Fisting

[seven_of_nine]

I've never been fisted, my ex was never interested in it. I'm curious about it. This is a great thread.

 

[kootenaychica]

And, self fisting is such a fun way to practice.

I've seen this done in films ... don't wish to do it myself but I'd love to hear more of your experience doing so. How long, how many times, how did you begin? Whatever you'd like to share.

 

[kootenaychica]

Fisting orgasms are unlike any other.

I've never been fisted, my ex was never interested in it. I'm curious about it. This is a great thread.

I think being inquisitve and desirous of the experience is a good start.
You really need to find a partner who will do so with you. Having a good heart to heart with your man and letting him know this is something you'd really like to try when the time is right -- this is most recommended for couples who like to discuss their sexual process or even those who just like to throw a few simple comments back and forth and leave it at that. The more you put the bug in his ear, the better. If he thinks you're pressuring him then he's not much of a selfless lover in my honest opinion.

So either you discuss or you wait until the time is right for you and then you begin the process of telling him not to stop when he's fingering you and/or that you want more... more fingers.... more of him inside of you.

Don't overthink the whole process as that to me is not helpful. Maybe for some it is but every time I've ever been fisted I haven't even asked for it. The man i was with just knew based on my arousal level and body language. When a woman is in a high state of arousal, is horny as hell, doesn't want the fingering to stop, who's pussy is moist, soft, and primed for more action.... that is a man's cue right there.

Men who love to please won't immediately jump to the cock driving at that point, or they might and then return to this shortly thereafter, but instead will continue to please you and give a woman more because her body is desirous of it, her pussy is expanding with each finger added and she is loving the feeling.

I simply want more women to be more open to this type of orgasmic experience, the multiple gushing orgasms that come with fisting is something very special and unique. I didn't gush the first couple times but i definitely do these days (a few years later) mainly because i know if i just relax and trust the ebb and flow of my body during the process that i will be rewarded with a truly blissful state of being that is unlike any other orgasm a woman has.

 

[kootenaychica]

I think the main thing is the woman needs to be the one that wants to go there. I think fisting is akin to anal sex for a women - in that, once a woman learns how the intensity can be extremely pleasurable. However, it can also be very painful learning how to relax. For some it comes easy. Maybe like orgasms come easier for some women than others. From a man's perspective, it is really sexy to see your partner enjoy the intensity of fisting. It's worth the effort and taking time to ensure your partner is in the high state of arousal you mention and can learn to enjoy. Once she learns how, she will ask for it more and more.

Thanks for your input fireplug! Funny thing is though that each time I've been fisted I actually wasn't even thinking about it at the time, nor did I say anything, or do anything .... my lovers have just read me right and wanted to do it. A new fister will go too fast for sure. A seasoned fister does a lot of gentle motions of in and out with say the 3 then 4 fingers... but he still goes deep occassionally so the pussy muscles get used to it. There are numerous muscels inside that are going to be contracting and releasing as the hand does this. Eventually the thumb can make it's way in and the hardest part then becomes the base of the hand.

With lots of back and forth .... gently... like rocking ... a baby .... men should treat this as a delicate operation with care and lovingness and patience and pay attention to your woman's breathing and certainly whether or not she is enjoying it or just persevering. I suggest stopping before it's not enjoyable for her if that's the case and when you do stop, by all means do not just rip the hand out of there... remove slowly, very slowly, giving those muscles time to LET GO...

I say this because if you've never fisted a woman you're not aware of this fact... those muscles will be clenching and releasing you the whole time. FISTING actually tightens a woman's vaginal walls, makes them stronger, so that fucking afterwards is an amazing experience for a man.

So men.... pay attention, this process is well worth the wait as your cock will be rewarded afterwards with a pussy like you've never felt before.

And women who are getting fisted for the first or second time, please let your man enter you afterwards. Your pussy is not all open and loose as some of you might be thinking. It's been primed like never before and will feel AMAZING for him and you.

 

[kootenaychica]

When he gets to that widest point-- have him turn his fist just a little, so that the pointer knuckle is at about two o'clock. He might slide right in that way.

At that point he should be curling his fingers away from your cervix with his thumb tucked inside them. Then-- he can just shimmy his knuckles against your g spot and whoo hoo!

This advice should be repeated ~ I'm doing so because this thread started a couple years ago and Stella_Omega mentioned a most excellent point! I love the fisting against the G and/or right up me... slowly but surely always making me gush with delight. Ensure towels are beneath your butt ladies!

 

[MrRetro]

This advice should be repeated ~ I'm doing so because this thread started a couple years ago and Stella_Omega mentioned a most excellent point! I love the fisting against the G and/or right up me... slowly but surely always making me gush with delight. Ensure towels are beneath your butt ladies!

I can't say that I've ever done this for a woman, or been with a woman that has desired it... Not that I wouldn't do it if asked... I'd just have to know the woman desired it...

From what you saying though, the results do sound very sexy and delicious...

 

[fma20fma]

hi

ask anyone who has visited a gyno.

 

[FistedSister]

I've seen this done in films ... don't wish to do it myself but I'd love to hear more of your experience doing so. How long, how many times, how did you begin? Whatever you'd like to share.

I'm really swamped with work, but I will get back to you, privately.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

I have been fisted a few times and absolutely loved it. No pain at all, only the most amazing feeling of fullness and wonderful, huge orgasms!

 

[kootenaychica]

I can't say that I've ever done this for a woman, or been with a woman that has desired it... Not that I wouldn't do it if asked... I'd just have to know the woman desired it...

From what you saying though, the results do sound very sexy and delicious...

Oh they are MrRetro! I'm not sure how your current relationship is but it never hurts to explore and adventure a little does it? Try going there sometime when she is especially aroused and/or at least begin the dance of more fingers than two!

ask anyone who has visited a gyno.

This is a strange response. I've never been fisted by my gyno... not even close.

 

[kootenaychica]

I'm really swamped with work, but I will get back to you, privately.

Thanks for the response and no worries. I'd love it if you elaborated here in the thread so others might learn from you as that is something most women have never tried I am sure.

 

[kootenaychica]

I have been fisted a few times and absolutely loved it. No pain at all, only the most amazing feeling of fullness and wonderful, huge orgasms!

Awesome, thanks for that sweetdaisymae!

 

[kootenaychica]

Love to hear more on the brachiovaginal issue if anyone's wanting to contribute and here's a nice fisting pic of the day!

http://brachvagr.tumblr.com/image/35274544266

 

[fireplugm]

Love to hear more on the brachiovaginal issue if anyone's wanting to contribute and here's a nice fisting pic of the day!

http://brachvagr.tumblr.com/image/35274544266

Very sexy koot!

 

[skinnysinner]

I have been fisted a few times and absolutely loved it. No pain at all, only the most amazing feeling of fullness and wonderful, huge orgasms!

Like some of the others here, as a man I just would really love to try, love to help a woman who wants to try too. It sounds amazing for both if done right, and the potential to completely fill and fulfil a woman is not something to be missed. Sadly all my contacts are not at all enlightened, with only one willing to even talk about and she is so convinced she is too small she won't let me think about starting.

One of those things I may never do but always dream about, love the latest pic from kootenaychica

 

[thecurioussubmissive]

I have wanted to try being fisted for years but haven't yet. Thanks for posting the tips, maybe someday *sigh*

 

[rexhame317]

Fisting is something I have always been curious about, but had never tried. I never found a partner I was comfortable enough trying with.

About 7 months ago, I was playing with a Dom friend, we had done some beatings/spankings while he had me tied up. I get VERY WET when I play, and he managed, without much effort , to slide his fist in me. I was in orgasmatic heaven. It was also the first time I squirted (another story for another forum )

My current Sir tried it with me during one of our play sessions. It was something he had been curious to try. He was amazed at how turned on (and the squirting) We don't do it every time, but once in a while, when I am very wet , he will. We are finding, I do tighten up quick (kegels) which is why we cant do it a lot

 

[Oubliette123]

I came to this thread this morning after a wonderful weekend of play with my partner/master. He fisted me three times over a period of a few days, and never before have we done it so many times in a short space of time. I was a little worried about the affect it would have (ie would I ever go back to normal), and I was very happy to read here that actually it can strengthen rather than loosen

One of the things I will add though, not sure if it has been mentioned but the nerves inside seem to come alive. Aside from the absolute amazing feeling of being fisted and the intense orgasm while having his hand in me fully, having intercourse after was not what I expected (we'd never had intercourse straight after before).

WOW! I had expected to feel sore and maybe resistant to the idea of being fucked, but it was amazing. I have never been able to orgasm through penetrative sex before, but I reckon this could be the way to go! Every movement, every thrust is magnified. I'm not sure if it felt any 'different' for him, perhaps one of the gentleman here could share their experiences.

However after many times, this morning I had to say my code word lol. Its a bit ouchy sitting down today (but this just intensifies the memories!)

 

[bigwarwood]

I'll try to be clinical in what I have found to be successful. First, cleanliness! So much so that I now exclusively use surgical gloves. Lubrication, is necessary most of the time though I have had encounters where it was not needed. Technique, a gradual process is usually successful, that means one, then two, well, you get the point. Finally, some common sense, the hand has to be formed so that it creates the least amount of girth as a circumference measured over the thumbs nearest joint to the wrist and the girth over the knuckles. A tried and true techniques is folding the thumb and placing it length wise into the palm. Commonly called a spear fist. The fingers can be positioned so that the four finger tips create a square cone of sorts. Slow progression with a keen observation of how the administration is creating a reaction to the recipient. Now this is critical! The vagina is not bottomless and the hands posture to enter is not the best once inside. It can be darn uncomfortable, actually capable of touching the cervical entrance with the extended finger tips. Thus the term fisting, because once in, the hand is changed in form or posture into a fist. Technique also plays into what to do once there. The rotating of the clinched fist creates a different sensation then linear in and out motion. There are also some finger techniques that can be experimented with. And finally, the exit. Please don't retract while still in the fist mode. Remember to contract the hand back into the insertion and extraction posture or the spear fist. The vagina will close around the fist and clasp the wrist and as such, while easier and smoother, still needing care when its coming out. Most pussies will expand to accommodate a fist, but the mind is essential in creating the right pleasurable circumstances for it to happen. Can there be some bleeding, yes, and thus the cleanliness necessary. Should you progress from one orifice to another, no, it isn't really recommended. Hope this helps.

 

[bigwarwood]

I'll try to be clinical in what I have found to be successful. First, cleanliness! So much so that I now exclusively use surgical gloves. Lubrication, is necessary most of the time though I have had encounters where it was not needed. Technique, a gradual process is usually successful, that means one, then two, well, you get the point. Finally, some common sense, the hand has to be formed so that it creates the least amount of girth as a circumference measured over the thumbs nearest joint to the wrist and the girth over the knuckles. A tried and true techniques is folding the thumb and placing it length wise into the palm. Commonly called a spear fist. The fingers can be positioned so that the four finger tips create a square cone of sorts. Slow progression with a keen observation of how the administration is creating a reaction to the recipient. Now this is critical! The vagina is not bottomless and the hands posture to enter is not the best once inside. It can be darn uncomfortable, actually capable of touching the cervical entrance with the extended finger tips. Thus the term fisting, because once in, the hand is changed in form or posture into a fist. Technique also plays into what to do once there. The rotating of the clinched fist creates a different sensation then linear in and out motion. There are also some finger techniques that can be experimented with. And finally, the exit. Please don't retract while still in the fist mode. Remember to contract the hand back into the insertion and extraction posture or the spear fist. The vagina will close around the fist and clasp the wrist and as such, while easier and smoother, still needing care when its coming out. Most pussies will expand to accommodate a fist, but the mind is essential in creating the right pleasurable circumstances for it to happen. Can there be some bleeding, yes, and thus the cleanliness necessary. Should you progress from one orifice to another, no, it isn't really recommended. Hope this helps.

 

[Kim_Burly]

Thank you for sharing something I have been curious to try, yet due to my husband's large hands and my small anatomy, we have struggled accomplishing...need a petite female to lend a hand...

I'm not petite, but I'm not a big woman either. He, on the other hand, is a big man and he has very large hands. Sir did finally succeed in fisting me a while back when I finally yelled at him after 45 minutes of slowly, gently trying to fist me. He had his whole hand in, but he couldn't make a fist. I told him to stop being a girly man and Fing do it! Well he did . Ouch! I rode the pain out for a while, once it deadened he went to town. It felt interesting. My cootchie was out of commission for three days after that.

Now that we have a sub couple to play with, Sir has toyed with the idea of her fisting me while he takes my back door. She has small hands, with long, dainty fingers. I think that is an awesome idea.

Honestly, I climax very well from Sir's penis alone, it is quite large, I don't think a larger penis or hand could feel any better.

 

[Lovetolisten]

First and only experience...

My H fisted me in a fit of rage. (Traumatic Brain Injury, anger issues).
I was not in the slightest bit ready, ie; aroused / wet. Needless to say it was not an experience I care to repeat. Perhaps under different circumstances, I would feel differently about it.

If this is something a person wishes to attempt, do so wisely...

 

[Kim_Burly]

I'm not sure if I posted this before, but on occasion, I fist Sir's bottom. My hands are small and he loves to lay on his right side. That way once I'm in I can use the first knuckle on my thumb to strum his prostate. Between his pre-cum and orgasm, he has saturated a hand towel with his semen while doing this .

To get back to the topic at hand, I have a sick fantasy of Lynn, our female sub fisting me, while I fist Sir and he is being sucked off by Steve, our male sub. Sir really doesn't want anything to do with Steve blowing him, so that may have to wait a while.

 

[Mission_Blue]

I always thought fisting was a rather horrifying act... It's obviously pretty hardcore to watch, especially in porn. But after reading a handful (haha, handful, fisting, ok, I'll shut up) of posts on this thread, I'm somewhat intrigued. Not gonna run right out and try it, but becoming curious and then eventually open to a new idea is a constructive place to be in. At least now I know there's quite the lead-up and certain "tricks to the trade" that indicate it's not as violent an act as it looks. Maybe now I won't make this face when it comes up on Sex & Submission...

 

[kimuk]

I always thought fisting was a rather horrifying act... It's obviously pretty hardcore to watch, especially in porn. But after reading a handful (haha, handful, fisting, ok, I'll shut up) of posts on this thread, I'm somewhat intrigued. Not gonna run right out and try it, but becoming curious and then eventually open to a new idea is a constructive place to be in. At least now I know there's quite the lead-up and certain "tricks to the trade" that indicate it's not as violent an act as it looks. Maybe now I won't make this face when it comes up on Sex & Submission...

Well its about consent isn't it? It was with us. We tried . It wasn't earth shattering my end but I think if we had "practice time" then it would be. Unfortunately we don't. But I think its on our revisit it again sometime list lol