Has anyone ever loved you too much?

[Kitte]

A friend and I were discussing this, I dont think it is possible to love someone too much. She says that sometimes it is frightening to have someone love you so much. I dont mean suffocating behaviour I just mean truly loving someone with everything they can without losing themself.

 

[islandman]

I don't think there such a thing as too much. But i have loved not enough many times.

 

[LadyG]

It's only too much when it's not reciprocated.

 

[lobito]

I've been accused of loving someone too much. It nearly wrecked a few relationships because of that accusation.

 

[Bob_Bytchin]

Well, there's a fine line between obsession and love. To love someone, and shower them with love is a good thing. To stalk someone, and want to be in their every waking moment is a bad thing.

 

[magicpenis]

A friend and I were discussing this, I dont think it is possible to love someone too much. She says that sometimes it is frightening to have someone love you so much. I dont mean suffocating behaviour I just mean truly loving someone with everything they can without losing themself.

ive never had such a problem

 

[islandman]

To stalk someone, and want to be in their every waking moment is a bad thing.

I want this from you, Bob. How can we make this work out?

 

[Kitte]

Well, there's a fine line between obsession and love. To love someone, and shower them with love is a good thing. To stalk someone, and want to be in their every waking moment is a bad thing.

I thought I had clarified that...we all know obsession is bad.

 

[Jewelz]

I've recently have been blessed with someone that loves me so very completely and I must say that he could never love me too much. It feels good to have that kind of emotional bond, love and trust.

 

[Guest]

 

[bored1]

It's only too much when it's not reciprocated.

Good Answer

 

[SpiceCake]

A friend and I were discussing this, I dont think it is possible to love someone too much. She says that sometimes it is frightening to have someone love you so much. I dont mean suffocating behaviour I just mean truly loving someone with everything they can without losing themself.

Sadly, no. I do love my kids, but not too much - can't love your kids too much. You just can't!

They are my world!

 

[Bob_Bytchin]

I want this from you, Bob. How can we make this work out?

Well first off, post some TV pics of yourself...and make one of them an AV.

 

[SpiceCake]

Well first off, post some TV pics of yourself...and make one of them an AV.

Oh goody - Now I can have Kate all to myself!

Uhm...can I watch?

 

[christcat69]

Chasing Amy Syndrome

Every guy I've ever been friends with have loved me too much.

 

[curious2c]

I love you christcat69



Just a poor attempt at humor there. Actually, I do like you, and you are a lovely young lady.

 

[slowfingers1]

A friend and I were discussing this, I dont think it is possible to love someone too much. She says that sometimes it is frightening to have someone love you so much. I dont mean suffocating behaviour I just mean truly loving someone with everything they can without losing themself.

Like so many other areas of life, I think in love, balance is very important. Sucks to love someone more than they love you.. or love someone when they dont love you back

Slowfingers

 

[penguindance]

 

[Tantanah]

I can't say anyone has ever loved me too much. Not enough for sure...but never too much.

 

[littlekateyes]

I have never had anyone love me to much, not enough yes, but not too much. I love my son with everything and he has taught me unconditional love.

 

[Barely__There]

I have never been loved 'too much" but I have loved too much, almost to the point of losing my way in an obsessive need to have him love me back to the same degree.

fortunately, I have a strong enough grounding with my son, that I was able to let go. Painfully, and feeling like a gaping hole was ripped through my heart, but able to let go.

It is scary to be so in love.

 

[Aquila]

no

 

[Nicki19]

I think it is possible to love too much, and, again, I think this has to do with reciprocation. I can say that I have been loved too much, and it was because I didn't feel the same way towards him. What started as just dating somehow quickly evolved into strict commitment and then, suddenly, he was talking about moving closer to me, marriage, kids...

This will probably sound terribly self-centered, but I'm not sure who it's harder on: the person who loves too much, or the person that is loved too much. When I ended the relationship, both of us were upset, neither wanted it to end the way it did. Sometimes it's a difficult balance, and although he wasn't quite stalker material, he definitely felt too much, too fast.

 

[curious2c]

ummm no. but then I have not been out and about in that way for a long time and don't think that it will happen to me. I don't know how it would feel, but I can imagine that there is such a thing as too much, but then that would be more to stalking or something in my book.

 

[teddybear4play]

No.

TB4p