UnquietDreams
Magna Cum Louder
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I have always loved that quote.“When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up.”
― C.S. Lewis
Yeah, covers a LOT of ground in a very short sentence.I have always loved that quote.
This is much like the grieving process....There are things that will always remind me of a person -- a scent, the line from a song, a flavor. And things they said that still echo around my mind with perfect fidelity, and words you can't take back. All of it, good and bad, bringing a smile or maybe even threatening a tear. And that is okay, that is life, that is...things I refuse to define. But I am a believer in "deal with it and move on." It is an outstanding strategy and it usually works. However...
However...
However, sometimes you don't "get over it" -- you can't. Rather you pack it up and carry it with you, a part of you forever, and, eventually, you no longer notice the weight.
Exactly. It was something that originally came to me while grieving, but it covers a lot, especially when it feels like grieving anyway.This is much like the grieving process....
The weight eventually just becomes part of you...
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I’ve subscribed to that philosophy for about 12 years now. Solid logic!I say that!