihood that i will get rid of this naturally is very slim.

 

[Safe_Bet]

I didn't know where else to put this. Its a question for the females on this forum. I am a virgin who has never been fully penetrated and I an intact. I want to break through my hymen with the least amount of pain. I am in my mid-30s and I am not holding my breath for Mr. or Mirs. Right...This is embarrassing but I have no one else to ask.

Either you are REALLY too young to need to use a tampon... (and you shouldn't be here in the first place)


or you are a dude... (any REAL woman in her "mid 30s" knows the answer to this question )


In any event, this is NOT the "How To" forum! This is the GLBT forum!

 

[sassysweetheart]

Re: Hello

PM me if you'd like. Otherwise, I'm certain that the internet would have loads of advice, only, read more than one reputable article on the topic, from places that are more health related.

SS

 

[TheNiteSiren]

Either you are REALLY too young to need to use a tampon... (and you shouldn't be here in the first place)


or you are a dude... (any REAL woman in her "mid 30s" knows the answer to this question )


In any event, this is NOT the "How To" forum! This is the GLBT forum!

I am 33 years old....ask my mother...lol...just kidding. I don;t know the answer because i spent most of my life isolated because I was very ill. My parents raised me very strict Catholic and thing of sex as a mortal sin. Not exactly the type willng to answer such questions. Frankly my mother had no idea there were such things as adult toys until she found out that i had been in a store for them.

The main reason i put it here is because I had heard this same problem from a friend of mine who is a lesbian. She had never been with a man ever and was still intact. She moved recently so i don;t see her that often. She said that she wanted to know because during sex when they tried to use a dildo or vibrator, it was a problem.

This is no joke. Just chill out. I didn't figure such a strong reaction. Everyone has to ask questions like these sooner or later or they would never know anything. I don't think that qualifies me for such a rude reaction on ur part but next time i will refrain from this are since it bothers people.

 

[nfrrdscnnr1]

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For what it's worth, a high state of arousal which brings plenty of natural lube and brings the vagina to a state of acceptance with a large dildo is my recommendation. Good luck. I find it hard to believe that you have little chance of achieving such a condition with a gentle and willing man present.

 

[Etoile]

Honestly, I'd think you should have seen a gyno for a pelvic exam by now. Have you never had a PAP smear? This is something you should speak about with a doctor, you should really have had a full exam by the age of 33.

 

[babyjane20011]

Dear Siren

I didn't know where else to put this. Its a question for the females on this forum. I am a virgin who has never been fully penetrated and I an intact. I want to break through my hymen with the least amount of pain. I am in my mid-30s and I am not holding my breath for Mr. or Mirs. Right...This is embarrassing but I have no one else to ask.

I'm 44 bi and confined to a wheelchair and sill a virgin. Hard to someone who will except me for me limitations & my Quirks. All you need is time, you don't have such such issues. I put myself out there and yet im still judged and most times ignored.

nan

 

[Etoile]

I'm 44 bi and confined to a wheelchair and sill a virgin. Hard to someone who will except me for me limitations & my Quirks. All you need is time, you don't have such such issues. I put myself out there and yet im still judged and most times ignored.

nan

Have you considered a sex therapist? There are several who work with disabled people quite often and could help you explore intimacy and gain confidence.