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BrendaBear said:
I have noticed that in my usual Lit haunts, every once in a while, someone will post a hot bondage pic and most people will either laugh because it was posted in jest, or just move on. Meanwhile, I am totally turned on by it and wanting to talk about it and explore why it is so sexy. @Chloe_Harper suggested I just start a thread dedicated to discussing and exploring more.

My perspective is, I have always been excited by restraints. I don’t have much experience with ropes, but a good friend suggested I would probably love that. It certainly looks sexy to me. I also am super turned on by furniture or contraptions specifically made for, or modified to hold someone (more than one at the same time is crazy hot too).

I have zero interest in pain and/or humiliation. I am only interested in where she wants to be tied up and restrained. As long as she is okay with what is done to her, I certainly am too.

And lastly, for myself, I mostly identify with the woman being restrained, and don’t care if it is by a man or a woman. And if it is woman or women restraining another woman, I find either role exciting.

So please, post any pics following Lit guidelines, no direct genitalia directly posted, only by links. And no arguing here. This is about exploring and sharing thoughts, not about trying to influence or change someone else’s opinion. There is no right or wrong here, just a different opinion.

Thanks, welcome, and I look forward to sharing my thoughts and sharing yours too.
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" My perspective is, I have always been excited by restraints. "

Congratulations Brenda , you are exactly like myself , you do know there is a formal name for SLUTS like us , we are VINCILAGNIC . Vincilagnia is a GENUINE desire ( in my case more a NEED ) to be tied up and restrained and i LOVE IT SO SO SO MUCH . My orgasms are so much more intense when i am tied up and restrained .

"I don’t have much experience with ropes, but a good friend suggested I would probably love that. It certainly looks sexy to me. I also am super turned on by furniture or contraptions specifically made for, or modified to hold someone (more than one at the same time is crazy hot too). "

If you are even 1% as interested in this as I am I 100% GUARANTEE you WILL LOVE it Brenda and again if you are anything like me you will find your orgasms are earth shatteringly mind numbingly MORE INTENSE than you have ever experienced before . mine are so intense most times I pass out .


" I have zero interest in pain and/or humiliation. "

This is where you and I differ as I am also ALGOLAGNIC which means I NEED pain to attain FULL sexual release and i just adore being horrendously humiliated and degraded .

" I am only interested in where she wants to be tied up and restrained. "

My favourite locations are old run down abandoned factories in ghetto areas of towns or suburbs of cities in the advanced stages of urban decay .

" As long as she is okay with what is done to her, I certainly am too. "

Oh I am believe you me .

" And lastly, for myself, I mostly identify with the woman being restrained, and don’t care if it is by a man or a woman. And if it is woman or women restraining another woman, I find either role exciting. "

My preference is to be tied up and restrained by MULTIPLE men .

If you wish to discuss further please feel free to DM me sweety .

Love and LUST Mich XOX
 

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aussiecumslut said:
" My perspective is, I have always been excited by restraints. "

Congratulations Brenda , you are exactly like myself , you do know there is a formal name for SLUTS like us , we are VINCILAGNIC . Vincilagnia is a GENUINE desire ( in my case more a NEED ) to be tied up and restrained and i LOVE IT SO SO SO MUCH . My orgasms are so much more intense when i am tied up and restrained .

"I don’t have much experience with ropes, but a good friend suggested I would probably love that. It certainly looks sexy to me. I also am super turned on by furniture or contraptions specifically made for, or modified to hold someone (more than one at the same time is crazy hot too). "

If you are even 1% as interested in this as I am I 100% GUARANTEE you WILL LOVE it Brenda and again if you are anything like me you will find your orgasms are earth shatteringly mind numbingly MORE INTENSE than you have ever experienced before . mine are so intense most times I pass out .


" I have zero interest in pain and/or humiliation. "

This is where you and I differ as I am also ALGOLAGNIC which means I NEED pain to attain FULL sexual release and i just adore being horrendously humiliated and degraded .

" I am only interested in where she wants to be tied up and restrained. "

My favourite locations are old run down abandoned factories in ghetto areas of towns or suburbs of cities in the advanced stages of urban decay .

" As long as she is okay with what is done to her, I certainly am too. "

Oh I am believe you me .

" And lastly, for myself, I mostly identify with the woman being restrained, and don’t care if it is by a man or a woman. And if it is woman or women restraining another woman, I find either role exciting. "

My preference is to be tied up and restrained by MULTIPLE men .

If you wish to discuss further please feel free to DM me sweety .

Love and LUST Mich XOX
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I am a switch so I know what you mean
But prefer to be in control
You’re so right about being restrained and forced to orgasm repeatedly
Until your so sensitive you beg her to stop
 
BrendaBear said:
Here is another gif posted elsewhere here that stopped me in my tracks.

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/even-more-of-your-favorite-bdsm-pictures.1533168/post-100465419

Hopefully that link goes to the right image. The one I love has a woman tied to a bench and a woman sitting in a chair behind her, and a man sitting in another chair.

That photo confused me because I immediately identified with the tied woman, but also was turned on by being the woman in the chair, about to go play with the tied woman…. Anyone else have thoughts on any of these things they would like to share?
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Thank you for mentioning what I posted. TBH what you have written here, and in fact the entire context of this thread, gives it much more depth and meaning.
 
I love this image as well..l

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/even-more-of-your-favorite-bdsm-pictures.1533168/post-100496016

(Again hoping the link shows the right post)…

To me, not even being able to see what is being me… who is touching me… I can’t reach back to touch them.

And what if my Master steps in front of me, and chooses to let me please him with my mouth… my whole being, is only able to focus on tasting him… licking him… but… then I suddenly feel the touch of hands on my exposed body…

Imagine the fear and excitement… who is that? Since they aren’t my master (he’s still in my mouth)… who is that???
 
BrendaBear said:
When I was young, my family visited Colonial Williamsburg and I saw these outside - although, this doesn’t look quite like what I remember, but anyway. Even then, I wanted to be locked in that thing. 🥰🥰🥰


https://i.pinimg.com/originals/9a/4a/68/9a4a683fc1b52bc1d942c89e5d9d662a.jpg
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I've seen many examples of Colonial Stocks in our visits to historic sites and without fail I alway try them on for size, and as I aged, for fantasy fodder. 🤫
BrendaBear said:
Me too. But dangle some leather cuffs in front of me? I’m giggling like a school girl… 🤣🤣🤣
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Leather cuffs or velcro can be fun but steel cuffs and leg shackles add some heft to the thrill. My husband picked up several sets from a prison auction way back. I had no idea why. but found out on the ride home.
 
Dashabout said:
Leather cuffs or velcro can be fun
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Oh yeah, I have sewn up a bunch of nylon cuffs with velcro… 🥰🥰🥰🥰

Dashabout said:
…but steel cuffs and leg shackles add some heft to the thrill. My husband picked up several sets from a prison auction way back. I had no idea why. but found out on the ride home.
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OMG! That sounds so hot!!! I would love that!!! 🥵🥵🥵
 
Dashabout said:
Leather cuffs or velcro can be fun but steel cuffs and leg shackles add some heft to the thrill. My husband picked up several sets from a prison auction way back. I had no idea why. but found out on the ride home.
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BrendaBear said:
OMG! That sounds so hot!!! I would love that!!! 🥵🥵🥵
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I like the feel of steel! We used to use a real pair of L.E. handcuffs, but then I read 'Geralds's Game.' 😬

I immediately found a pair with an emergency release!

I've never used the release, but it gives me peace of mind so I can relax in the moment and not worry about the unthinkable.
 
HollyS said:
I like the feel of steel! We used to use a real pair of L.E. handcuffs, but then I read 'Geralds's Game.' 😬

I immediately found a pair with an emergency release!

I've never used the release, but it gives me peace of mind so I can relax in the moment and not worry about the unthinkable.
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Yeah, I personally don’t like real locks being used. I don’t need that to feel what I love feeling.

I want really strong, so I can pull and fight all I want and not get free, but not because of a lock. 🤷‍♀️
 
Dashabout said:
I've seen many examples of Colonial Stocks in our visits to historic sites and without fail I alway try them on for size, and as I aged, for fantasy fodder. 🤫
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The thing about stocks is that someone can come up from behind to do whatever they want to you, and you can't see who it is. "Who's there? Who are you? Don't touch my skirt! No, don't lift it up!"
 
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The strappado is a bondage position that I used to love a lot. I still love it, but I'm less comfortable with it these days. There are so many variations! I know you're not into pain, Brenda, and depending on the specific rigging it CAN be a painful restraint, but it doesn't have to be. It is an extremely vulnerable position, which is what I love.

It shares some characteristics of the stocks, and that doesn't surprise me. I first heard about it in reference to witch trials.
 
BrendaBear said:
Here is another gif posted elsewhere here that stopped me in my tracks.

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/even-more-of-your-favorite-bdsm-pictures.1533168/post-100465419

Hopefully that link goes to the right image. The one I love has a woman tied to a bench and a woman sitting in a chair behind her, and a man sitting in another chair.

That photo confused me because I immediately identified with the tied woman, but also was turned on by being the woman in the chair, about to go play with the tied woman…. Anyone else have thoughts on any of these things they would like to share?
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I love this pic, the tied woman's tits hanging, her ass on display, unable to move. Very hot for me. Male and female present to take full advantage of the young woman's gifts.
 
HollyS said:
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The strappado is a bondage position that I used to love a lot. I still love it, but I'm less comfortable with it these days. There are so many variations! I know you're not into pain, Brenda, and depending on the specific rigging it CAN be a painful restraint, but it doesn't have to be. It is an extremely vulnerable position, which is what I love.

It shares some characteristics of the stocks, and that doesn't surprise me. I first heard about it in reference to witch trials.
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The second one makes my knees hurt looking at it, but yeah… so vulnerable… that is hot! 🥵🥵
 
HollyS said:
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Handcuffs, a little rope, and an eyehook in the ceiling can be quite an experience, too!

I've been in both sides of this situation. Yum!!
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A friend of mine was moving out of town a few years ago, and dropped off a bunch of weird stuff at my house because he didn’t have room.

Among the things was a little electric winch… I have often pondered if I could put a strong hook in me ceiling, and run the winch line up there to be raised and lowered easily by the winch…

Still would have to be leather cuffs for me, I found hand cuffs hurt my wrists to much. I am all dainty and shit like that, you know. 🤣🤣
 
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