Exploring with women

I am so envious! Someday I want to be in a relationship in which the trust and communication are strong enough to allow that kind of play. And soon, too.
 
Always fun to explore,give and recieve.
Trust? Yes of course but sometimes you just got to push the boundaries and tell you S.O. what you want to try!
 
We've been together 9 years, so we know each other, and which buttons to push very well...although it seems sometimes we always did. We're very well matched...hehehehe. Otherwise bringing another couple or woman into the mix would have never been an option for us.
 
PhylMeUp2 said:
OK, I'm going to ask in my littlest, most sheepish voice, who else has experimented with spanking? And were your experiments, um, successful?

It's come up at our house, but the problem is that while I suspect my Lovely Wife would enjoy a good spanking now and then, I don't carry the requisite "intimidation factor." She's said she'd just giggle if I tried to spank her.

So I have to figure out how to arrange a Birthday Beating from someone else...

The Dagda
 
I was thinking less of intimidation than frisky fun--fantasy and role-playing, turning as serious as it proved to be stimulating. I'm not sure I could get past the giggle factor, but the school mistress/wayward girl scenario has its charms :)
 
TGIF!

Speaking of role-playing, what are your favorite types of scene?
 
Re: TGIF!

dizzylia said:
Speaking of role-playing, what are your favorite types of scene?

Okay, this is a secret...lol. In my everyday life I'm a outspoken, strong person...but what really gets me going is when someone else takes the lead...makes me want to follow wherever they may take me...lol
 
I'm glad to know that I'm not the only married woman to fantasize about this. I have never been with a woman except for a hot kiss. My hubby seems supportive....but I really don't think he could handle the reality. He is the jealous type, and thinks that all men see me as he does (soooo not true!) I think he would be too insecure to watch another woman make me cum...
 
*dizzy returns from the deep, dark muck that is Real Life*

Oy. Hi, guys. Sorry I haven't been around. To say I've been busy would be a vast understatement. :( I'll try to catch up. Hope you all are doing well.



-dizzy :rose:
 
Hi, Sarah with an H! That must be some wicked long letter you're writing me. Just teasing--I have been impossibly busy too. But it would be great to catch up. PM me if you'd like.
 
Random Dream Conversation

I was talking to this girl who works in my building, and she was saying she had the oddest dream the night before. She said she dreamt she was on a cruise ship, and the only person she knew on the cruise was her (female) boss. Eventually she and her boss ended up in the same room and (in her words), "Hugged... and stuff."

I replied, half jokingly, that she must be bisexual, and she got really offended, so I just kind of stared at her. I thought to myself, "My goodness, you got defensive." ;) I then said I was just joking, and that maybe it just meant she felt really close to her boss, that she trusted her or something. She seemed to like that explanation much better.

Anyway, the whole point of that was that I wondered, have other women had dreams of similar themes before they realized they were bi/gay/other-than-completely-straight?


And now, I want to write a story about a cruise... :devil:
 
Horny?

So, when you're unbelievably horny, and you have no one with you to help relieve the tension, what's your favorite method to do some relieving yourself?
 
hmmmm, turn off all the lights and let the fantasies roll through my head like waves on a beach. Then my hands start to wander...I sometimes use toys (I have a bullet that's really nice)...
:eek: talk about sharing!! anyone else?
 
It depends on my mood. Sometimes I just let it pass. :eek: Sometimes I browse for exciting pictures. My two favorite sites for that is http://wetplace.com/ and http://riskymail4free.com/ (requires e-mail registration, but you can use any dump/spam account and it works - tons of videos)

I prefer the first site, as there are more updates. ;)

Ahem. Sometimes I write. Not as often as I'd like. Usually any of these are combined with some gratuitous masturbation. Mmm. :devil:
 
thanks for the sites, I'm a very visual person! lol I must admit it's not often that I let the feeling pass! The stories I write are usually based on the fantasies I come up with at those times, or when I decide to stimulate my love with some titillating whispers.
 
sweetnlovely said:
thanks for the sites, I'm a very visual person! lol I must admit it's not often that I let the feeling pass! The stories I write are usually based on the fantasies I come up with at those times, or when I decide to stimulate my love with some titillating whispers.
No problem. I love those sites. ;) They're so.... helpful. Yeah, helpful.
 
"Gratuitous?"

I'm not sure masturbation is ever "gratuitous:"

1: without cause; "a gratuitous insult"
2: costing nothing; "complimentary tickets" [syn: complimentary, costless, free, gratis(p)]
3: unnecessary and unwarranted; "a strikers' tent camp...was burned with needless loss of life" [syn: needless, uncalled-for]

OK, maybe in sense #2, "costing nothing."

Nice to see that men aren't the only ones turned on by visual erotica. Actually, it's kind of amusing to me that as I get older, I find myself more turned on by stories than pictures. Which isn't to say that a nice picture or series of pictures [or a video, for that matter] won't still do it for me :D ...

Have you checked out www.domai.com? More artistic than erotic, but a new beauty every day.

And you, Ms. Dizz: when you're next in these parts, I want to see you. Whether I see your "parts," of course, is open for discussion ;)
 
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Hi again, Dagda :)

I still don't know when that will be. I'm waiting to hear back from my brother...
 
Considering the special day, are there any particular outfits you like to wear from time to time? You know what I mean. :devil:
 
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