Exploring Brenda’s Bondage Obsession

[tristantrotsky]

That is the problem. I love being gagged but then I can’t suck your balls dry LOL

And Megan, you have a mouth that deserves to be so sweetly fucked...

 

[BrendaBear]

I have been delving into self bondage paired with forced orgasms from my Hitachi wand. It has gotten very intense. That knowledge that I can’t free myself when I want to drives me crazy. I mostly envision that I’m with another woman (domme) in these scenarios but I also enjoy the idea of a male dominant fucking me however he likes because I’m bound with all three entrances open to his whim. Or the whims of his friends.

Yes…. The Hitachi is so good! I haven’t figured out a way to hold it in place while I am self bound… sounds like I need to figure that out.

 

[hotoldrguy]

I have bought a full black out blindfold for my next play session with my FWB. He also has handcuffs, so will have to check that they are emergency release (I have seen Gerald's Game and was traumatised by it). The vulnerability of not knowing what's going to happen next is what turns me on.

And great thread @BrendaBear

I read Gerald's Game and I get it!

 

[9to5]

Yes…. The Hitachi is so good! I haven’t figured out a way to hold it in place while I am self bound… sounds like I need to figure that out.

I think I have seen belts that hold the wand in place

 

[hotoldrguy]

I think I have seen belts that hold the wand in place

Like in the gif @Trubbycat posted https://www.sex.com/en/gifs/769353

 

[9to5]

Like in the gif @Trubbycat posted https://www.sex.com/en/gifs/769353

almost

 

[9to5]

https://www.amazon.com/Harness-Holder，Women-Leather-Adjustable-Cincher/dp/B07G5X2MLP
I was thinking like this

 

[hotoldrguy]

I do like the idea of blindfolds
https://realbooru.com//images/95/09/9509d815c974b263f12cb6d3386db1d9.gif

 

[BrendaBear]

I do like the idea of blindfolds

Me too!

 

[cowboyup6977]

not a fan of gags per say, do like blindfolds though.

I want to hear beg moan and scream

 

[BrendaBear]

I want to hear beg moan and scream

Okay.... but I have questions...
1) what are they begging for
2) what are the screaming about?
3) Is it happy screaming or ???


https://media1.tenor.com/m/uRabDTM_siYAAAAd/let-me-get-that-down-tracey-matney.gif

 

[cowboyup6977]

Okay.... but I have questions...
1) what are they begging for
2) what are the screaming about?
3) Is it happy screaming or ???


https://media1.tenor.com/m/uRabDTM_siYAAAAd/let-me-get-that-down-tracey-matney.gif

More or not so hard
Being punished
Well you would have to ask her that

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Okay.... but I have questions...
1) what are they begging for
2) what are the screaming about?
3) Is it happy screaming or ???


https://media1.tenor.com/m/uRabDTM_siYAAAAd/let-me-get-that-down-tracey-matney.gif

1. More, less, an orgasm, no more orgasms, release, a kiss, me, anything really.
2. Pleasure, pain & pleasure, intense orgasm, etc.
3. Usually, even when I introduce pain there is still pleasure.

 

[BrendaBear]

1. More, less, an orgasm, no more orgasms, release, a kiss, me, anything really.
2. Pleasure, pain & pleasure, intense orgasm, etc.
3. Usually, even when I introduce pain there is still pleasure.

https://media1.tenor.com/m/Pc3qcbWHjJcAAAAd/good-answer-family-feud-canada.gif

 

[JustinCase1313]

Funny - as a (kinky) Canadian, I never noticed the CBC logo looks a bit like a ball gag.... until this thread and that gif
Schitt's Creek... Corner Gas... Let's get weird

 

[cascadiabound]

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What, if anything does this do for you @BrendaBear?
I find things about this image that turn me on, make me uncomfortable and feel vulnerable.
It's unclear how much she is truly in bondage. She is in leather cuffs (love), but is she actually restrained? The blindfold feels like it creates the greatest level of bondage. Without sight she is reliant on him. His hand guiding the back of her head... she's under his control on several levels. Is he giving her a sip of the red wine because she prettily asked? "Please Sir, may I have something to drink?" Or is he orchestrating every moment of what she is experiencing- every bite, every sip, every moment of increasing loss of control.
The helplessness combined with his control over life essentials- food and drink - heightens for me the sense of dominance/submission.

 

[BrendaBear]

View attachment 2525059
What, if anything does this do for you @BrendaBear?
I find things about this image that turn me on, make me uncomfortable and feel vulnerable.
It's unclear how much she is truly in bondage. She is in leather cuffs (love), but is she actually restrained? The blindfold feels like it creates the greatest level of bondage. Without sight she is reliant on him. His hand guiding the back of her head... she's under his control on several levels. Is he giving her a sip of the red wine because she prettily asked? "Please Sir, may I have something to drink?" Or is he orchestrating every moment of what she is experiencing- every bite, every sip, every moment of increasing loss of control.
The helplessness combined with his control over life essentials- food and drink - heightens for me the sense of dominance/submission.

Oh.... that totally turns me on.... even if she isn't restrained, the fact she (presumably) was instructed to wear the leather cuffs.... makes me squirm. And the blindfold... so hot. The gentle way, he is holding/guiding her head. And for me, someone that truly doesn't enjoy most foods, and hates trying new things... that would be kind of terrifying to me. Can I trust him enough to not put something in there he already knows I like? Just... wow...

To me, if I were in this situation, that would mean I had completely given him control over me... which is overflowing scary and sexy, at the same time (to me).

Thank you so much for posting this!!!


Got any more?

 

[cascadiabound]

Oh....
Got any more?

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Serious leather fetish wear, but another blindfold.
I love a leash. And I love the submission of kneeling/being told or forced to kneel.
Again there is both tenderness and control.

 

[MeganFachs]

https://imagex1.sx.cdn.live/images/pinporn/2023/08/26/29938764.gif?width=460

Yesterday, my friend @cactusjack0584 posted this. I absolutely love this! To me, she isn’t unhappy, she willingly accepts the gag. He is taking care of her. I badly want to know what else happened.

I love this thread. I’ve been exploring self bondage because my sexual partners aren’t interested enough in it to want to do it to me. Couple tried but their heart wasn’t in it.

Anyway, I’m going to read your whole thread to catch up and comment on the good stuff.

This first one is amazing. Agree that the willing acceptance of the gag is crucial. I don’t like pain, meanness, disrespect, etc. how can you do bondage on a woman if you both don’t utterly respect each other? My opinion.

Never tried ropes. I guess I don’t like hyper tight rope bondage as I would be afraid of getting a cramp or getting hurt but mostly because I never had anyone do it for me. I mean I like and fantasize about tight nylon straps and leather bondage.

Anyway, thank you, great thread

 

[MeganFachs]

https://external-content.duckduckgo.com/iu/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fcdn.sex.com%2Fimages%2Fpinporn%2F2019%2F08%2F15%2F21642688.gif%3Fwidth%3D620&f=1&nofb=1&ipt=f1b268b25cfddb0006fb29dfe3274788c4817fae528adf92e702d1c74b5c46f4&ipo=images

Oh my… I would love this. Wonder if my girlfriend knows a third…

 

[MeganFachs]

I am a switch so I know what you mean
But prefer to be in control
You’re so right about being restrained and forced to orgasm repeatedly
Until your so sensitive you beg her to stop

Being restrained, out of control to free myself and then subjected to a wand strapped in place on my pussy has been the star of my latest self bondage adventures.

 

[MeganFachs]

Always play safe, the keys are hung on the bed post, by the pool tablel and several other spots where such things may be employed.

Yes, multiple sets in different places all reachable. Doing self bondage I’ve given myself a couple close calls.

 

[MeganFachs]

I love this!! She’s blindfolded so she can’t see what is happening, but she is also wearing pretty lingerie (I love lingerie), and her cuffs are fur lined.. and look at the pretty lady who is there to play with her….

Yeah… I want that too…

I agree this is pretty ideal. I love wearing sexy lingerie for myself and my lover so I prefer to be bound in it (as long as the have the “access” they want).

The time I think about putting someone else in bondage it is me putting a pretty sissy all dolled up into bondage. I could imagine the girl in white as a sissy and would happily take the other woman’s role. I suspect I’m an outlier ok this thread for that but that’s okay.

 

[BrendaBear]

Yes, multiple sets in different places all reachable. Doing self bondage I’ve given myself a couple close calls.

Another safety measure is to use one of these … a timed lock. So no matter what, after x amount of time, you are released.

I don’t think that should be the only way out, but almost like the last case backup.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0913GPRTB?ref_=ppx_hzsearch_conn_dt_b_fed_asin_title_3&th=1

 

[MeganFachs]

https://ei-ph.t8cdn.com/videos/2020.../14(m=eaSaaTbWyaaaa)(mh=n_Cx5gL3BdilaLm9).jpg

A few forced orgasms.

Mmmmmmmm yes please