Exploring Brenda’s Bondage Obsession

[BrendaBear]

Great post @Trubbycat

How do people feel about gags?

I love them, but not any of the ones that hold my mouth open and allow bugs, dust or dirt or whatever to fall in my mouth. I'm not okay with those at all (for use on me).

That's my 2 cents...

 

[Toro1886]

Great post @Trubbycat

How do people feel about gags?

https://i.ibb.co/kgQ0ZWLj/gag1.gif
https://ic-ph-nss.xhcdn.com/a/ZjY1NWY4MjliMjdlNjI0ZTg4ZDFhNTkzZWU0MzcyODk/webp/000/516/900/969_1000.jpghttps://ic-ph-nss.xhcdn.com/a/MTZmMTdhOWNhMDdlNGI4NjZjNjE1ODgyZmQ4YjRlNmE/webp/000/516/070/024_1000.jpghttps://ic-ph-nss.xhcdn.com/a/OWJhZDZjMmEyODk4MTNiNzY1NDExYjcwNjQxYjU1ZWM/webp/000/514/093/984_1000.jpghttps://ic-ph-nss.xhcdn.com/a/Y2QzYWMzY2M3MTllNzY0OTQ3MTJjODU2OTJkMTZmNzM/webp/000/418/609/584_1000.jpghttps://ic-ph-nss.xhcdn.com/a/OGEzZTdhNWJjZmJjNTY3NjZlNDY4NDJmNjgwZWY0OTU/webp/000/513/203/122_1000.jpg

they do look "good" though and I imagine can cause a lot of dribbling slobber!

 

[puppett]

not a fan of gags per say, do like blindfolds though.

 

[wallstreetguy]

I like verbal interaction during sessions. I want to hear words. Blindfolds are great for at least a bit of sensory depravation.

 

[NewStartQueen]

I have bought a full black out blindfold for my next play session with my FWB. He also has handcuffs, so will have to check that they are emergency release (I have seen Gerald's Game and was traumatised by it). The vulnerability of not knowing what's going to happen next is what turns me on.

And great thread @BrendaBear

 

[tristantrotsky]

Great post @Trubbycat

How do people feel about gags?

https://i.ibb.co/kgQ0ZWLj/gag1.gif
https://ic-ph-nss.xhcdn.com/a/ZjY1NWY4MjliMjdlNjI0ZTg4ZDFhNTkzZWU0MzcyODk/webp/000/516/900/969_1000.jpghttps://ic-ph-nss.xhcdn.com/a/MTZmMTdhOWNhMDdlNGI4NjZjNjE1ODgyZmQ4YjRlNmE/webp/000/516/070/024_1000.jpghttps://ic-ph-nss.xhcdn.com/a/OWJhZDZjMmEyODk4MTNiNzY1NDExYjcwNjQxYjU1ZWM/webp/000/514/093/984_1000.jpghttps://ic-ph-nss.xhcdn.com/a/Y2QzYWMzY2M3MTllNzY0OTQ3MTJjODU2OTJkMTZmNzM/webp/000/418/609/584_1000.jpghttps://ic-ph-nss.xhcdn.com/a/OGEzZTdhNWJjZmJjNTY3NjZlNDY4NDJmNjgwZWY0OTU/webp/000/513/203/122_1000.jpg

Any device which prevents oral penetration by penis is not good for me...

 

[MeganFachs]

I have been delving into self bondage paired with forced orgasms from my Hitachi wand. It has gotten very intense. That knowledge that I can’t free myself when I want to drives me crazy. I mostly envision that I’m with another woman (domme) in these scenarios but I also enjoy the idea of a male dominant fucking me however he likes because I’m bound with all three entrances open to his whim. Or the whims of his friends.

 

[MeganFachs]

Any device which prevents oral penetration by penis is not good for me...

That is the problem. I love being gagged but then I can’t suck your balls dry LOL

 

[calmlikeabomb]

The way she is holding the other woman's arm like that... makes this exponentially more sexy to me...

I agree. I'm not big into ropes, preferring cuffs and gags, and usually, my own hands, and using my hands and body just feels much more intimate and romantic.

My attraction to BDSM, especially bondage, was not so much about the pain, but control and restraint (at least in the beginning).

Ive always loved the dichotomy of being a dom in a bondage setting, where your the cuffs or ropes or leather that bind the sub actually set them free, while binding the dom who has to show control in order to make sure the sub us taken care of.

Lovely thread btw.

 

[tristantrotsky]

That is the problem. I love being gagged but then I can’t suck your balls dry LOL

And Megan, you have a mouth that deserves to be so sweetly fucked...

 

[BrendaBear]

I have been delving into self bondage paired with forced orgasms from my Hitachi wand. It has gotten very intense. That knowledge that I can’t free myself when I want to drives me crazy. I mostly envision that I’m with another woman (domme) in these scenarios but I also enjoy the idea of a male dominant fucking me however he likes because I’m bound with all three entrances open to his whim. Or the whims of his friends.

Yes…. The Hitachi is so good! I haven’t figured out a way to hold it in place while I am self bound… sounds like I need to figure that out.

 

[hotoldrguy]

I have bought a full black out blindfold for my next play session with my FWB. He also has handcuffs, so will have to check that they are emergency release (I have seen Gerald's Game and was traumatised by it). The vulnerability of not knowing what's going to happen next is what turns me on.

And great thread @BrendaBear

I read Gerald's Game and I get it!

 

[9to5]

Yes…. The Hitachi is so good! I haven’t figured out a way to hold it in place while I am self bound… sounds like I need to figure that out.

I think I have seen belts that hold the wand in place

 

[hotoldrguy]

I think I have seen belts that hold the wand in place

Like in the gif @Trubbycat posted https://www.sex.com/en/gifs/769353

 

[9to5]

Like in the gif @Trubbycat posted https://www.sex.com/en/gifs/769353

almost

 

[9to5]

https://www.amazon.com/Harness-Holder，Women-Leather-Adjustable-Cincher/dp/B07G5X2MLP
I was thinking like this

 

[hotoldrguy]

I do like the idea of blindfolds
https://realbooru.com//images/95/09/9509d815c974b263f12cb6d3386db1d9.gif

 

[BrendaBear]

I do like the idea of blindfolds

Me too!

 

[cowboyup6977]

not a fan of gags per say, do like blindfolds though.

I want to hear beg moan and scream

 

[BrendaBear]

I want to hear beg moan and scream

Okay.... but I have questions...
1) what are they begging for
2) what are the screaming about?
3) Is it happy screaming or ???


https://media1.tenor.com/m/uRabDTM_siYAAAAd/let-me-get-that-down-tracey-matney.gif

 

[cowboyup6977]

Okay.... but I have questions...
1) what are they begging for
2) what are the screaming about?
3) Is it happy screaming or ???


https://media1.tenor.com/m/uRabDTM_siYAAAAd/let-me-get-that-down-tracey-matney.gif

More or not so hard
Being punished
Well you would have to ask her that

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Okay.... but I have questions...
1) what are they begging for
2) what are the screaming about?
3) Is it happy screaming or ???


https://media1.tenor.com/m/uRabDTM_siYAAAAd/let-me-get-that-down-tracey-matney.gif

1. More, less, an orgasm, no more orgasms, release, a kiss, me, anything really.
2. Pleasure, pain & pleasure, intense orgasm, etc.
3. Usually, even when I introduce pain there is still pleasure.

 

[BrendaBear]

1. More, less, an orgasm, no more orgasms, release, a kiss, me, anything really.
2. Pleasure, pain & pleasure, intense orgasm, etc.
3. Usually, even when I introduce pain there is still pleasure.

https://media1.tenor.com/m/Pc3qcbWHjJcAAAAd/good-answer-family-feud-canada.gif

 

[JustinCase1313]

Funny - as a (kinky) Canadian, I never noticed the CBC logo looks a bit like a ball gag.... until this thread and that gif
Schitt's Creek... Corner Gas... Let's get weird

 

[cascadiabound]

What, if anything does this do for you @BrendaBear?
I find things about this image that turn me on, make me uncomfortable and feel vulnerable.
It's unclear how much she is truly in bondage. She is in leather cuffs (love), but is she actually restrained? The blindfold feels like it creates the greatest level of bondage. Without sight she is reliant on him. His hand guiding the back of her head... she's under his control on several levels. Is he giving her a sip of the red wine because she prettily asked? "Please Sir, may I have something to drink?" Or is he orchestrating every moment of what she is experiencing- every bite, every sip, every moment of increasing loss of control.
The helplessness combined with his control over life essentials- food and drink - heightens for me the sense of dominance/submission.