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Doclube said:Chocolate
Dam girl you are hot !!! with a Capital H...I checked out your pics and MMMM - MMMM, if you ever need any help, I'll drink you all night
Doc.
hehe thanks Doc... i'd be sure to give you a call, just expect to get drowned lol
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The clitoris probably holds the key to female ejaculation for most women. If the clitoris is not stimulated a woman is less likely to become highly aroused. If she is not highly aroused, her paraurethral glands will not fill with fluid. If her paraurethral glands are not swollen she may not have a G spot. If her clitoris is not stimulated she is less likely to reach orgasm, preventing the rhythmic contractions of the pelvic muscles that expel and release the ejaculate. So quite simply, before you can go exploring for the G spot, you must master clitoral stimulation beforehand.
Is there a bit of power and control..
Is it a bit of a thrill knowing that you will end up flooding a guy's mouth and face with your juices? I know guys get off on cumming all over women. (a waste in my oppinion), but if you can ejaculate is it good to know he wants it? Is it enjoyable to watch it? Does it add anything to feel him trying to suck it in and swallow it?
I just want to be part of it: to help her; to encourage her response; to get a sense of her experience, bottom line.... I'm jealous we can't cum as much.
Now all that is... selfish on my part.... so the vision of a woman straddling my face and "forcing" me to take it is a different angle, but I don't know if that would work or even be interesting to women.
ChocolateHarlot said:hehe thanks Doc... i'd be sure to give you a call, just expect to get drowned lol
Is it a bit of a thrill knowing that you will end up flooding a guy's mouth and face with your juices? I know guys get off on cumming all over women. (a waste in my oppinion), but if you can ejaculate is it good to know he wants it? Is it enjoyable to watch it? Does it add anything to feel him trying to suck it in and swallow it?
I just want to be part of it: to help her; to encourage her response; to get a sense of her experience, bottom line.... I'm jealous we can't cum as much.
Now all that is... selfish on my part.... so the vision of a woman straddling my face and "forcing" me to take it is a different angle, but I don't know if that would work or even be interesting to women.
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uptoplay2 said:
To be honest, we havent perfected it enough to be able to know that its definately gonna happen - yet
And I was a little worried at first in case he liked the idea of me squirting but not the actual event, however when it did happen he was far from turned off and knowing that really got me hornier still so when it happened again I was more into it so it ended up being pretty mind blowing for both of us. He said that it took him by surprise the first couple of times but he got a real kick out of it, and I was super horny knowing that he wanted it too. He also likes the idea of being 'made' to take it and anything my hubby likes is interesting to me too so I dont think youre selfish.
wow
A response that gave me a hardon.. without a pic! Thank you!
ChocolateHarlot said:To be honest, we havent perfected it enough to be able to know that its definately gonna happen - yet
He said that it took him by surprise the first couple of times but he got a real kick out of it, and I was super horny knowing that he wanted it too. He also likes the idea of being 'made' to take it and anything my hubby likes is interesting to me too so I dont think youre selfish.
A response that gave me a hardon.. without a pic! Thank you!
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uptoplay2 said:
It did???
Lol cool.
well there is some selfishness
If I can help her enjoy this kind of climax, perhaps she will be eager to help me experience something equivalent and take part in that, but that would be a subject that is covered on other threads. Standard ejaculations... just don't compare once you've experienced the possibilities. Not that they are great........ but there is something that makes them better.
If I can help her enjoy this kind of climax, perhaps she will be eager to help me experience something equivalent and take part in that, but that would be a subject that is covered on other threads. Standard ejaculations... just don't compare once you've experienced the possibilities. Not that they are great........ but there is something that makes them better.
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lots
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and foreplay...(lol)
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and foreplay...(lol)
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I'll go ahead and admit that I haven't read all of the posts on this thread. However, I thought I would share my first squirting experience.
First off, hubby and I are considered an open marriage. So, we were at a Halloween party this past Oct and I was playing with a friend. He and I had pretty much finished up and were laying on the bed, enjoying the post "O" glow. He was kneeling at my side, knees near my head. So, he decided to just gently start fingering me again. Then he went deep... kind of past the gspot, just slightly. Needless to say it was beginning to feel really good!! I was moaning a lot and he says I kept saying.. ohh.. ohhh... ohhh...LOL. I wasn't really sure what was going on but I started feeling little sprinkles all over my face. The sensations were very intense and when I finished, I looked up at him and asked if I just squirted. He said, "hunny, you just soaked the bed!" LOL
I'd say I soaked more than the bed. His chest was wet, as well as mine, not to mention the headboard AND the wall.... oops! The funniest part was, once I realized what happened, I jumped up off the bed to check out the wet spot... then I hopped back on it and told him to do it again!!! Soo, he made me squirt 4 times that night. Needless to say we had to change the bedding to sleep that night and LUCKILY the hotel had waterproof pads under all the sheets, so we didn't have to flip the mattress.
I have just recently figured out how to make myself gush some. My friend can make me squirt like crazy, everytime. I think part of the reason is my fingers are not strong enough yet to manipulate the spot. Personally, I don't need clit stimulation to gush or squirt..just finger manipulation. I have also been known to gush a time or two with intercourse. Hubby is still trying to figure out how to make me do it and it sure is fun teaching him.
Good luck to all you that want to squirt and to all the squirters, keep having fun!!!
Jenn
ps-Don't forget to load up on water, before, during and after. It is extrememly easy to dehydrate. Not to mention, you get more volume when you drink lots of water.
First off, hubby and I are considered an open marriage. So, we were at a Halloween party this past Oct and I was playing with a friend. He and I had pretty much finished up and were laying on the bed, enjoying the post "O" glow. He was kneeling at my side, knees near my head. So, he decided to just gently start fingering me again. Then he went deep... kind of past the gspot, just slightly. Needless to say it was beginning to feel really good!! I was moaning a lot and he says I kept saying.. ohh.. ohhh... ohhh...LOL. I wasn't really sure what was going on but I started feeling little sprinkles all over my face. The sensations were very intense and when I finished, I looked up at him and asked if I just squirted. He said, "hunny, you just soaked the bed!" LOL
I'd say I soaked more than the bed. His chest was wet, as well as mine, not to mention the headboard AND the wall.... oops! The funniest part was, once I realized what happened, I jumped up off the bed to check out the wet spot... then I hopped back on it and told him to do it again!!! Soo, he made me squirt 4 times that night. Needless to say we had to change the bedding to sleep that night and LUCKILY the hotel had waterproof pads under all the sheets, so we didn't have to flip the mattress.
I have just recently figured out how to make myself gush some. My friend can make me squirt like crazy, everytime. I think part of the reason is my fingers are not strong enough yet to manipulate the spot. Personally, I don't need clit stimulation to gush or squirt..just finger manipulation. I have also been known to gush a time or two with intercourse. Hubby is still trying to figure out how to make me do it and it sure is fun teaching him.
Good luck to all you that want to squirt and to all the squirters, keep having fun!!!
Jenn
ps-Don't forget to load up on water, before, during and after. It is extrememly easy to dehydrate. Not to mention, you get more volume when you drink lots of water.
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Have you ever thought of a story?
Hi Jen,
Sounds like you got it figured out...that's great! Have you ever thought of writing the story in detail, then subit it to Literotica? If you do, just make shure you have all your spelling, grammer, and punctuations correct! because they will reject the story.... Been there! and still there...lol.
But from what you are talking about, I think it will make one hot story! Continue on with the hot squirts!!!! And think about your story.
Doc.
Hi Jen,
Sounds like you got it figured out...that's great! Have you ever thought of writing the story in detail, then subit it to Literotica? If you do, just make shure you have all your spelling, grammer, and punctuations correct! because they will reject the story.... Been there! and still there...lol.
But from what you are talking about, I think it will make one hot story! Continue on with the hot squirts!!!! And think about your story.
Doc.
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While I have written a story or two for hubby and friends, I don't really feel confidant at this point to submit. I will definitely keep it in mind though. Thanks for the tips!
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i believe women today are more aware of their bodies. squirting used to scare me, i thought i was peeing and would get really embarrassed. you can imagine that it would put a damper on my ability to cum with a new partner.
it was a college g/f that filled me in. "i what???" i was relieved and excited.
it was a college g/f that filled me in. "i what???" i was relieved and excited.
Opra should do a show on this!
I'm only kidding a little bit. Hmm I wonder if Opra knows? Or imagine your favorite female news anchor covering this story and letting us know about their own personal experiences. Not going to happen is it...... too bad.
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I'm only kidding a little bit. Hmm I wonder if Opra knows? Or imagine your favorite female news anchor covering this story and letting us know about their own personal experiences. Not going to happen is it...... too bad.
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uptoplay2 said:
you make me wonder...
has anyone talked to their daughters about female ejaculation?
as mine grew we talked about reproduction, later just sexual aspects and masturbation and orgasms, and std's, and birth control.
but it never occurred to me to discuss squirting.
its funny if my mom had talked to me about masturbation or orgasms, i would have freaked out.
opra should do a show... i'd watch ;-)
Hmmmm.
If someone doesn't fill her in about how good sex can be, some lame ass guy is going to do it and I'll end up with a jerk as a son-in-law. Somehow getting her this information is sort of like giving her the basics of religion so no nut case can fill a religious void with the "true word".
HOW? When? At what point won't I get arrested for just letting her see a video? Hell, are we ALLOWED to talk to our own kids about sex these days??
Yeah, if my parents has talked to me at all about sex I would have freaked, but then again it would have stopped me sneaking around a lot.
kaboom3d said:
If someone doesn't fill her in about how good sex can be, some lame ass guy is going to do it and I'll end up with a jerk as a son-in-law. Somehow getting her this information is sort of like giving her the basics of religion so no nut case can fill a religious void with the "true word".
HOW? When? At what point won't I get arrested for just letting her see a video? Hell, are we ALLOWED to talk to our own kids about sex these days??
Yeah, if my parents has talked to me at all about sex I would have freaked, but then again it would have stopped me sneaking around a lot.
Greetings all,
First all women can squirt. It is a matter of knowing your partner and knowing yourself. Most women who squirt have mastered the technique to squirt subconsciously, which makes it very intense for them.
If you have not squirted during climax you probably are one of those women who for a moment lose total control of your muscles and or drop into an orgasmic mind overload state, which is wonderful in its own right. So here is some advice for learning to squirt.
First, do not take short breaths, your sexual organs which include your brain need oxygen as all of your sexusal orgam simulation is via blood flow the more oxygen in your blood the greater the sensation will be, so practice deep breaths when nearing your orgasm that is advice for both sexes really. The light headedness and swooning feeling you normally have when your taking short sharp breaths is actually oxygen depravation you not getting enough oxygen to your brain so you going through a "false high". So practice deep breaths durning and prior to your orgams.
Second, high level of arousal is always good, foreplay thats longer than "brace yourself honey" is helpful, you males out there understand that comment and unfortunately so do many women. Take your time have your partner tease and please you slowly and build to your chresendo slowly.
Third, as you approach orgasm, thighen your stomach muscles, remember to breath, and as you hit that edge push down and out and dont stop pushing. You might feel for a second like your going to pee, don't worry your not, keep pushing, have your partner keep his simulation steady and if its hands have him talk to you either dirty or sensual talk which ever turns you on.
I promise you if you do this, and it might take a few tried, that peeing sensation can catch you off guard, like I said keep pushing, when you finally do gush forth in what has been described to me as a full body orgasm, you will probably say what my lover did the first time she squirt...Oh my god what the fuck did I just do? That was after she remember how to speak
Enjoy and experiment and most of all relax and have fun, enjoyment is the most important part of sex.
First all women can squirt. It is a matter of knowing your partner and knowing yourself. Most women who squirt have mastered the technique to squirt subconsciously, which makes it very intense for them.
If you have not squirted during climax you probably are one of those women who for a moment lose total control of your muscles and or drop into an orgasmic mind overload state, which is wonderful in its own right. So here is some advice for learning to squirt.
First, do not take short breaths, your sexual organs which include your brain need oxygen as all of your sexusal orgam simulation is via blood flow the more oxygen in your blood the greater the sensation will be, so practice deep breaths when nearing your orgasm that is advice for both sexes really. The light headedness and swooning feeling you normally have when your taking short sharp breaths is actually oxygen depravation you not getting enough oxygen to your brain so you going through a "false high". So practice deep breaths durning and prior to your orgams.
Second, high level of arousal is always good, foreplay thats longer than "brace yourself honey" is helpful, you males out there understand that comment and unfortunately so do many women. Take your time have your partner tease and please you slowly and build to your chresendo slowly.
Third, as you approach orgasm, thighen your stomach muscles, remember to breath, and as you hit that edge push down and out and dont stop pushing. You might feel for a second like your going to pee, don't worry your not, keep pushing, have your partner keep his simulation steady and if its hands have him talk to you either dirty or sensual talk which ever turns you on.
I promise you if you do this, and it might take a few tried, that peeing sensation can catch you off guard, like I said keep pushing, when you finally do gush forth in what has been described to me as a full body orgasm, you will probably say what my lover did the first time she squirt...Oh my god what the fuck did I just do? That was after she remember how to speak
Enjoy and experiment and most of all relax and have fun, enjoyment is the most important part of sex.
Hello!there!
YES! I've done this before and eveybody probably thinks we're full of shit but i'm a witness to the (Great)madness!It's awesome to say the least and is very exhausting! But you're true to say you must know your partner well to share something like this .You do feel as if you're peeing!How bout since there're not probably too many of us ,we get together and check one another out! Just kidding but really not. Just wanted to chime in and let all know that this is true and hopefully you all will someday be able to succeed in this "BIG" experiment.
YES! I've done this before and eveybody probably thinks we're full of shit but i'm a witness to the (Great)madness!It's awesome to say the least and is very exhausting! But you're true to say you must know your partner well to share something like this .You do feel as if you're peeing!How bout since there're not probably too many of us ,we get together and check one another out! Just kidding but really not. Just wanted to chime in and let all know that this is true and hopefully you all will someday be able to succeed in this "BIG" experiment.
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I've been lurking on this particular thread for a while so I thought I ought to come out and give my two cents worth on the topic.
It wasn't until the first time I had sex with my current partner that I actually believed everything about G-spot stimulation and female ejaculation. Who knows where he learned it but I will give my wholehearted thanks to whoever taught him should I ever meet them. Very pleasant story about how I learned, but something for another day methinks.
About 80% of the time my g-spot is stimulated do I ejaculate, usually it's just a matter of time, arousal level, and stimulation, but for me it is not a given thing, nor is it predictable. Practicing my kegels has really helped with this and sex in general.
It wasn't until the first time I had sex with my current partner that I actually believed everything about G-spot stimulation and female ejaculation. Who knows where he learned it but I will give my wholehearted thanks to whoever taught him should I ever meet them. Very pleasant story about how I learned, but something for another day methinks.
About 80% of the time my g-spot is stimulated do I ejaculate, usually it's just a matter of time, arousal level, and stimulation, but for me it is not a given thing, nor is it predictable. Practicing my kegels has really helped with this and sex in general.
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lots of interestig sugesstions......quite a learning curve...... 
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this little vid was alot of help for me and my wife. sorry if its not ok to post url's here.
http://www.porkolt.com/adult/female/squirt/g-spot/ejaculation/pussy/instruction-15370.html
http://www.porkolt.com/adult/female/squirt/g-spot/ejaculation/pussy/instruction-15370.html
