Do you masterbate in front of you spouse?
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white_mage_goddess said:
Secretly I think most parents know we're into their porno stash.
Maybe?
We'll never know.
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Cardinal said:
We got into toys when we rented videos. The store had a small selection. We got nothing too wild, just a couple of small vibes. We then made a trip to the "Pleasure Chest" in West Hollwood. There we got some larger toys. I went alone one time and got her a "Stryker" dildo. It was huge. I snuck it into our room, then one night I tied her up. She really loves that. As she was spread, I pulled the monster out. She was both afraid and excited at the same time. She was able to take it all. All of our toy purchases occurred over a 3 month time period. Her latest favorite is a rubber cock ring that holds a small powerfull vibe. She'll put it on me and tell me to go deep. She has even put it in when we have been out in public. Its amazing seeing her orgasm over and over while trying to hid it.
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Anyone ever masterbate in front of you wife because she didn't want sex that night? When my wife doesn't want sex she strokes me until I'm hard and then tells me to take over. I guess by then I am horny and am turned on by masterbating in front of her and she can get some sleep.
Kind of a strange arrangement but it works for us.
Kind of a strange arrangement but it works for us.
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Yes - it was the most freeing thing I have ever done - taking it "public" to my spouse. He lets me get started and joins in later, helping me explore my fantasies.
I want a rubber cock ring for my husband..
That sounds like it would be great for me as well..Hmmmm I will have to look into getting us some of those.**** FUN!!!Anyways, I love to masturbate while my S/O watches and vice versa...MMM I wish he was not in bed fast asleep...I would love to, well never mind..Anyways!!I love it!!
That sounds like it would be great for me as well..Hmmmm I will have to look into getting us some of those.**** FUN!!!Anyways, I love to masturbate while my S/O watches and vice versa...MMM I wish he was not in bed fast asleep...I would love to, well never mind..Anyways!!I love it!!
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kiwis29 said:I want a rubber cock ring for my husband..
kiwis, why the rubber cock ring?
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Let us know how that cock ring works . . have thought about it, but don't know what my SO would think!!kiwis29 said:I want a rubber cock ring for my husband..
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No - it makes him uncomfortable, damn.......
SlvrTongueDevil said:
Sorry it has taken me so long to respond. I have been going crazy with all the sports my kids are partaking in this summer. Definately no time to play on the internet but now they are gone for the next month and I plan on catchin up round here Anyways to answer your question Slvr I enjoy trying new things. I think my husband would get a real pleasure out of using something like this vibrating cock ring. Just got to find one first!!
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Slowly losing the shyness.....
I have given him a blowjob, and then he's held me while I used the vibe on my clit and he played with my nipples and stroked my thighs.......the closeness is amazing, and when I came he held me tight....lol I could grow to love this.....
I have given him a blowjob, and then he's held me while I used the vibe on my clit and he played with my nipples and stroked my thighs.......the closeness is amazing, and when I came he held me tight....lol I could grow to love this.....
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If he would let me
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gumby123 said:
Me too! I could care less about the moment though, for some reason I would be embarressed =(
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Masturbation
I have been masturbating since I was little - I don't remember how old I was when I started. I just remember that I used to be sitting on the lounge alot when I started to and used to get caught by Mum "playing with myself" and was told to go to my room if I wanted to do that.
It was kinda funny because Mum used to be just walking through the room and say that on her way and I would cheekily still keep going on the lounge!
I masturbated once in front of the guy I was with before my husband - but he was not about pleasuring me AT ALL so the idea didn't really take off.
Anyway, yes I masturbate in front of my husband. It's a great way to get wet enough for sex afterwards! Apart from the practical side of it I enjoy it immensely, not only for the orgasms, but definitely for the awareness of myself being watched by my husband, naked and touching myself while he caresses me and whispers things that turn me on even more
I think it was a little while before my husband masturbated in front of me - it was in the shower (that's where he usually masturbates) and it turned me on soooo much to watch him. But he wasn't as into doing it in front of me as I am about doing it in front of him - he said that if we're naked together he'd prefer to be doing things WITH me rather than masturbating. And apparently masturbating for him isn't as pleasurable as sex with me. The other week though we had played around for a while and he teased me by kneeling on the bed in front of me running his hand smoothly over his hard cock, asking if I wanted to see him masturbate or if I wanted him inside me. After all the play we had I tell you it was a tough choice because I did want him inside (badly!) but I chose to see him masturbate and boy was it worth it!!!!!! He said it was the best wank he'd ever had and he came over my pussy when he orgasmed which was really sweet
Hmmmm gives me horny thoughts just remembering.........
I have been masturbating since I was little - I don't remember how old I was when I started. I just remember that I used to be sitting on the lounge alot when I started to and used to get caught by Mum "playing with myself" and was told to go to my room if I wanted to do that.
It was kinda funny because Mum used to be just walking through the room and say that on her way and I would cheekily still keep going on the lounge!
I masturbated once in front of the guy I was with before my husband - but he was not about pleasuring me AT ALL so the idea didn't really take off.
Anyway, yes I masturbate in front of my husband. It's a great way to get wet enough for sex afterwards! Apart from the practical side of it I enjoy it immensely, not only for the orgasms, but definitely for the awareness of myself being watched by my husband, naked and touching myself while he caresses me and whispers things that turn me on even more
I think it was a little while before my husband masturbated in front of me - it was in the shower (that's where he usually masturbates) and it turned me on soooo much to watch him. But he wasn't as into doing it in front of me as I am about doing it in front of him - he said that if we're naked together he'd prefer to be doing things WITH me rather than masturbating. And apparently masturbating for him isn't as pleasurable as sex with me. The other week though we had played around for a while and he teased me by kneeling on the bed in front of me running his hand smoothly over his hard cock, asking if I wanted to see him masturbate or if I wanted him inside me. After all the play we had I tell you it was a tough choice because I did want him inside (badly!) but I chose to see him masturbate and boy was it worth it!!!!!! He said it was the best wank he'd ever had and he came over my pussy when he orgasmed which was really sweet
Hmmmm gives me horny thoughts just remembering.........
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geisha, i can relate to doing it young, i didnt know what i was doing til i was 10 or so, but i used to lay on a pillow and hump and i didnt know why if felt good but knew it did, later i realized i was having orgasm, now i do it 3 or so times a day
gumby123 said:
I thought so too, until it happened to me... My wife walked in and joined me... It was the start of a different phase of our relationship because now we can masturbate infront of eachother. I've walked in on her many times in the shower at nite... A short shower turned into a long night of lovemaking!
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We love it. He loves watching me play so much that I've given him a whole assortment of vids and sound files of me for him to enjoy when I'm out of town or we can't be together for some reason. Sometimes I think he digs the films almost more than watching it live, but he swears it's a different thing. When you're in the same room, there's the possibility of sex, there's me watching him, etc., and if he's watching me on film then he experiences my masturbation differently, maybe more clearly because it's isolated or something. And of course he loves that I wouldn't just do it for him, but do it on film (and that means he can put it on "repeat" and watch me come a zillion times too).
