Do you.......

[Xander]

Care what happens to your ex's after you've broken up??

And I mean about every possible situation about a dead relationship.

C'mon I know anger, frustration, dislike and even sometimes hatred after a relationship has ended.

But do you care?? Do you care what happens to your ex's??

Personally, yeah I do. Stupid as I am sometimes, yes I do.
Only one ex, a long time ago, long before lit and internet was a big part of my life, have I wished the worse for her.
She dug her own grave anyways...but thats beside the point.

So fess up people!

 

[Beebeeblue]

Well, yeah, I suppose.



I mean, I wouldnt want to see them laid all over the road after being hit by a mack truck.



Except for this one fella.......I could give a shit.

 

[juicylips]

Yea, I guess..kinda..

I still think about an old boyfriend from a million years ago that dumped me..

Hoping he's impotent, unhappy with his job, wife and life..

And I bet he is wishing he was still with me

Cassidy

 

[Guest]

Care what happens to your ex's after you've broken up??

Yes. I can honestly say I wish nothing but the best for Jas. It's been very rare that I've hated an ex.

 

[Angel]

No matter how badly they've treated me, I would never want them to suffer or die. I survived and moved on, so why should I want something horrible to happen to them?

Although some of the things that happened to a certain ex with his new relationship were MORE than fitting after what he did to ME, I still felt for him when they happened.

 

[Savage Kitten]

If it wasn't for my girls... I wouldn't care if he dropped off the face of the earth. But, since he is their father.. I am tied to him for the rest of their life if I like it or not. So for that reason... I do feel like what happens to him concerns me.

Now, any other "ex's" well.. life goes on baby.

 

[Bob Peale]

Nope.

What's done is done. While I don't wish them ill, I have no interest in what may or may not happen to them.

 

[KillerMuffin]

I care about my ex's. I've broken up on good terms with all of them. I'm a bitch on wheels to live with, so I do believe the break-up was as much a relief as it was painful.

 

[Xander]

No matter how badly they've treated me, I would never want them to suffer or die. I survived and moved on, so why should I want something horrible to happen to them?

Although some of the things that happened to a certain ex with his new relationship were MORE than fitting after what he did to ME, I still felt for him when they happened.

You reap what you sow I guess Angel.

 

[InternationalFunboy]

Everything slides off of my back effortlessly....really.
Except being a jilted lover.....that doesn't sit well with me at all. I just can't get by it...can't learn from it, can't understand it.


I only have one REAL ex....and I'd like to throw her into an active volcano. Of course I'd jump in after her...

 

[Angel]

You reap what you sow I guess Angel.

He most definitely did. I don't think he quite deserved what got thrown his way... I survived, I'm over him and I am more than happy that his fuck up led me eventually to BK. I was able to get out of something that obviously wouldn't have worked out, and met someone who I connect with on more levels than I ever thought possible. Someone who is finally The One.

What came out of that break up was a good thing on my end - and he is still living with the consequences of his actions today. He fucked up, yeah. But he - and his family don't deserve everything that's happened to him because of his decisions. Not at all.

I don't love him anymore. But I can't help but feel bad for the things he's gone through in the past year and a half.

 

[*bratcat*]

psst...

 

[Xander]

He most definitely did. I don't think he quite deserved what got thrown his way... I survived, I'm over him and I am more than happy that his fuck up led me eventually to BK. I was able to get out of something that obviously wouldn't have worked out, and met someone who I connect with on more levels than I ever thought possible. Someone who is finally The One.

What came out of that break up was a good thing on my end - and he is still living with the consequences of his actions today. He fucked up, yeah. But he - and his family don't deserve everything that's happened to him because of his decisions. Not at all.

I don't love him anymore. But I can't help but feel bad for the things he's gone through in the past year and a half.

As I said Angel, you reap what you sow, and it always comes back to you. I'm sure that whatever this guy did, he is raking his brain wondering why he did those things.

I am happy that it all went to your advantage though Angel, Happiness and true deep love, is something that I think everybody is entitled to at least get a taste at...painful as it can be sometimes too.

Wether or not anyone deserves something or not, is not really the issue here. Being left in the dark, and having to live with the consequenses of the heart, is something that is not easy, yet something that cannot be avoided.

There is a few ex's that I have had, where I'm thinking "WTF!!....." yet I dont either, wish bad things upon them, regardless if I am over them or not...Well there was that one girl, from my initial post...but thats a whole story in itself.

That you, Angel, cares...that takes heart...and a lot of it.

Yes Angel rules!!

 

[Angel]

Not all the time.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

My ex is the mother of my daughter. If for no other reason than the fact that my daughter cares about her mother then I care.

But I do care about what happens to my ex for more reasons than that; I loved my ex, and for the most part her problems were not her fault. She never learned to deal with her problems while we were together, and that was mostly her fault, but that is niether here nor there.

I have tried to help her over the years, but after a while I realized that all I was doing was enabling her to continue going down that harmful road, so I quit helping her - for the most part.

I hardly have any contact with her except for holidays, but I usually ask my daughter how her mom is doing, so I guess that means I care a little.

 

[Xander]

Not all the time.

Perhaps, but most of the time.

I'd still be able to kick your ass though...but thats beside the point

 

[freakygirl]

Ex #1- Yes, i care very much... He is every much a part of my life now as he was when we were married. He's my first love....one of my best friends.. and the father of three of my children.

Ex #2- He could fall off this earth tomorrow, and I couldn't care less. He is the father of my youngest daughter. But she doesn't understand that. She goes to his house every other week. But has chosen to call him David, rather than daddy. I haven't done any of this, he has. He is a tough one to love, still trying to figure out why I spent 3 years of my life with him. Damn alcohol anyway.

 

[teresafannin]

My first husband died years ago, my second husband has become a good friend. I have a few old boyfriends that are doing well & I am happy for them. The rest of them, I don't ever think about.