Exploring with women

[sweetnlovely]

I don't know too many women who don't like foreplay....I have a sensitive neck too, and licks and nips to it send shivers throughout my body...yumm....I like teasing foreplay, when you know where it'll end up, but your partner drives you slowly crazy going there!
Anyone else?

 

[Guest]

Where are ya, Diz? We're eager for you to chime in, too.

 

[dizzylia]

I agree, sometimes the foreplay is the best part. That's definitely something my male lovers never caught on to. But then, they're all about the penis action. Ahem...

Sometimes for me, my own actions are as exciting to me as those of my lover. I love to explore with my fingertips, I love the little shivers and gasps, I love the scents and tastes.

But receiving... Also a neck person, most definitely. There's something so close and intimate about it. I love being touched while my eyes are closed. (Blindfolds kind of add to that a little bit, I'll admit.)

And that reminds me, gently raked fingernails along my stomach or thighs... yeah. Very nice.

And then there's teasing... I'm never really sure where the foreplay stops and the sex begins, though, so I'm not sure where teasing falls.

 

[Guest]

Once again, you put your finger right on it, so to speak. The pace and exploration are what work for me. It's so good for its own sake and so much less goal-oriented than with gys.

 

[sweetnlovely]

I've been lucky, my hubby is way into foreplay! I also love the feeling of power when I'm on the giving end...watching your actions bring on shivers and gasps, moans and all kinds of responses, and knowing that your driving your partner wild! Now if I could just find a female partner to try this on, and see the different nuances in response....sigh!

 

[Guest]

Accepting applications?

 

[sweetnlovely]

All willing applicants PM me with your resume...lol!

 

[dizzylia]

*bump*

So what are you guys up to this fine, spring night?

 

[dizzylia]

Hmm... slow night in Lit-Land, I guess. I hope you guys have a good week. Ciao!

 

[sensualpilgrim]

Speaking of foreplay, how important is it to you? And what turns you on?

For me, it's brainy talk and a wicked, foul-mouthed humorous banter. Any woman who can hold her own with me over dinner or anywhere will get my attention. Especially, if she start doing the dare games. From there, I find flashing in exhibiting way to be a turn-on. But brain fuck is the first foreplay for me.

 

[sensualpilgrim]

I agree, sometimes the foreplay is the best part. That's definitely something my male lovers never caught on to. But then, they're all about the penis action. Ahem...

And then there's teasing... I'm never really sure where the foreplay stops and the sex begins, though, so I'm not sure where teasing falls.

I don't know where you find those guys, because I, as a guy, love taking my time. I think it's because as an artist, I have a very rich and erotic imagination and I can put myself in her high heels so to know where she would get off. I go more for a rich enviroment than just a simple fuck. I went to a couple of orgies and I found it to be disappointment because the enviroment was too middle-class bland. Like where's the hell are the candles and soft jazz music? Teasing is a must for me, I could tease anybody for days on end before I actually do the deed. If she tease me back in up-gamemanship it's even better!

 

[Guest]

Another bump, this time a bit more forceful....

 

[dizzylia]

Oooh, you're heating me up.

I had a random question. When going on appearance only, what is the first thing you notice about someone you find to be attractive?

 

[Guest]

Moi? Their eyes. Sounds cliche, but they truly are a window to the soul. But beyond caring and compassion I look for a hint of mischief, too.

 

[dizzylia]

Building on that, what is your favorite kind(s) of mischief?

 

[Guest]

Afetr that, though, it's the boobs. I kinda like 'em not too big, like Samantha's or someone else's I know...

What about you? What makes your belly flutter?

 

[dizzylia]

Afetr that, though, it's the boobs. I kinda like 'em not too big, like Samantha's or someone else's I know...

What about you? What makes your belly flutter?

Yeah, she kind of turns me on as well. Ahem.

Usually the first thing that really catches my eye is a person's smile. Some people just have those smiles that light up their whole face. And if they're smiling at me?... ooh baby.

 

[Guest]

Hmmm, when I am feeling most mischievous I like shall we say somewhat extravagant public displays of affection. Or maybe semi-public, but a little risk is delicious, dontcha think?

There's a wonderful French word, 'frisson', that about covers it. Do you know it?

 

[Guest]

OK, tell me exactly what you're thinking right now.

 

[dizzylia]

Hmmm, when I am feeling most mischievous I like shall we say somewhat extravagant public displays of affection. Or maybe semi-public, but a little risk is delicious, dontcha think?

There's a wonderful French word, 'frisson', that about covers it. Do you know it?

Shiver, derived from the Latin word meaning friction. (Though I didn't study French. German was my language of choice, which happened to be the only alternative to Latin in my high school.)

And from the dictionary: a brief moment of emotional excitement : SHUDDER, THRILL.

Sounds fantastic.

 

[dizzylia]

OK, tell me exactly what you're thinking right now.

Right this very minute?

I'm trying to think of where to take my current story while hoping it doesn't sound horribly amature. Isn't that exciting?

 

[Guest]

To me it is. I'm looking forward to your next installment.

 

[dizzylia]

Well, hopefully you won't have to wait too long. Plus, I could use an editor.

 

[Guest]

I would LOVE to work with you! A new sort of whole-body editing, with my head, my heart and points south

 

[dizzylia]

Clitoral editing. A whole new experience.