Do you masterbate in front of you spouse?

[luckyseven]

Anyone ever masterbate in front of you wife because she didn't want sex that night? When my wife doesn't want sex she strokes me until I'm hard and then tells me to take over. I guess by then I am horny and am turned on by masterbating in front of her and she can get some sleep.
Kind of a strange arrangement but it works for us.

You're not alone, my wife does the same to me. I thought it odd at first but she is aware I enjoy masturbating so is happy to oblige, she even suggests I do it myself when she is too tired to start me off.

 

[DrDon]

Yes I do and she does for me. It's a great time for us both when we can enjoy our bodies for the other. A great turn on while the other is talking dirty in the others ear... She enjoys watching me cum or may take it in her mouth to swallow...or she may want to drive a vibrator deep down into her pussy while I suck her nipples or masturbate next to her.

 

[The Gimp]

The only time I've been unable to get myself off was the time about a month ago when my girlfriend asked me to masturbate for her. She wanted me to get myself off as though she wasn't in the room. I went thru my normal warm up routine (get undressed, turn off the lights, place toilet paper target on the bed, select DVD) but my dick simply refused to get hard. I asked her to suck me off a bit to see if that would give me the necessary jump start but it didn't really work. After I was fully erect I got back into position for masturbation but it was everything that I could do to keep it up. At that point I figured that I had put a sincere effort into giving her what she wanted to see so I told her to assume the position and we had our best fuck of the year

 

[mikenem]

It's something we have got into since my wife was pregnant earlier in the year and wasn't always in the mood, but now it's a nice change of pace once in a while. It feel good stroking against her belly and tits it becomes quite erotic at times, then she takes it in her mouth and lets get myself off in her mouth.

 

[ntrprs]

Nope, not that way...

If the wife wasn't in the mood for sex, she'd let me jack off IN her ass. Worked for me, and she could keep reading her book.

 

[lemmesee]

Just recently, as of this week, my lady-friend and I have enterend the phase where we can masturbate in front of each other....she initiated it with a standard vibrator....after she came, she held the vibrator to my penis and then my anus, and I personally jerked myself off on my belly....it is a new phase in out friendship....and I think it is a good one ....

 

[Programmer Cat]

My wife and I often masturbate together while kissing or talking dirty to each other.

 

[SaraClarisse]

Yes.

I usually have trouble climaxing during penetration. Being penetrated is just so...intense in its own way that I can't come. (The climax-type arousal and the penetration-type arousal are both very pleasant things, but it's like trying to thoroughly enjoy a chocolate sundae and a really good steak at the same time.)

Anyway, often he'll help me climax beforehand with his fingers or mouth, and then he can fuck me when I'm juicy and purring. Other times, he'll come first inside me, and caress me, suck my breasts, kiss my neck while I masturbate myself to climax.

I love that...working myself to a frenzy with my own fingers while I'm filled with his juices, and his body is warm and satisfied next to mine.

We don't usually masturbate in front of each other as an end in itself...it's always part of the foreplay or afterplay for intercourse. I'd like to experiment with mutual masturbation more, though.

*sigh* Being pinned beneath his thighs while he masturbates and comes all over my breasts...yes. Yes indeed.

 

[SpankyMcCranky]

Heck yes we do! We do it pretty much everytime we play. I love it

 

[travelleruk]

Me and my wife love watching each other maturbating, it really gets us going.

Watching her fucking herself with her fingers and her vibrator gets me so hard and horny, and she loves it when i'm stroking myself especially if i finish off by coming over her.

Of course when i'm away on buisness watching each other on the webcam is the closest we can get.

 

[Sapphire77]

I enjoy masturbating in front of my husband, and he really likes watching me. I like putting on a show for him, it's fun to see him get all turned on as he watches me play with myself.

I like watching him do it too, but he seems to enjoy it more when I help him out.

 

[Hisbabydoll26]

Do you like masterbating in front of your spouse or SO? What do they think about it?
My wife and I have come up with an agreement, when she doesn't want sex or to help me out in some way, she will stroke me to a hard-on and then stop to let me finish by myself. It is a turn on for me as I stroke myself while she is laying next to me in bed. Sometimes she will rub my nipples while I stroke and I really like it when she talks to me at the same time telling me that I am sexy or telling me to cum.
I don't think that it turns her on but I don't think that she minds either.
One fantasy that I do have is that she catches me masterbating and wants to watch me finish.

YES! We love watching eachother. I looooovvvveeee watching his hand on his cock. I can't get enough......really. We just discovered something that I enjoy...he slaps me with it on my lips...face while I'm under him watching. SOOOOOOO good.

 

[INeedLove]

I masturbated with/for someone special. We both loved it!! It was in a hotel in Ohio..........

 

[covariant]

I masturbated with/for someone special. We both loved it!! It was in a hotel in Ohio..........

I used to have a gf who liked to see me masturbate. I did it for her often, she enjoyed seeing the cum spurt out. Then I would hold her in my arms while she masturbated - this was the only way she could have an orgasm.

Happy memories, thanks for reminding me.

 

[Queen Of Hearts]

 

[Juken]

Love It!

I just posted this under the old "mutual masturbation" thread and then discovered this thread. I decided to copy it here:


I Love Mutual Masturbation!!!
My wife and I engage in this frequently and it is always different.

This past weekend we were taking turns reading a story to each other. I was in the bath tub when she picked the story and started. I was initially distracted with bathing process when she started. It didn't take long, however, for me to get caught up in the story. She chose a story about a couple who seduced an eighteen year old neighbor boy with a huge cock. The fact that this aroused her made me very hot. Before I could help it I was stroking my erection while she read.

Fast forward to the bedroom. By the end of the story I was reading to her and she was on her back using a dildo on herself and was very into it. As I was watching her hands and hips move together she beckoned me to kneel next to her head and continue to masturbate as she watched from only inches.

She very quickly Manhandled me between her legs and we had some seriously hot Monkey sex.

She has filmed me masturbating and I have filmed her. We have mastubated in the car on long trips and even under our jackets on a long dark flight. The amount of is endless. Experimentation in this area should be mandatory.

 

[Juken]

Yeah!

YES! We love watching eachother. I looooovvvveeee watching his hand on his cock. I can't get enough......really. We just discovered something that I enjoy...he slaps me with it on my lips...face while I'm under him watching. SOOOOOOO good.

My wife also LOVES this!! She also likes me to kneel or stand above her face. I love that she loves this.

 

[wildoat]

You betcha!

 

[PIMPIN_101]

my gf wants me too J/O and cum on her and I have a few times but I can NEVER cum??? but if Im alone I have no problems? any ideas? and she is hot as hell so that aint the prob.

 

[Juken]

Road trip games

When we are doing inter state car travel, inevitably we will start talking about people we know (work mates, firiends, etc...) and what they might be like in bed. As soon as we start talking about people that turn us on, our hands immediately go into our laps and we start creating sexual scenerios while we masturbat for each other. Definately one of my favorite things to do.

 

[saintpaul41]

I enjoy jackin off in the shower while my wife watches me in the mirror. She pretends that she is plucking her eyes or something but she is very focused on my cock. She does not respond with the same kindness when she showers. I have tryed to raise her excitment by slipping a dildo (which she likes) into the shower and pinning up some handsome nacked fellow's picture on the shower glass. She just won't get after it??

 

[Badd Leroy]

Yummy

My ex was the first woman to masturbate in front of me. It had been a long time fantasy and I went wild!!.. She was also the first to watch me. Until then I'd always denied even doing it.
The most erotic time was with her, driving to Toronto. All of a sudden she says, "I'm so fucking horny right now!" and dropped her seat back, wriggled her jeans past her knees (she always went commando), propped her feet up on the dash and started rubbing her clit like mad... I was floored and immediatly hard.
She was watching me watch her and finally said "pull it out for me".
No hesitation from me... My cock was poking out the fly and we were both fucking ourselves while doing about 80 miles an hr. (very hard to keep a steady throttle preasure in this situation I must say)... I watched her face get red, her brow wrinkle up and I blew a hot, thick load all over my hands, jeans, stearing-wheel.. everything, and when she saw me squirt she immediately bagan to cum.. her legs stiffened and she threw her head back groaning, "I'm cumming, fuck you look so hot, I'm cumming I'm cummingggggg ahhhhhhhhh"...
Fuck sometimes I REALLLY miss her. :grin:

 

[slipfreak46]

If the wife wasn't in the mood for sex, she'd let me jack off IN her ass. Worked for me, and she could keep reading her book.

One question. Did she loose her place?

 

[Hisbabydoll26]

My wife also LOVES this!! She also likes me to kneel or stand above her face. I love that she loves this.

A week later..I'm still craving it...grrrrrrrrrr

 

[Juken]

A week later..I'm still craving it...grrrrrrrrrr

If he is anything like me, the fact that you crave this proabably turns him on imensly. I Hope you get it this weekend.