female ejaculation

[cutvelvet]

Well Doclube, you sure sound like a man a woman is lucky to have around.. I totally agree that when it gets mechanical, the woman begins to fel like you're trying to repait her rather than make love to her.. the whole thing is best when you can get out of yourself and intot he game and acts you are having.. it is when you forget yourself and really let go that you can come over and over again and i guess squirt.. i think i have.. ut my partner would know the difference, so i can't tell really..
wish i could!

 

[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

I agree completely Doclube, but I take the arguement a bit farther. I think alot of people seem to get mechanical when doing intimite things because they keep the goal in sight (your own orgasm, making their partner orgasm, ect) rather then just enjoying the here and now. What you are doing to your partner and the emotions your feeling are far more important then anything else. If you focus on only the goal then you won't have half the fun in getting there, and that statement applies as much for squirting as anything else.

My two cents

-Zergplex

 

[cutvelvet]

zerplex

I am wondering.. what do experienced women do that the rest of us don't?
where did you learn.. or does it come baturally.. is it easy for you to get excited or do you need a drink or something.. i thin it is time for the women to talk about technique.. anyone interested?

 

[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

I am wondering.. what do experienced women do that the rest of us don't?
where did you learn.. or does it come naturally.. is it easy for you to get excited or do you need a drink or something.. i thin it is time for the women to talk about technique.. anyone interested?

From your use of us and we you seem to assume I'm female ^_^() no the avater is of my girlfriend... though if you saw a picture of me you still might mistake me for a female (I do at least 3 times a day).

Of course not being female doesn't stop me from responding to your message. Experianced women arn't any differant from inexperianced ones really, experiance is just getting knowledge of what you and your partner like and dislike. Alot of experiance can be gained by simply masterbating, learning what you like is a very important part of sex. Most men will tell you nothing is more sexier then a women who knows what she wants. As for getting excited, differant things turn differant people on. There isn't just one specific thing, for me just hearing my lovers voice is enough. Once your comfortable then doing things should come very naturally, being happy with your body and trusting the person you are with are the two most important things with that. Well I hope that advice helps ^_^ And I think it would be interesting to have women talk about their technique, am I allowed to join in even though I'm not? Pleeeeeeease?

-Zergplex

 

[Mikijl Dragon]

here are some thoughts I have learned over the years

My wife never was able to, she had read about and was curious but she just never could. We talked about it as we are very expressive about how we feel and want to feel. She told me she would get to a point in her orgasm that she would stop almost like an edge of self control she did not want to cross. After some coaxing I was finally able to have her let go.

Now I am not sure if position has everything to do with it as she has ejaculated in many different positions since then but she seems to ejaculate the hardest when I am behind her and rubbing her clit with my thumb inside her.

Hope that's some help for you.

 

[Doclube]

Two More Cents Form Doc L.

For me it seems that Lovemaking is 80% mental and 20% phyical.
So on that note, alot has to come into play to have the full enjoyment of the exsperiance with another person. Yes the body can orgasm without effort...Like I could sit here and masterbate and bring my self off, Same as her with little mental effort. But the reason behind knowing what my wife likes and dislikes, is that i've been married to her for 23yrs and she has told me what she likes, and I have told her what I like. And we didn't learn this over night either...lol. the first few years were hell...lol. The kicker on that is we met as a blind date, and was married 6mo later. I didn't know that she could squirt when she cum. Because we were still learning each other. But seeing that we are open with each other we overcome are barriers, And once you overcome these barriers, and are able to make love as one that is when the full enjoyment happens. So to some this up...if you talk openly with your partner about the things you like,and don't like...and let it sink in, and keep it real, you will be a whole lot better off.

 

[SnKwv]

The first few times i squirted it wasn't that much and i couldn't really figure out ...how i did it. But later i started paying more attention and this is what worked for me. When in any position with my husband inside of me and ladies you know that feeling you get when it really feels good and your partner is thrusting really hard and fast. When i get to that point i have him to pull out and rub the head of his dick on my inner lips. I squirt like crazy after that.

 

[cutvelvet]

to all of you - thanks for the advice.. you all sound like you have the best most delicious sex lives.. i've heard that posotion with the man in back.. and his hand on your clit is great - can't seem to manage it here..
but boy would i like to try.. and a few others too!!!
but most of all after looking at all these delectable cocks.. i just get, you know, hungry!!

 

[The_Darkness]

I've found two things that work extremely well:

I have extremely fast reflexes. Most people have a reaction time of roughly .2 seconds to see something, have that something register, and then react appropriately. That's the statistical basis in hand-eye coordination, as well as driving ability and stuff of the sort. Mine are slowing down SOME but not much since highschool when we tested in my physics class. Back in the day (6 years ago) they were .03 seconds. Because of that, I can move very very quickly...especailly my hands. The best way I've found to make your girl squirt is to extremely quickly move a finger or two in and out of her, making sure you hit that G-spot every time. Take care that you don't slam your hand into her too hard or you'll hurt her. Becareful that you don't pull out and move your hand up and slam it forward or you might really (possibly permanently) hurt her and your fingers.

The other is the good ol' fashion tongue. Learn to make that tongue do things to her that she's never even fantasized about before. This may differ from woman to woman, that seems to be key.

Also, as I've mentioned in the golden showers thread.....and in direct relation to this: Serta Select Queen-sized mattresses are expensive. Try to not ruin them by making your girl gush all over them and soaking through the damn thing.

 

[cutvelvet]

oh yes that does sound lovely.. and it is important not to be too hard with your fingers.. but the tongue.. ahhh yes!!

 

[lovelylisa]

I tell you..to see so many posts about this makes me feel so good! I thought I was the only one!

When I squirt it's usually after I'm really turned on...although I do it almost everytime I cum....I guess it's just the extent of how wet I get everything. I usually cum a couple of times...and it tends to be several little ones and a couple bg ones (if it's a good night ) The more play there is before hand...the more of a mess everything gets.

I agree with all the ladies who mentioned that it feels like the need to bear down on something...it feels like my center is melting.

 

[lovelylisa]

Serta Select Queen-sized mattresses are expensive. Try to not ruin them by making your girl gush all over them and soaking through the damn thing.

Or you could do like I did & invest in a good waterpoof mattress pad

 

[The_Darkness]

Or you could do like I did & invest in a good waterpoof mattress pad

See...there you go thinking.

After the first mattress was replaced, when we'd get extremely frisky like that we'd move out to her couch....we never sat on it (though company did...) and couches are easy to find if you look...

Good matresses on the other hand....

 

[Filbod]

Damn you make me want to fuck right now to try this... I've always been curious but just thought it was something only a handful of women could do...

I'm glad I saw this post, and will definitely be trying out the techniques you have been describing on my partner

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

it works best when you completely clear your mind at least for me anyways!

 

[romeonline]

No one seem 100 % certain female ejaculation is not urine.
I'm looking foe a squirter who would be ready to do an experiement for us.
You would simply need to ingest methylene bue and see if the ejaculate turns bue or not. It's not dangerous at all. Urine will be colored in bue.
Amitriptyline can do the trick too.

 

[psyche]

No one seem 100 % certain female ejaculation is not urine.
I'm looking foe a squirter who would be ready to do an experiement for us.
You would simply need to ingest methylene bue and see if the ejaculate turns bue or not. It's not dangerous at all. Urine will be colored in bue.
Amitriptyline can do the trick too.

It doesn't look like urine, it doesn't smell like urine...........

 

[romeonline]

Psyche,
Could you collect it along with pee and compare them closely? Or is that too gross?

 

[The_Darkness]

Female Ejaculation isn't pee....sometimes they pee while they ejaculate.....but they're not the same thing. Their plumbing switches over just like a guy and if things go right, they get mighty damn wet.

Ejaculation is just a huge gush of their natural juices....it's not urine that women secrete when they're wet.....

 

[Doclube]

The Darkness is Right!!

There isn't any urine in female ejaculation.
AndI beleave that the amount is controlled by the level of excitement.
And the taste and smell is controlled by what is eatten.
But if it is urine...I have drank alot of tasty urine, for alot of years..lol.
Doc L.

 

[The_Darkness]

Pineapple juice. That's all I gotta say about that. Pineapple juice, aside from being really good for you is loaded with sugar and some other fun chemicals that react and make one's juices taste a whole lot better.

For that matter, don't eat what I eat...greasy, salty food. That shit is not good for one's body chemistry and the proof is in the pudding....so to speak.

 

[psyche]

Psyche,
Could you collect it along with pee and compare them closely? Or is that too gross?

Should I start a new business? Do you want a vial of each?

ROFLMFAO!

 

[paintergrl]

My experience...

I have only squirted once & it was the most intense orgasm I have ever had. He had given me quite a few orgasms before hand...I think I was in around 10-20. He did them by rough nipple play...which few people know how to do, & it doesn't work for all women, but it does for me...anyway.... I was on my knees, & blind folded, & cuffed, & he hit my g spot & I exploded, he just barely hit it with the vibrator & I could feel it gushing down my legs & theighs...I went absolutly wild. A little while later, he had worked me up with a few smaller orgasms, & was in the process of fingering/fisting me & once again, another intense feeling, liquid gushing down my theigs.

So...I would have to say, it is possible for all women. Some squirt easier than others...but in my experience a few smaller orgasms building you up will make you squirt. & be prepared, because if you are anything like me, your body will kind of shake, you will moan, scream, might even tear up. But it is worth it! Hope this helps...enjoy

 

[ullr]

Similar to G-spot orgasms...

psyche, you explained the way I feel to perfection.
I've always wondered if other women experience it the way I do, so I'll just ask. Do you have an incredible urge to bear down, similiar to giving birth? I always bear down and push really hard, and then I'm just flowing. I soak an area of the bed that is about a foot and half wide, and it feels so good.

This fits with my (male and observed) experience: fe involves the pelvic floor of the uterine muscles.

The mystery, it seems to me, is how this musculature is linked to the nerves of clitoris? - which has I think been best described (by a woman anatomist) as flowing from the outer clit in the shape of the four lines of the top of a pyramid (woman on back).

(It's this latter bit of nerve info that I've shared with woman-friends to explain why they orgasm from anal sex! The "bulbs" of the clit nerves go below the anus.)

Again, the work of a lot of fascinating musculature and nerves are going on; women ARE superior to men in their mysterious, complicated, and fascinating sexuality. Could Kegal excercises and G-spot stimulation help promote these prodromal mini-mega orgasms dicussed above? Perhaps your female subjective (and erotically poetic!) insights can be usefully correlated with my intellectual observations...?

Now, as other have said, not every woman can have fe; my only definite ejaculating partner only did it (to her total surprise) in response to my digital G-spot stimulations. But perhaps more women can learn!

--Orson

PS In porn, almost all stuff marketed as fe I judge to be mere urination. The one notable exception is the last third of Seymour Butt's "Seymour's Squirters" (1996):
http://www.iafd.com/title.asp?title=Seymore's+Squirters&year=1996
Seymours instructions, as well as Stephanie Swift's scene where Seymore aggressively finger fucks her, resulting in an amazing squirting orgasm, might prove helpful. Please view and report back, ladies!

 

[romeonline]

I still wonder how these paraurethral glands (around 20 of them along the the terminal portion of the urethra) can produce so much fluid.
From how the fluid is expelled, the ejaculate must first build up in the bladder. During the releasing phase, it's violently expelled. The presence of urine would be the result of some urine already present in the bladder. Then everything makes sense.