GF or wife not having Sex as much as Randoms before you?

[marcli]

I wondering why this is ... ive been apart of it and had almost everyone else ive talked to say the same thing.

when you barely know a girl she will be up for anything , you can call her in the middle of the night to come over and blow you and she will do it ...

but once your together for a while and are in LOVE its like all the sex goes out the window ... shed rather cuddle with you then have sex ... or you say to do something nasty and she just laughs and says Ya Right , like its all just a joke.

yet , in there past with guys she barely knows etc. shes up for doing almost anything.

Me and the GF went over messages that we sent to others before we met ( just for the hell of it ) ... and she sent guys messages that she wasnt even dating , just more like friends ... stuff like " if you come pick me up at work i'll blow you along the way " ... " can you please come over and fuck me and let me swallow your cum " .... " im going out with my girls tonight , when i get back it would be a good time for you to come stick your cock in my bum " .... etc etc etc.

the only thing im wondering about all that was where is that girl now? its like its seems with these guys you barely knew or even liked you would do whatever they wanted , now your madly in love with me , but just more want to hold ahands and cuddle etc etc.

is there something she or i can do to bring that sex craved girl back?

( not that i dont mind cuddling and other crap like that ... its just i feel like im getting the short end of the stick in the sex department )

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Haven't figured this out, either.

Some BS about how going without supposedly builds the relationship. Funny, I got it on fairly early with my wife once we met. We're still going solid nine years later.

Some folks need to stop listening to psychobabble, I guess.

Some folks just aren't compatible, either.

 

[Fata Morgana]

What you want to do my china teapot is ice cream cone that top hat question and put it in your umbrella stand. Ok snowflake?

 

[marcli]

What you want to do my china teapot is ice cream cone that top hat question and put it in your umbrella stand. Ok snowflake?

ummm , i think i do that everyday.




to add to my first post though .... im not saying we dont have sex , we do it a normal amount ... i just dont get why girls are so Willing when theres nothing there, and so not willing when there just Sooooo in love.


i even wonder why men get wives or girlfriends longer then a year ... cause a girl in the first year will do anything and everything ... so why not just date a girl for a year and break up and do it all over again and again .... that seems like a smart Man!

 

[DrRickMarshall]

Kinda in the same boat, maybe it's the "been there, done that" mentality? Gotta find ways to spice things up!

 

[bronzeage]

Maybe she's just not that into you.

 

[Tryharder62]

I think it goes both ways. Maybe think of things that you use to do for her that you stopped doing. Add a few things to surprise her. I wish I had the magic answer.

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

i smell another ALT

 

[Tryharder62]

i smell another ALT

I can't smell anymore.(cold)

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

I can't smell anymore.(cold)

hey there

 

[islandman]

She's getting it elsewhere.

Sorry.

 

[Cade Is Here]

I wondering why this is ... ive been apart of it and had almost everyone else ive talked to say the same thing.

when you barely know a girl she will be up for anything , you can call her in the middle of the night to come over and blow you and she will do it ...

but once your together for a while and are in LOVE its like all the sex goes out the window ... shed rather cuddle with you then have sex ... or you say to do something nasty and she just laughs and says Ya Right , like its all just a joke.

yet , in there past with guys she barely knows etc. shes up for doing almost anything.

Me and the GF went over messages that we sent to others before we met ( just for the hell of it ) ... and she sent guys messages that she wasnt even dating , just more like friends ... stuff like " if you come pick me up at work i'll blow you along the way " ... " can you please come over and fuck me and let me swallow your cum " .... " im going out with my girls tonight , when i get back it would be a good time for you to come stick your cock in my bum " .... etc etc etc.

the only thing im wondering about all that was where is that girl now? its like its seems with these guys you barely knew or even liked you would do whatever they wanted , now your madly in love with me , but just more want to hold ahands and cuddle etc etc.

is there something she or i can do to bring that sex craved girl back?

( not that i dont mind cuddling and other crap like that ... its just i feel like im getting the short end of the stick in the sex department )

I hear ya on that. they do it until they got ya hooked. Then it goes down hill.