Exploring Brenda’s Bondage Obsession

[BrendaBear]

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What, if anything does this do for you @BrendaBear?
I find things about this image that turn me on, make me uncomfortable and feel vulnerable.
It's unclear how much she is truly in bondage. She is in leather cuffs (love), but is she actually restrained? The blindfold feels like it creates the greatest level of bondage. Without sight she is reliant on him. His hand guiding the back of her head... she's under his control on several levels. Is he giving her a sip of the red wine because she prettily asked? "Please Sir, may I have something to drink?" Or is he orchestrating every moment of what she is experiencing- every bite, every sip, every moment of increasing loss of control.
The helplessness combined with his control over life essentials- food and drink - heightens for me the sense of dominance/submission.

Oh.... that totally turns me on.... even if she isn't restrained, the fact she (presumably) was instructed to wear the leather cuffs.... makes me squirm. And the blindfold... so hot. The gentle way, he is holding/guiding her head. And for me, someone that truly doesn't enjoy most foods, and hates trying new things... that would be kind of terrifying to me. Can I trust him enough to not put something in there he already knows I like? Just... wow...

To me, if I were in this situation, that would mean I had completely given him control over me... which is overflowing scary and sexy, at the same time (to me).

Thank you so much for posting this!!!


Got any more?

 

[cascadiabound]

Oh....
Got any more?

Serious leather fetish wear, but another blindfold.
I love a leash. And I love the submission of kneeling/being told or forced to kneel.
Again there is both tenderness and control.

 

[MeganFachs]

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Yesterday, my friend @cactusjack0584 posted this. I absolutely love this! To me, she isn’t unhappy, she willingly accepts the gag. He is taking care of her. I badly want to know what else happened.

I love this thread. I’ve been exploring self bondage because my sexual partners aren’t interested enough in it to want to do it to me. Couple tried but their heart wasn’t in it.

Anyway, I’m going to read your whole thread to catch up and comment on the good stuff.

This first one is amazing. Agree that the willing acceptance of the gag is crucial. I don’t like pain, meanness, disrespect, etc. how can you do bondage on a woman if you both don’t utterly respect each other? My opinion.

Never tried ropes. I guess I don’t like hyper tight rope bondage as I would be afraid of getting a cramp or getting hurt but mostly because I never had anyone do it for me. I mean I like and fantasize about tight nylon straps and leather bondage.

Anyway, thank you, great thread

 

[MeganFachs]

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Oh my… I would love this. Wonder if my girlfriend knows a third…

 

[MeganFachs]

I am a switch so I know what you mean
But prefer to be in control
You’re so right about being restrained and forced to orgasm repeatedly
Until your so sensitive you beg her to stop

Being restrained, out of control to free myself and then subjected to a wand strapped in place on my pussy has been the star of my latest self bondage adventures.

 

[MeganFachs]

Always play safe, the keys are hung on the bed post, by the pool tablel and several other spots where such things may be employed.

Yes, multiple sets in different places all reachable. Doing self bondage I’ve given myself a couple close calls.

 

[MeganFachs]

I love this!! She’s blindfolded so she can’t see what is happening, but she is also wearing pretty lingerie (I love lingerie), and her cuffs are fur lined.. and look at the pretty lady who is there to play with her….

Yeah… I want that too…

I agree this is pretty ideal. I love wearing sexy lingerie for myself and my lover so I prefer to be bound in it (as long as the have the “access” they want).

The time I think about putting someone else in bondage it is me putting a pretty sissy all dolled up into bondage. I could imagine the girl in white as a sissy and would happily take the other woman’s role. I suspect I’m an outlier ok this thread for that but that’s okay.

 

[BrendaBear]

Yes, multiple sets in different places all reachable. Doing self bondage I’ve given myself a couple close calls.

Another safety measure is to use one of these … a timed lock. So no matter what, after x amount of time, you are released.

I don’t think that should be the only way out, but almost like the last case backup.

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[MeganFachs]

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A few forced orgasms.

Mmmmmmmm yes please

 

[BrendaBear]

I agree this is pretty ideal. I love wearing sexy lingerie for myself and my lover so I prefer to be bound in it (as long as the have the “access” they want).

The time I think about putting someone else in bondage it is me putting a pretty sissy all dolled up into bondage. I could imagine the girl in white as a sissy and would happily take the other woman’s role. I suspect I’m an outlier ok this thread for that but that’s okay.

I could see doing that as well, even though I don’t have interest in being a domme for a man… but a sissy? Could be.

 

[MeganFachs]

I could see doing that as well, even though I don’t have interest in being a domme for a man… but a sissy? Could be.

My husband is the most femme sissy you’ll ever meet. Put his clit in a cage and “she” is ready to go

 

[Fistboy]

Mmmmmmmm yes please

Ideas

 

[BrendaBear]

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Serious leather fetish wear, but another blindfold.
I love a leash. And I love the submission of kneeling/being told or forced to kneel.
Again there is both tenderness and control.

The way he is holding the leash (yeah, I love a leash) is hot... but him holding her head like that is almost intoxicating. And yeah - like you said, kneeling... oh my... this is hot!

 

[LustyScribe]

The way he is holding the leash (yeah, I love a leash) is hot... but him holding her head like that is almost intoxicating. And yeah - like you said, kneeling... oh my... this is hot!

So much trust...

 

[MeganFachs]

Do butt plugs count? Butt plugs with tails? I’ve rapidly grown fond of my butt plug with fox tail hee hee

 

[BrendaBear]

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Okay... Sammy got me all fired up posting that... I would love to hear what others see in that gif... then I'll share what I see...



Thank you Sammy!

 

[JonathanBair]

Okay... Sammy got me all fired up posting that... I would love to hear what others see in that gif... then I'll share what I see...



Thank you Sammy!

For me it is not really about the size of my partner, as long as she is healthy and being a bigger size gives us a little more padding when I give her oral.. So as long as she is healthy there is no such thing as "to thick" in my book.. The lady in the pic looks nice in the body wise but a bit thin for me to really enjoy her...

 

[LustyScribe]

Okay... Sammy got me all fired up posting that... I would love to hear what others see in that gif... then I'll share what I see...



Thank you Sammy!

I see him asking her, "Do you remember your safe word?" and her replying "Yes, sir."
Safety ritual every time he collars her.

 

[BrendaBear]

I see her willingly relinquishing control. She is holding her hair so he has plenty of room. She is on her toes… because she is excited… she is almost quivering. She is looking super sexy, but also super vulnerable, for him.

And yes, she is agreeing to all the proper questions and establishing the rules (like safe word).

And the fact she is dressed like that, and he is fully dressed - dress shoes, slacks, dress shirt… all business.

So hot…

 

[~Elizabeth~]

 

[~Elizabeth~]

 

[~Elizabeth~]

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[BrendaBear]

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OMG... I want to be her... that is so hot!

The big post behind her is so cool! And the blindfold.... ... I hope she doesn't accidentally bash her head on that post. I probably would.

 

[BrendaBear]

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Wow, that is so erotic!

 

[BrendaBear]

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Wow... it's like you totally get me, Elizabeth!!!!