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The Crush
As for my friend, I never mentioned my feelings, which have not diminished with distance. And in some weird twist combined with my knack for making my life as difficult as possible, I'm actually going to be living with her and her family for the next month or so.
Such cruel torture.
*grins* Should be fun, though. I miss them terribly.
I've been very happy there. Hopefully the move will go quickly.plesmone said:
As for my friend, I never mentioned my feelings, which have not diminished with distance. And in some weird twist combined with my knack for making my life as difficult as possible, I'm actually going to be living with her and her family for the next month or so.
Such cruel torture.
*grins* Should be fun, though. I miss them terribly.
Re: The Crush
Like the lovers in your story, sometimes it takes the willingness to open yourself to someone else. And yet you might find an opportunity before your move don't fail to look around you.
dizzylia said:I've been very happy there. Hopefully the move will go quickly.
As for my friend, I never mentioned my feelings, which have not diminished with distance. And in some weird twist combined with my knack for making my life as difficult as possible, I'm actually going to be living with her and her family for the next month or so.
Such cruel torture.
*grins* Should be fun, though. I miss them terribly.
Like the lovers in your story, sometimes it takes the willingness to open yourself to someone else. And yet you might find an opportunity before your move don't fail to look around you.
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Re: Re: The Crush
I think what I am going to do (because it'll drive me insane otherwise) is just say, "This is who I am." I don't have to bring up attractions or crushes or anything. Maybe I'll even show her my stories.
Or maybe the next time she teasingly says, "Bite me".....
*smiles* Good advice indeed.plesmone said:
I think what I am going to do (because it'll drive me insane otherwise) is just say, "This is who I am." I don't have to bring up attractions or crushes or anything. Maybe I'll even show her my stories.
Or maybe the next time she teasingly says, "Bite me".....
Re: Re: Re: The Crush
Writing is not a bad idea if you don't feel you can express yourself face to face yet. Your writing manages to collect even the smallest crumb of a sweet morsel so that nothing goes to waste. When I write, it is lust, sex, a little humor and sex. You write with all the nuisance of actually being there- all the small details that enrich a story. Show her some stories, it is not offensive, it begs the question, "Is this how you would make love?"
And besides, anyone who writes like this must be a gentle lover.
Ples...
dizzylia said:*smiles* Good advice indeed.
I think what I am going to do (because it'll drive me insane otherwise) is just say, "This is who I am." I don't have to bring up attractions or crushes or anything. Maybe I'll even show her my stories.
Or maybe the next time she teasingly says, "Bite me".....
Writing is not a bad idea if you don't feel you can express yourself face to face yet. Your writing manages to collect even the smallest crumb of a sweet morsel so that nothing goes to waste. When I write, it is lust, sex, a little humor and sex. You write with all the nuisance of actually being there- all the small details that enrich a story. Show her some stories, it is not offensive, it begs the question, "Is this how you would make love?"
And besides, anyone who writes like this must be a gentle lover.
Ples...
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Communication through Writing
As you can probably tell already, I'm not too big into confrontation, though mostly I'm just scared to death of the risk. Or the possibly negative outcomes, anyway. The risk itself is kind of exciting.
And as for the last part... thank you, I think. (?) *grins*
That's kind of what I was thinking. That way it's not me forcing myself (figuratively, that is) on her in anyway. Just sharing who I am. Or... something like that.plesmone said:
As you can probably tell already, I'm not too big into confrontation, though mostly I'm just scared to death of the risk. Or the possibly negative outcomes, anyway. The risk itself is kind of exciting.
And as for the last part... thank you, I think. (?) *grins*
Re: Communication through Writing
you just seem like you would romance with a thoughtful ease that would set everything at ease. No pretense.. I guess that is what I meant. And yes, a compliment.
dizzylia said:As you can probably tell already, I'm not too big into confrontation, though mostly I'm just scared to death of the risk. Or the possibly negative outcomes, anyway. The risk itself is kind of exciting.
And as for the last part... thank you, I think. (?) *grins*
you just seem like you would romance with a thoughtful ease that would set everything at ease. No pretense.. I guess that is what I meant. And yes, a compliment.
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An update
I just thought I would announce that my hypothesis on my own sexuality has now been proven to be a fact. It was not with the "happily married with kids" friend, but another whom I've known for years. And it was amazing.
Also, plesmone, I love the new avatar. I'm not sure how new it is, but it's new to me. And as soon as I'm "experienced" enough, I think I have a picture or two I just might try out. 
I just thought I would announce that my hypothesis on my own sexuality has now been proven to be a fact. It was not with the "happily married with kids" friend, but another whom I've known for years. And it was amazing.
Also, plesmone, I love the new avatar. I'm not sure how new it is, but it's new to me.
And as soon as I'm "experienced" enough, I think I have a picture or two I just might try out. Re: An update
just take 10 more posts...
make it 9 and tell me of your love
ples..
dizzylia said:I just thought I would announce that my hypothesis on my own sexuality has now been proven to be a fact. It was not with the "happily married with kids" friend, but another whom I've known for years. And it was amazing.
Also, plesmone, I love the new avatar. I'm not sure how new it is, but it's new to me.
just take 10 more posts...
make it 9 and tell me of your love
ples..
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Re: Re: An update
I flew out to Portland for two weeks, thanks to the amazing generosity of a good friend I've had for a couple years now. She is one of the few people who know I've ever even thought about bisexuality, much less that I thought it applied to me. She also happened to be bi, but married. So I didn't really think anything would come of it.
She and her husband have a fairly open relationship though. Basically, if they're both okay with it, it's cool. I didn't know at the time that my friend had discussed the possibility of she and I hooking up in the two weeks I was there.
A couple days after I arrived, she and I were watching a movie late at night, kind of cuddled up on the couch. She didn't really say anything, but she started playing with my hair a little, which eventually led to stroking her fingers lightly down my neck. It felt wonderful.
I glanced up at her, and it was kind of just... "right", if that makes sense. We kissed, and from there it just gradually progressed until we were both in the spare bedroom.
Unfortunately I don't have time to share all the details, but she was able to do what no man had ever been able to do. (Let's just say I faked a hell of a lot of orgasms.
)
That I can do.plesmone said:
I flew out to Portland for two weeks, thanks to the amazing generosity of a good friend I've had for a couple years now. She is one of the few people who know I've ever even thought about bisexuality, much less that I thought it applied to me. She also happened to be bi, but married. So I didn't really think anything would come of it.
She and her husband have a fairly open relationship though. Basically, if they're both okay with it, it's cool. I didn't know at the time that my friend had discussed the possibility of she and I hooking up in the two weeks I was there.
A couple days after I arrived, she and I were watching a movie late at night, kind of cuddled up on the couch. She didn't really say anything, but she started playing with my hair a little, which eventually led to stroking her fingers lightly down my neck. It felt wonderful.
I glanced up at her, and it was kind of just... "right", if that makes sense. We kissed, and from there it just gradually progressed until we were both in the spare bedroom.
Unfortunately I don't have time to share all the details, but she was able to do what no man had ever been able to do. (Let's just say I faked a hell of a lot of orgasms.
)Re: Re: Re: An update
DETAILS...DETAILS...DETAILS...
I'm happy for you Dizzylia - There's a place for both men and women, nice.
Ples..
dizzylia said:That I can do.
Unfortunately I don't have time to share all the details, but she was able to do what no man had ever been able to do. (Let's just say I faked a hell of a lot of orgasms.
DETAILS...DETAILS...DETAILS...
I'm happy for you Dizzylia - There's a place for both men and women, nice.
Ples..
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dearest lia
so sorry to hear that you've been hanging out
with the wrong kind of man
and we all know there are a lot of them out there
and i'm delighted that you found the pleasure you deserve
from a woman
but you should know that there ARE men
who will treat you right
and if you demand the best
you will one day find it
good luck on the journey . . .
dizzylia said:That I can do.
Unfortunately I don't have time to share all the details, but she was able to do what no man had ever been able to do. (Let's just say I faked a hell of a lot of orgasms.
so sorry to hear that you've been hanging out
with the wrong kind of man
and we all know there are a lot of them out there
and i'm delighted that you found the pleasure you deserve
from a woman
but you should know that there ARE men
who will treat you right
and if you demand the best
you will one day find it
good luck on the journey . . .
dizzylia
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Re: Re: Re: Re: An update
*laughs* I guess mostly I'm not sure what to share, or what people care to hear. I could go on and on about the wonderful feel of her skin, the smell of her hair, her taste... Everything was so new, and what wasn't new was all but forgotten in the last couple years.plesmone said:
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Re: ??
honestly?
probably the quickest way to find him is to look within,
to become comfortable enough with yourself
so that you won't even consider settling for less.
the aura you will create by loving yourself
will attract a whole different type of person.
you can also get there by the ole trial and error method,
but if you want to cut a few miles
off the journey,
i'd take that shortcut through your own heart.
jazey_43 said:
honestly?
probably the quickest way to find him is to look within,
to become comfortable enough with yourself
so that you won't even consider settling for less.
the aura you will create by loving yourself
will attract a whole different type of person.
you can also get there by the ole trial and error method,
but if you want to cut a few miles
off the journey,
i'd take that shortcut through your own heart.
TheOlderGuy
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well, thanks snneze
has anyone ever told you
you have an uncanny resemblance to . . .
well, no, never mind
i'm sure it's just the light
has anyone ever told you
you have an uncanny resemblance to . . .
well, no, never mind
i'm sure it's just the light
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Hi Ples
Interesting room you have here. Any body here's your model(s)? Or role Model?
Pilgrim
Interesting room you have here. Any body here's your model(s)? Or role Model?
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