Distance Domination-Support Thread

[Lizzie_Borden]

Today is our anniversary. I have been his owned submissive for 5 amazing years now.

What a ride

Wow

Congrats.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Wow

Congrats.

Thanks. I really am an ecstatic sub

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

So....I just got back from being with My girl.

Twelve days short of being together for two and a half years, we finally got to visit each other.

It is almost indescribable all the emotions, feelings, experiences, and everything else that happened in such a short amount of time.

Neither of us were expecting a visit any time soon. It actually started with a bump in our relationship (on both our parts), her saying (kinda of bratty), "Then come down and visit me this weekend", and me replying, "Ok."

This was Tuesday and I flew out Friday. It was a short visit as I had to leave this morning, but worth every second I got to spend with her.

The best weekend of my life. And then some.

Now I'm in the depressed/I miss her SO much/why am I not still with her/when can I be with her again mood.

Such highs and now such lows. But totally worth it. And I would do it again to be with her in a heartbeat.

 

[Kikori]

~The best weekend of my life. And then some. ~

Awesome.

Glad to hear another name's on the "the wait ended" list, even if it was short lived. ^_^

 

[ecstaticsub]

So....I just got back from being with My girl.

Twelve days short of being together for two and a half years, we finally got to visit each other.

It is almost indescribable all the emotions, feelings, experiences, and everything else that happened in such a short amount of time.

Neither of us were expecting a visit any time soon. It actually started with a bump in our relationship (on both our parts), her saying (kinda of bratty), "Then come down and visit me this weekend", and me replying, "Ok."

This was Tuesday and I flew out Friday. It was a short visit as I had to leave this morning, but worth every second I got to spend with her.

The best weekend of my life. And then some.

Now I'm in the depressed/I miss her SO much/why am I not still with her/when can I be with her again mood.

Such highs and now such lows. But totally worth it. And I would do it again to be with her in a heartbeat.

I am so happy for both of you. I hope you get to see each other more often now.

Daddy and I get so busy with life that sometimes visits don't get the priority that they should. Visits can be expensive, difficult to schedule etc etc with so many reasons why right now is not the best time.

But visits are very important. I need that grounding, that physical reminder of our relationship.

I truly hope you two get another visit very soon.

 

[seela]

So....I just got back from being with My girl.

-snip-

The best weekend of my life. And then some.

Eventhough I'm new here, I've been lurking for long enough to know your story, and I'm incredibly happy for you guys!

Now the next thing I want to see happen is wenchies visit to Ireland!

This thread is one of my favorites because of all the optimism and support this offers.

 

[the captians wench]

Congrats ES. You don't know how happy I am to see you happy. Truly.

So....I just got back from being with My girl.
Such highs and now such lows. But totally worth it. And I would do it again to be with her in a heartbeat.

And I'm extreamly happy for you too! My first visit to see Jounar was a week after our 3 year anniversery. You don't know how many times I've thought about just hoping a plane and spending the weekend there because of something he said...or perhaps you do, since I usually blurt it out!

I had that low for about a month, having a date for my next visit helped. But when that date didn't happen, I think it just made it worse. So that's a double edged sword, but I'm sure you'll find your own way.

Eventhough I'm new here, I've been lurking for long enough to know your story, and I'm incredibly happy for you guys!

Now the next thing I want to see happen is wenchies visit to Ireland!

This thread is one of my favorites because of all the optimism and support this offers.

me too

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

Awesome.

Glad to hear another name's on the "the wait ended" list, even if it was short lived. ^_^

Thank you. I'm VERY glad to be off that list as well.

I am so happy for both of you. I hope you get to see each other more often now.

Daddy and I get so busy with life that sometimes visits don't get the priority that they should. Visits can be expensive, difficult to schedule etc etc with so many reasons why right now is not the best time.

But visits are very important. I need that grounding, that physical reminder of our relationship.

I truly hope you two get another visit very soon.

Thank you.

This visit really helped to make our relationship even stronger and it came just at the right time.

Congrats on the anniversary.

Eventhough I'm new here, I've been lurking for long enough to know your story, and I'm incredibly happy for you guys!

Now the next thing I want to see happen is wenchies visit to Ireland!

This thread is one of my favorites because of all the optimism and support this offers.

Thanks.

And I'm extreamly happy for you too! My first visit to see Jounar was a week after our 3 year anniversery. You don't know how many times I've thought about just hoping a plane and spending the weekend there because of something he said...or perhaps you do, since I usually blurt it out!

I had that low for about a month, having a date for my next visit helped. But when that date didn't happen, I think it just made it worse. So that's a double edged sword, but I'm sure you'll find your own way.

Thank you.

I wasn't sure if we were going to break your record or not.

Hopefully you and Jounar will be able to be together soon.

 

[the captians wench]

Thank you. I'm VERY glad to be off that list as well.



Thank you.

This visit really helped to make our relationship even stronger and it came just at the right time.

Congrats on the anniversary.



Thanks.



Thank you.

I wasn't sure if we were going to break your record or not.

Hopefully you and Jounar will be able to be together soon.

*giggles*

Thanks. I hope so too.

 

[the captians wench]

So today I bought a slab of the cut of bacon I enjoyed the whole while I was in Ireland. I miss breakfast there, and lunch. Dinner we usually just snacked cause there wasn't much by the hotel, so lunch was our big meal.

I'm missing him a lot lately. I've been working late, and he's been working a lot, which is good, but has ment that we don't get a lot of time together. And I'm just missing actually being with him. Snuggling and watching movies, walking around city center, sight seeing, holding him as we slept and waking up with him holding me, the way he asked "fancy a shag?" every morning and even visiting with his mom. I miss how green everything was, and how overwhelming the sights are. I miss it all. But most of all I just miss him.

Euro is at a 4 year low, so I've been stocking up. At least I'll have a nice cash stash when I do get to visit. But low Euro exchange rates means a poor economy, and while I can stock up on it, I wonder how much he's able to stash.

I just hope it happens soon.

 

[Kikori]

So today I bought a slab of the cut of bacon I enjoyed the whole while I was in Ireland. I miss breakfast there, and lunch. Dinner we usually just snacked cause there wasn't much by the hotel, so lunch was our big meal.

I'm missing him a lot lately. I've been working late, and he's been working a lot, which is good, but has ment that we don't get a lot of time together. And I'm just missing actually being with him. Snuggling and watching movies, walking around city center, sight seeing, holding him as we slept and waking up with him holding me, the way he asked "fancy a shag?" every morning and even visiting with his mom. I miss how green everything was, and how overwhelming the sights are. I miss it all. But most of all I just miss him.

Euro is at a 4 year low, so I've been stocking up. At least I'll have a nice cash stash when I do get to visit. But low Euro exchange rates means a poor economy, and while I can stock up on it, I wonder how much he's able to stash.

I just hope it happens soon.

We do, too. And hopefully somewhere it finally balances out... The more you miss him, the more you should be able to squeeze the life out of him to stay close when the time comes.

Of everything you've described, at least the 'green' is possible to work on. Is there any way to make the things around your home more green?

 

[the captians wench]

We do, too. And hopefully somewhere it finally balances out... The more you miss him, the more you should be able to squeeze the life out of him to stay close when the time comes.

Of everything you've described, at least the 'green' is possible to work on. Is there any way to make the things around your home more green?

*giggles* This is something they tease me about at work. I always have a shamrock on me some where. I wear St. Patrick's day shirts all year long, and he's given me a few Irish momentos that I keep on me.

I'm on my way to bed now, more later

 

[Kikori]

Ah, let 'em tease. X3

G'night. Sleep well. :3

 

[the captians wench]

Ah, let 'em tease. X3

G'night. Sleep well. :3

Yeah, I don't much mind that my nickname in more than just my store is "shamrock".

I'm trying to start a small garden on my balcony as well, herbs and my favorite flowers. I think that will help perk me up too.

I'm not sure there is much else I can do. I'm trying to talk him into sending me a new shirt. Having his smell with me really was the best. He forgets though and washes them.

 

[Kikori]

Why not one of his instead of a new one? More of his smell, for sure.

 

[the captians wench]

Why not one of his instead of a new one? More of his smell, for sure.

That's what I ment.

Mid way thru my trip there I looked at him and said "so are you going to give me a shirt, or am I going to steal one when you go take a shower?" *giggles* He told me I could have the one he was wearing so at the end of the night it went in my bag and came home with me.

But after a few months the smell wore off, and after a year it got mixed in with my laundry and went thru the wash. Since it was washed I've been bugging him for one to replace it. But he takes it off, forgets, and it gets zipped away to the wash bin.

I really miss curling up with it. There was nothing better to cure my blues than a cuddle with a pillow wearing that shirt.

 

[ecstaticsub]

That's what I ment.

Mid way thru my trip there I looked at him and said "so are you going to give me a shirt, or am I going to steal one when you go take a shower?" *giggles* He told me I could have the one he was wearing so at the end of the night it went in my bag and came home with me.

But after a few months the smell wore off, and after a year it got mixed in with my laundry and went thru the wash. Since it was washed I've been bugging him for one to replace it. But he takes it off, forgets, and it gets zipped away to the wash bin.

I really miss curling up with it. There was nothing better to cure my blues than a cuddle with a pillow wearing that shirt.

Send him a shirt to wear. Make it even easier by including a self addressed stamped packing envelope with it. Include a picture or two of you with it, a nice hand written love note/erotic mini-story etc. A care package of sorts. Ask him to please wear the shirt for a bit then mail it back to you. Men are more likely to do things when you make it very easy for them.

 

[the captians wench]

Send him a shirt to wear. Make it even easier by including a self addressed stamped packing envelope with it. Include a picture or two of you with it, a nice hand written love note/erotic mini-story etc. A care package of sorts. Ask him to please wear the shirt for a bit then mail it back to you. Men are more likely to do things when you make it very easy for them.

I can't buy his postage.

Other than that I have done all of those things. It's simply a matter of he lays the shirt down and it gets swept into the laundry before he gets it packaged up.

I'll steal another when I'm there again. He's well aware of my plot.

 

[Kikori]

How much longer until you can steal one? o:
(Or even two, if you want to throw a twist to the plot :3)

 

[the captians wench]

not sure exactly

Maybe mid October, maybe longer. Really depends on a few things out of our control

 

[ecstaticsub]

I can't buy his postage.

Other than that I have done all of those things. It's simply a matter of he lays the shirt down and it gets swept into the laundry before he gets it packaged up.

I'll steal another when I'm there again. He's well aware of my plot.

I figured you would have done them all, just trying to think of something. Maybe when you do go you can bring a few shirts with you as presents. He can wear a different one each day and then you can bring them all back home with you.

(too bad you just can't leave the shirts there and bring Him back home with you...giggle)

 

[the captians wench]

I figured you would have done them all, just trying to think of something. Maybe when you do go you can bring a few shirts with you as presents. He can wear a different one each day and then you can bring them all back home with you.

(too bad you just can't leave the shirts there and bring Him back home with you...giggle)

*giggles*

When we were sitting in the airport, having breakfast, stalling the inevitable, I looked down at my rolly carry on and said "Well I guess it's too late to squish you into my luggage. " He just smiled at me and chuckled a bit.


I actually do send him lots of shirts. I'll see one that says something that reminds me of him, and I'll send it off. I don't know if he wears them or not, but I'm sure I'll find out when I see what he wears (and packs) while I'm there.

sneaky subbie *giggles*

 

[Kikori]

Better idea. Smell the shirts and see if they're worth stealing back for the scent. ;3

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

That's what I ment.

Mid way thru my trip there I looked at him and said "so are you going to give me a shirt, or am I going to steal one when you go take a shower?" *giggles* He told me I could have the one he was wearing so at the end of the night it went in my bag and came home with me.

But after a few months the smell wore off, and after a year it got mixed in with my laundry and went thru the wash. Since it was washed I've been bugging him for one to replace it. But he takes it off, forgets, and it gets zipped away to the wash bin.

I really miss curling up with it. There was nothing better to cure my blues than a cuddle with a pillow wearing that shirt.

Is there a particular deodorant or cologne he uses that you can aquire to tide you over in the mean time?

I've kept one of Mr's jackets. I latched onto it when I was coming out of a real subspace moment, and he realised I wasn't letting it go.

Now, it's what I use when I'm still a bit spacey when he has to leave. He'll stay with me as long as he can, then spritzes his jacket and I snuggle up to it. It's not *all* of his smell, but it's enough.

 

[the captians wench]

Is there a particular deodorant or cologne he uses that you can aquire to tide you over in the mean time?

I've kept one of Mr's jackets. I latched onto it when I was coming out of a real subspace moment, and he realised I wasn't letting it go.

Now, it's what I use when I'm still a bit spacey when he has to leave. He'll stay with me as long as he can, then spritzes his jacket and I snuggle up to it. It's not *all* of his smell, but it's enough.

Nope. His scent is all him. Well, when I was there it was him and the cigs that he smoked but he doesn't smoke anymore. His packages don't even smell like that certain ciggy smell that gave me headaches but made me all giddy too. But he doesn't smoke anymore, so I don't even get letters with that familure smell to them.

Besides, I think I'm beyond just needing his scent at this point.