female ejaculation

[psyche]

My lover can make me squirt and it's an incredible experience. It is the most intense orgasm that I have ever had. He can at times make me squirt with just his fingers in my pussy, but most of the time it's with his cock. He gets me so worked up I could die for him to fuck me, then he finally lets me have his cock after multiple g-spot orgasms, each time his cock slides into me I cum so hard that I squirt all over him and soak the sheets and the bed. It's the most wonderful sex that I have ever had.

 

[warrior queen]

there's one person who has always been able to make me squirt - and he's been able to do it both by finger and cock.
never fails.
the most intense orgasms ever!

god, i hope my dream of being with him permanently happens

 

[floweringlotus]

Psyche and Warrior queen - you say that it is your lover that is making you squirt.. but isn't it something in you that allows you to squirt? Like letting go in a certain way or holding/not holding any pelvic muscles [or thigh muscles] in a certain way? Or are you not conscious of anything that you do to be able to squirt?
Just trying to learn ....
thanks,
flowering lotus

 

[warrior queen]

Psyche and Warrior queen - you say that it is your lover that is making you squirt.. but isn't it something in you that allows you to squirt? Like letting go in a certain way or holding/not holding any pelvic muscles [or thigh muscles] in a certain way? Or are you not conscious of anything that you do to be able to squirt?
Just trying to learn ....
thanks,
flowering lotus

you are probably correct - it is something in me as well.

i let go with this guy in a way i have never done with anyone else - sex with him is both totally relaxed and incredibly intense, it's like every single cell is involved........ mind as well as body.

so yes, i guess that has a lot to do with being able to squirt.

but i am also convinced that he has been able to read my body in a way no other man has ever done, and he's able to find every single 'spot' that can take me over the edge.
once or twice, he's been able to bring me to an unbelievable orgasm with no genital contact whatsoever.

 

[floweringlotus]

i know what you mean about orgasming from no genital stimulation. I do that too, on a regular basis. .. cumming from nipple stimulation or just from breathing, too. That is awesome. The lover I am with now is able to read me, too, like you write about. It's really neat and I have learned a lot.

I've squirted a bit now and then, but nothing 'to write home about' and I can't help but think I'm trying too hard, or doing something 'wrong.' The women he has been with before have been able to do it already and he said that he thought that I would just be able to do it easily. Not. At first he was telling me to bear down, but that was more work than pleasure and it wasn't getting me anywhere. That is what led me to try to learn about 'how to' ....... so, if you can think of anything in particular that you do or don't do at that particular moment,.... do tell !! lol..

flowering lotus

 

[psyche]

Psyche and Warrior queen - you say that it is your lover that is making you squirt.. but isn't it something in you that allows you to squirt? Like letting go in a certain way or holding/not holding any pelvic muscles [or thigh muscles] in a certain way? Or are you not conscious of anything that you do to be able to squirt?
Just trying to learn ....
thanks,
flowering lotus

I suppose it is that I have always been able to squirt, but I have never done it before my present lover. He has, from the first time we were together, had the perfect touch for me as if he has read the manual on what touches at what time make me extremely hot. I met him on Lit and he was perfectly matched for me sexually. I have never experienced the pleasure that I have had in his arms. I think that one thing that I have noticed is that I should make sure that I am hydrated before I see him. He also has to work me up slowly to the point that I will squirt for him. I have to be very hot for him. There have been times when we meet for the first time in a while and I want him so badly that he can put his fingers into me and I will squirt for him because it's been a while since I've had him. There is a feeling of 'letting go' and giving myself over to him completely.

 

[DevilishTexan]

I suppose it is that I have always been able to squirt, but I have never done it before my present lover. He has, from the first time we were together, had the perfect touch for me as if he has read the manual on what touches at what time make me extremely hot. I met him on Lit and he was perfectly matched for me sexually. I have never experienced the pleasure that I have had in his arms. I think that one thing that I have noticed is that I should make sure that I am hydrated before I see him. He also has to work me up slowly to the point that I will squirt for him. I have to be very hot for him. There have been times when we meet for the first time in a while and I want him so badly that he can put his fingers into me and I will squirt for him because it's been a while since I've had him. There is a feeling of 'letting go' and giving myself over to him completely.

Damn that is hot. Love that.

 

[a_sexy1_4u]

Squirting is something all women have to experience...or at least try to experience. It is unbefuckinglieviable!!!!

 

[a_sexy1_4u]

I suppose it is that I have always been able to squirt, but I have never done it before my present lover. He has, from the first time we were together, had the perfect touch for me as if he has read the manual on what touches at what time make me extremely hot. I met him on Lit and he was perfectly matched for me sexually. I have never experienced the pleasure that I have had in his arms. I think that one thing that I have noticed is that I should make sure that I am hydrated before I see him. He also has to work me up slowly to the point that I will squirt for him. I have to be very hot for him. There have been times when we meet for the first time in a while and I want him so badly that he can put his fingers into me and I will squirt for him because it's been a while since I've had him. There is a feeling of 'letting go' and giving myself over to him completely.

Psyche.......you said it so perfect. It is something that "he" has to take time with. Then you know it is going to happen and you just wait.

 

[CelticFrog]

I have never squirted.
Then again, I have only just recently experienced a g-spot orgasm.

Here's to hoping I'll achieve that at some point.
Ang

 

[psyche]

Psyche.......you said it so perfect. It is something that "he" has to take time with. Then you know it is going to happen and you just wait.

It is so good. I love it when I can feel it coming and I can tell him that I'm going to squirt for him because he makes me so hot........

 

[floweringlotus]

Psyche, you wrote: I love it when I can feel it coming

So, can you explain how you feel when you feel it coming?

~~Trying to learn so that I can hopefully experience it myself at some point also.

Thank you,
floweringlotus

 

[psyche]

Psyche, you wrote: I love it when I can feel it coming

So, can you explain how you feel when you feel it coming?

~~Trying to learn so that I can hopefully experience it myself at some point also.

Thank you,
floweringlotus

This is going to sound very strange, lol! And keep in mind that it's about 7:30 in the morning and I am very tired!

It feels as if his fingers or his cock have touched me to the very center of my being and that he has opened me up completely, there is a feeling of some pressure that I have to give into for a release, my pussy is soaking wet, and I feel as if I am liquid in my center. I know if I cum at that point that I will squirt.........

 

[dc&gw]

FE

I have been reading this post and thought I should add my experience. My lover can make me "squirt" as you've been saying, and it IS the wonderful experience you are talking about. I have realized that it does take a little practice. For one, when you are rushing, it won't happen. Someone said at the begining of this conversation that they've experience "mini" ones. That is how it was for me at first, then one night after a lot of those mini ones, my body started to lose control and I could feel a pressure building up, from that I just relaxed and let whatever was happening happen...and afterwards the sheets were wet, my lover was wet...and we both were exhausted...

Time and relaxation. Don't worry about it, just let it happen.

 

[unplugged1]

psyche, you explained the way I feel to perfection.
I've always wondered if other women experience it the way I do, so I'll just ask. Do you have an incredible urge to bear down, similiar to giving birth? I always bear down and push really hard, and then I'm just flowing. I soak an area of the bed that is about a foot and half wide, and it feels so good.

 

[psyche]

psyche, you explained the way I feel to perfection.
I've always wondered if other women experience it the way I do, so I'll just ask. Do you have an incredible urge to bear down, similiar to giving birth? I always bear down and push really hard, and then I'm just flowing. I soak an area of the bed that is about a foot and half wide, and it feels so good.

Yes, I think I know what you're talking about, the pressure is there for some release and you feel as if if you 'push' the liquid will flow. I have never experienced childbirth, so I can't comment on whether it's similar or not! LOL!

I didn't see my lover this weekend, and won't until Thursday. This week will be the build up to some incredible sex. I'm already thinking about what it'll be like to have his hands on me.........the best we have had is him getting me so hot that every time he slides his cock into me I cum and squirt all over him, me and the bed..............over and over again..............oh god!!! LOL!

 

[floweringlotus]

Thanks everybody for sharing!!
dc&gw That was me that said that about the mini ones. Thanks for sharing your experience.
You wrote: my body started to lose control and I could feel a pressure building up Can you describe the presure? Like where is it?

After I have had a lot of orgasms - intense ones - I think that I get to that point where my body feels like it is losing control.. (or else it's my mind that is losing control..) and I get scared to go any further, like it's just too much and I'm exhausted. Don't know... just trying to learn about this...

unplugged1, you asked:
Do you have an incredible urge to bear down, similiar to giving birth? I always bear down and push really hard

My lover has told me to do that. I tried it several times and all that happened was that I got tired and frustrated. Maybe I was bearing down at the wrong time, but I had just ejaculated a bit and he had responded to it .. duh.. So he suggested bearing down. Can you describe at what point you felt like doing that?

 

[floweringlotus]

ohh, that kind of pressure.. is it like needing to pee?

I haven't experienced childbirth either....

 

[dc&gw]

floweringlotus, I don't know how to explain when to "bear down", but there is pressure like you are about to have a small orgasm, but it doesn't come...and then it still doesn't come. I feel at that point that pushing will help it come, so I push, but not for the entire time. Kind of random pushing.

You also said: "I get scared to go any further, like it's just too much and I'm exhausted. Don't know... just trying to learn about this..."
That is when you need to just relax (I know...easier said then done, but you'll thank us all!!) and tell you guy to keep up whatever he's doing. Then, just concentrate on yourself and the pleasure you are receiving. Don't think of stopping...or how exhausted you are...rather, how much fun you're having, how much you love your partner and what he's doing to you, etc.

Good luck.

 

[floweringlotus]

floweringlotus, I don't know how to explain when to "bear down", but there is pressure like you are about to have a small orgasm, but it doesn't come...and then it still doesn't come. I feel at that point that pushing will help it come, so I push, but not for the entire time. Kind of random pushing.

Oh, okay. that helps a lot dc&gw! I'll pay attention to that next time. We live 2 hours apart and don't see each other that often sometimes, so I'll have to wait, but that's okay.
We have been talking about what he can do differently to help me. He is really into helping me be able to do it.
I really appreciate what you wrote. I understand more now that it isn't a 'pee' pressure, but rather an orgasm pressure.
That makes more sense to me.

And, about relaxing and thinking about enjoyment instead of being tired... I'll do that too. Thanks!!

.... on the road to success

 

[Fink96]

getting one to shoot

I have done this several times with females.

Most of the time she has been sucking me and me using my hands and fingers on the outside and gentle stroking the G spot.

This is and was a charge for me to make these females do this.

At least to give a woman this experience is really neat. '

D J Fink

 

[Doclube]

Advice on making her squirt

Well there is one thing, you can't make her squirt. She does it!
So I found with my wife...if i'm going heavy on the forplay and give her a full body treatment, working from her head to her toes not missing any of her erotic buttons, and I am really getting into it, Massaging her clit, Licking and sucking her pussy, And I am making love to her,and doing it because I love her. Then She will squirt! but if I had watched something in a porn fick, and tried it on her, and she sees that i'm concentrating on the act instead of just making love to her then she most likely won't squirt. The main thing is to relax, and stop trying... because then, you become mechanical, and she might be trying to squirt just to make you happy. Just make love to the woman and if she can squirt, she will. But if she can't squirt, That don't mean that she isn't having orgasms. True story back when my wife and i were first married one of her friends and us got into a three some....Now I know that I was doing it right, because I had my wife squirting, I did the same things to her friend, and she was completely enjoying what I was doing...I could tell by her wonderfull taste, and beautiful sent that her pussy was giving that she was having orgasms, But not once did she squirt. But not all women are squirters. So try something special, wine dine make her feel special. Start slow let it build. Crave her for her, and you won't care if she squirts or not...because you will have the hottest ride of your life.

 

[floweringlotus]

Well put, doclube!!


Thank you. I think that is a part of my problem, is that I am feeling like it is mechanical on his end and I am being mechanical on my end. I know he doesn't love me and that I am sort of a "fuck buddy" so there is an element missing for me.......

thanks for sharing....

 

[taz7660]

Can you squirt without having the big "o"????

 

[floweringlotus]

No, I can't. But I have been told that it takes having lots of big O's in order to do it. I usually have lots of little AND big O's, on and on, so I hope to be able to add this to my experiences.