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Fisted my lovely lady twice on the weekend, it never fails to turn me on no end and using an inflatable huge cock to open her up is her fav, she squirts evertime. I love to fuck her senseless afterwards and blow in her and watch it run out.
 
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Yeah, I don't think of it as a goal, or some kind of contest, but a means to an end - if one finger does the job then that's what it takes - and as the fister, at the back of ones mind is always: "once I get it in there, can I get it back out? I haven't done it a whole lot and like anything, I imagine experience adds up for both parties, but I tend to err on the side of safety till I have a bit more of a... feel for it. :devil:

On that note, there is no knowledge like self knowledge, and if you're intent on it, I'd suggest taking matters into your own hands, starting with simple perineal massage - it may be that you'll discover you take a little more force without damage, or simply that that's as far as it goes, I think unless the skin around the vaginal canal itself is stretched to the limit (see rugae), the hand is too large for your pelvic opening, or your pelvic floor muscles are too overdeveloped - otherwise, once you get past the pubic arch, there's more room inside.

I believe relaxin has a lot to do with it, and relaxin levels vary from person to person, semen contains relaxin and relaxin levels increase tenfold during pregnancy, and some women report it during their fertile phase (it's also what allows the vaginal canal to elongate lengthwise) which means a lot of just plain old sex won't hurt anything - anal sex also sees to relax the pelvic floor muscles which is probably a response to evacuation of the bowels, so I believe it's mostly a matter of listening to your own body, and instructing your partner when and if you might just need a little more oomph - sounds like he just doesn't want to hurt you, which is understandable.

But as a non-expert semi-novice, myself, no sense rushing it either way if you ask me - more of a journey than a destination in my mind, though undeniably an incredible experience.
 
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xssve said:
Yeah, I don't think of it as a goal, or some kind of contest, but a means to an end - if one finger does the job then that's what it takes - and as the fister, at the back of ones mind is always: "once I get it in there, can I get it back out? I haven't done it a whole lot and like anything, I imagine experience adds up for both parties, but I tend to err on the side of safety till I have a bit more of a... feel for it. :devil:

On that note, there is no knowledge like self knowledge, and if you're intent on it, I'd suggest taking matters into your own hands, starting with simple perineal massage - it may be that you'll discover you take a little more force without damage, or simply that that's as far as it goes, I think unless the skin around the vaginal canal itself is stretched to the limit (see rugae), the hand is too large for your pelvic opening, or your pelvic floor muscles are too overdeveloped - otherwise, once you get past the pubic arch, there's more room inside.

I believe relaxin has a lot to do with it, and relaxin levels vary from person to person, semen contains relaxin and relaxin levels increase tenfold during pregnancy, and some women report it during their fertile phase (it's also what allows the vaginal canal to elongate lengthwise) which means a lot of just plain old sex won't hurt anything - anal sex also sees to relax the pelvic floor muscles which is probably a response to evacuation of the bowels, so I believe it's mostly a matter of listening to your own body, and instructing your partner when and if you might just need a little more oomph - sounds like he just doesn't want to hurt you, which is understandable.

But as a non-expert semi-novice, myself, no sense rushing it either way if you ask me - more of a journey than a destination in my mind, though undeniably an incredible experience.
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I dont think we thought of it as a contest or a goal either , it was just something we both really wanted.

We suceeded in the fact that he had his hand inside me . We have to refine our technique cause it hurt like F***. But practice makes perfect as they say..:)
 
The perineal massage is the way to go I think, there's more room to stretch at the bottom of the vaginal opening, the pubic arch at the top is less flexible, obviously, and perineal massage is a well documented and commonly practiced technique to reduce the risk of tearing during delivery, you can find videos of that on U Tube.
 
marieR19 said:
Mmmmmmm this is such a turn-on for me!! The thought of it, I mean. I've never had the pleasure of actually experiencing it yet.

Just two nights ago a friend on another forum mentioned that she had fisted some neighbor-woman recently, and it totally made me jealous.
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I have fisted a couple of female partners and I can tell you, a woman's vaginal muscles are STRONG. It was a very enjoyable experience for all, but I am a big guy, with a very large hand. The pressure exerted on my hand was enormous. It was quite exciting to see my partner go into that "state" - I think endorphins may kick in? But they certainly enjoyed themselves and with both partners, squirted from the fisting. We did use lots of lube and worked into it slowly.
 
Sir's hands are HUGE, but he really wants to fist me so maybe two months he spent what seemed like two hours getting me all massaged, aroused, lubed and relaxed, but no go. He got all of his fingers and thumb in, but he couldn't ball up his fist. It wasn't that great, but I knew how bad he wanted it to work so I told him in my best Arnold voice to "Stop being a girly man and Fing do it!". He did, OUCH :eek:!!! I was sure he had torn my episiotomy scar wide open! I went with it for a minute but he could tell I was hating it and pulled out (even that hurt). I told him whenever he wants to try again I'm game. I told him if I were drunk it would work ;) JK.


fireplugm said:
I have fisted a couple of female partners and I can tell you, a woman's vaginal muscles are STRONG. It was a very enjoyable experience for all, but I am a big guy, with a very large hand. The pressure exerted on my hand was enormous. It was quite exciting to see my partner go into that "state" - I think endorphins may kick in? But they certainly enjoyed themselves and with both partners, squirted from the fisting. We did use lots of lube and worked into it slowly.
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Fisting is one of my fave kinks!

Fisting is something I thoroughly enjoy. I have to be very highly aroused and well into play time, having already cum numerous times. I'm very multi-O and can cum about 30 times in a couple hours so I'm very fortunate that way. I'm only been bruised up once and that was not pleasant as I felt it for days. Those were my early years ... much smarter now.

The last 3 fisting sessions I've experienced (with 3 diff men) were the best of my life. We were well into it, I was soaking wet, as were the sheets (lol), and each time they got in their entire hands up to the wrist and had me completely gushing over and over and over again. I'm exhausted completely afterwards but it's so incredibly satisfying to experience that plus all the aftershocks for hours later.

I know it works for me because I'm incredibly horny and also having learned to allow myself to squirt and not hold back helps the entire process along. Men who love to take the time and play for hours ... these are the men a woman must seek. :rose:
 
Well lil jpin, it's not supposed to hurt so with an experienced fister you would still be in good hands. Remember women have been giving birth for eons so there's no reason at all that a man's fist shouldn't fit inside there no matter what size you are. It takes patience, practice, some good lube, and in my experience a lot of foreplay and arousal beforehand and I mean a lot .... like loving you up for a good hour or more before you even get to the fisting part. It's best done when you're ovulating or in my case right before or after I menstruate when I'm horny as hell. :devil:
 
what an interesting and informative thread. please keep it running so I can gain enough info to give it a go. may need a new woman though? LOL
 
xxxpaulzzz said:
what an interesting and informative thread. please keep it running so I can gain enough info to give it a go. may need a new woman though? LOL
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That's the perfect approach. Honest and willing to learn with some patience and lots of trust thrown in for good measure. :)

One of the most important pieces is that the woman needs to be fully engaged with you. I mean it is so much a better experience if the woman you're with is very sexually aroused and into you. Just know that even if it's your first time trying it, if you have a willing partner that can't get enough of you, that's more than half the battle of it right there. The rest is just patience while you're getting in there and I suggest lots of cocconut oil ... extra virgin so you can eat it up as it's delicious and good for your body and her skin and will soften and condition the perineum so that it becomes more elastic. The last thing you want her to do is experience tearing of any kind ... bruising can happen and that's a shame and unnecessary (but even i've been the culprit of my own bruising because I have in the past told them to fist harder). It's not about going hard, it's about continuity and keeping a nice rhythm and even mixing it up like when you slowly twist your hand after you're inside... oh my god .... amazing! ... whew!

I'm a bit embarassed here to talk so much about it but I honestly love it and want more women to experience what I have. Sweet dreams! :kiss:
 
Well said Koot......
couldn't agree more with your thoughts and advice on how to do it right.
My lady started years ago with a few fingers after having kids and now easily takes my fist after some initial warm up play, she has the best orgasms and squirts now that she had never experienced before.
She hooked........so am I :)
 
shanesinforit said:
Well said Koot......
She hooked........so am I :)
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Thanks for the comment and nice to hear you and the lady are hooked. It's the most amazing feeling ever. It's astonishing to me just how many ways there are to orgasm ... and to think some people only get to experience one. It makes me so sad for them. Never stop exploring .. that's what I say. :devil:
 
There's got to be more opinions and expertise than mine on fisting. Anyone else care to share?
 
kootenaychica said:
There's got to be more opinions and expertise than mine on fisting. Anyone else care to share?
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I think the main thing is the woman needs to be the one that wants to go there. I think fisting is akin to anal sex for a women - in that, once a woman learns how the intensity can be extremely pleasurable. However, it can also be very painful learning how to relax. For some it comes easy. Maybe like orgasms come easier for some women than others. From a man's perspective, it is really sexy to see your partner enjoy the intensity of fisting. It's worth the effort and taking time to ensure your partner is in the high state of arousal you mention and can learn to enjoy. Once she learns how, she will ask for it more and more.
 
Like anything else, practice makes perfect.

And, self fisting is such a fun way to practice.
 
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