Do you masterbate in front of you spouse?

[Beadishly]

I suppose this old thread is never really stale.

I have done this and enjoyed it with both male and female partners. Often as an element in a longer lovemaking session but sometimes as a stand-alone event.

There is something extra magical when two men or two women self-pleasure together. One of my partners called it mirroring--showing me what felt good to her (not only hot to watch, but also a great way to learn her nuances from the expert) and then watching me do the same thing to myself....then my turn to lead, then hers again, and on and on.

I have also learned that if I ever don't feel comfortable watching or showing self-pleasure with a person, I need to pay closer attention. Turns out that, unless there's a really good identifiable reason, this is not a good match for me, at least not for more than sex.

 

[sweetgypsy]

I have tried to, adding some excitement into the bedroom, but he got "weirded out" by me doing it. So I do it when he isn't around.

 

[yellowrocket]

What a strange fellow. I occasionally play with it when wi tub the now exgf, but she won't let me finish. She'd rather get it on., or make me put it away.

 

[stu_gats_2000]

I have tried to, adding some excitement into the bedroom, but he got "weirded out" by me doing it. So I do it when he isn't around.

would be rather hot to observe and maybe join in ... would not weird me out ... more like turn me on

 

[Matt_Next_Door]

Open masturbation sometimes lead to even more pleasurable things...sometimes not...but the end result is always rewarding.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

D(.)(.)

Of course we do. Doesn't everyone? Also with friends but not family.

 

[sweetgypsy]

would be rather hot to observe and maybe join in ... would not weird me out ... more like turn me on

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[Taegul]

Nope, I'm not married. So I masturbate in front of other people's spouses....

 

[Ashtowngirl]

He's not my spouse yet, but yes... and i will when he is my spouse

 

[floatinfantazee]

I have tried to, adding some excitement into the bedroom, but he got "weirded out" by me doing it. So I do it when he isn't around.

Well good for you to not be put off and to still enjoy yourself. I find it bizarre that he's "weirded out" but that's mostly because it's something my other half and I both really enjoy,learn from and get super turned on by. Maybe some people feel intimidated or inadequate by seeing the other reaching great orgasms on their own. Anyway i've had some incredible times masturbating with others and fully recommend it.

 

[LadyWhiteWolf15]

I do yes and it's a turn on for us both. We usually ride the other to completion.

 

[stargazer214]

I did once. She didn't care for it.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Yes, I enjoy masturbating with and for my husband.
I also enjoy my solo sessions when I get the chance.

 

[leftie]

I wouldn't marry a girl who wasn't into it!

 

[stargazer214]

I wouldn't marry a girl who wasn't into it!

My mistake, I did

I settled.

 

[Sanadack]

She loves it.

 

[kurrginatorX]

When I was married I did.

 

[dashie33]

Sometimes. Like most things, I never know if she actually enjoys it, or if she just does it to make me happy.

 

[Hornblende]

Sometimes, together. It can be very erotic. Alternatively, we can get carried away and move on from masturbation.