Distance Domination-Support Thread

[the captians wench]

Oof! Why does his voice arouse me so much?! >_<
Does anyone else experience this? Every time he talks to me online it makes me so wild and hot that><.... it's hard for me to stay unaroused for long... Might prove to be a problem when we're having normal discussions and stuff...

*giggles* Yes I know what you mean. Master has such a dreamy voice and a heavenly accent to boot. i get wet just thinking about it often times. *purr* and the little pants he makes when he lets me cum on the phone for him.... well it makes for a very excited little wenchie.

But I talk to him at my mom's place some times, so I don't have to use up mins on my cell, or when I'm there for a while, and trust me, it makes for some enbarrasing moments.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Oof! Why does his voice arouse me so much?! >_<
Does anyone else experience this? Every time he talks to me online it makes me so wild and hot that><.... it's hard for me to stay unaroused for long... Might prove to be a problem when we're having normal discussions and stuff...

LOL, though his voice is heaven to me, apparently like others have told me before, my voice has a powerful effect on him. So much so he once came on a train while we were talking on the phone 16,000kms apart.

Catalina

 

[FurryFury]

*smiles* thank you for sharing, and you're right the NEED to feel Him does make me that much more eager to please Him....though sometimes that need becomes overwhelming also, but soon enough i will get to see Him again *smiles* anyway, welcome to this thread and to our little corner of lit, and again, thank you for sharing that story

I agree!

Hey cool av, Lil_Slave_Rose!

I'd like to see it bigger if possible?

Fury

 

[myinnerslut]

im gone for one day and there is an entire page to read!! i love you guys. i just got my wisdom teeth out so im pretty miserable and stuck in bed.

but bak to thread buisiness:

secretdom: im looking foward to more about you and your pets collaring

rose and pheonix: nice new AVs

little kitten: Sir's voice does the same thing to me. and yes, he's takedn advantage of it in the past, but for the most part im happy to just sit and listen to him talk on any subject.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

I agree!

Hey cool av, Lil_Slave_Rose!

I'd like to see it bigger if possible?

Fury

it wouldn't let me do it bigger in my av..but here it is in it's original size

 

[lil_slave_rose]

im gone for one day and there is an entire page to read!! i love you guys. i just got my wisdom teeth out so im pretty miserable and stuck in bed.

but bak to thread buisiness:

secretdom: im looking foward to more about you and your pets collaring

rose and pheonix: nice new AVs

little kitten: Sir's voice does the same thing to me. and yes, he's takedn advantage of it in the past, but for the most part im happy to just sit and listen to him talk on any subject.

eek...i know how bad having teeth pulled is...i had 17 teeth pulled at once (my pregnancy with my daughter made me have a calcium deficiency and eventually ruined my teeth) i hope you are feeling better soon...thanks for the compliments on mine and Master's av's. his is an inside joke between us. see, in our wedding, we discuss it often, LOL and it's nowhere close to happening, but He wants to wear a Top Hat and Tails....and i think that Top Hat is STUPID looking..so last night i changed my av, and He said He doesnt know why i change it i told Him it gets boring..and basically told Him His boring too, SO he went out and found a top hat to make into His av ....*grumbles something about smartass Doms*

 

[the captians wench]

eek...i know how bad having teeth pulled is...i had 17 teeth pulled at once (my pregnancy with my daughter made me have a calcium deficiency and eventually ruined my teeth) i hope you are feeling better soon...thanks for the compliments on mine and Master's av's. his is an inside joke between us. see, in our wedding, we discuss it often, LOL and it's nowhere close to happening, but He wants to wear a Top Hat and Tails....and i think that Top Hat is STUPID looking..so last night i changed my av, and He said He doesnt know why i change it i told Him it gets boring..and basically told Him His boring too, SO he went out and found a top hat to make into His av ....*grumbles something about smartass Doms*

LOL

count your blessings. Mine would have told me to change it back and then gave me 10 mins on the tacks!

 

[MasterPhoenix]

http://www.digitalfocus.net/slides/Top%20Hat.jpg

Top Hat=a classy look

 

[the captians wench]

Personally I love the look of top hat and tails. I love the formality of it. But then again, if I lived in a nice house and had some decient cash I'd probably wear a ball gown all the time.....if Master ever let me wear anything.

 

[Bandit58]

I completely understand this. The longing and inability to fulfill that longing is in and of itself a form of submission.

Could you elaborate on this?

I just found it incredibly frustrating. And after Master and I had met and made plans for me to relocate, it was both frustrating and depressing. I didn't feel it was a form of submission I just felt impatient for the time to pass until we could be together, and even though I was busy organising the move the time seemed to pass so slowly

I've been in 2 LDRs, one vanilla and one with Master. Most of the time was spent waiting. For them to come online. For the phone to ring. For the time to pass until we could meet or be together. I did enjoy chatting online and phone, and the time together although short was wonderful. But most of the time I was alone, and I hated it.

I don't think I could do it again.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

http://www.digitalfocus.net/slides/Top%20Hat.jpg

Top Hat=a classy look

ughh!! the tails i don't have a problem with, but that hat is just hideous! ok ok if You get the top hat, then i get my colors...Purple and pink

Edited to Add: and Your cummerbund will be Pink as will Your bow tie..and i'm talking BRIGHT pink

 

[MasterPhoenix]

ughh!! the tails i don't have a problem with, but that hat is just hideous! ok ok if You get the top hat, then i get my colors...Purple and pink

Edited to Add: and Your cummerbund will be Pink as will Your bow tie..and i'm talking BRIGHT pink

someone is feeling rather sammy

I only wear two colours Silver & Black

 

[lil_slave_rose]

someone is feeling rather sammy

I only wear two colours Silver & Black

*giggles* my wedding colors will not be silver and black..blech!

 

[SECRETDOM]

Could you elaborate on this?

I just found it incredibly frustrating....(cut for length)

I can try. First, know that I am not downplaying the loneliness, the frustration or the general crappiness of being separated from someone you long to be with. It is real and it is HARD. But I tend to have a zen outlook on life and try to refocus unfixable desire into something more positive.

Separation is something that you often cannot control. Life, other relationships, etc. make it impossible for you to be with someone you want to be with. Therefore you can either focus on the frustration and desire, or focus those energies into the way you and your DOM express your feelings for each other (D/s).

Submitting to the realities of the situation between you and your DOM and learning to make the differences in time zones and geography work for you can be a form of submission in that you are not in control of the situation. Your lack of control, your inability to change the situation is a feeling you can focus on and incorporate into your submissiveness. On your DOM's side, It forces him/her to be very skilled and very intentional with tasks (and punishements) as well as forcing him/her to be in control of his/her emotions.

I am not sure if this makes any sense or not, but it is the best I can do right now. I will however continue to work on articulating what I am thinking.

 

[Sprinkles22]

someone is feeling rather sammy

I only wear two colours Silver & Black

Sammy?

Is that a *bad* thing??

*skips from the room giggling before anyone can get a hold of me*

 

[MasterPhoenix]

*giggles* my weddking colors will not be silver and black..blech!

There are no other colours that matter...

 

[lil_slave_rose]

There are no other colours that matter...

 

[SECRETDOM]

Our Collaring (part 3) – In the beginning (Gen 1:1)

When the knock on the door came, I was still so nervous that my hand was shaking. I remember thinking to myself, “This has to be right. It has to be perfect, so get your shit together!” This internal dominance calmed my nerves and focused my attention on my DOM space. (This short pause helped me and increased pet’s trepidation. She later informed me that she nearly called me again, in direct violation of her rules because she thought she had the wrong room.)

I opened the door and ushered her in. Since her bags were already in the room, all she had was her purse. I could see her panties clearly, as could have anyone else who was near her since she left the ladies room. They were damp and a trace of her scent was on them. I smiled at this act of public submission and closed the door behind her.

She stood at the door and looked up at me, then looked down. She wasn’t sure where to cast her gaze. The lights were off in the room so all she could see was the area around her bathed in the glow of a single candle. I leaned down and put my fingers under her chin and had her look up at me. We locked eyes and I kissed her softly on the lips. I whispered to her, “Know that as we start our journey, I love you dearly and I am overjoyed that you are here.”

I had pet undress except for her bra, white garter belt and hose. She handed me her clothes and I put them aside and stared at her. She was lovely, she was pure, she was innocent and she was ready to be mine. I then gave her some final instructions for the ceremony and asked her if she was ready to begin. She was.

STAGE I

I told her to kneel on the pillow and began the opening phase of our ceremony. I am a lecturer at heart so I took the time to review our relationship and to make sure that she was here for the right reasons and consented to being collared.

I then made my promises to her. I made sure that she knew that I understood that her submission is her most sacred gift and that I cherished it as I cherished her. I promised to provide her guidance as her DOM, and pleasure as her lover and comfort as her friend. I am not going to go into the whole list of promises, but know that I could see the tears in her eyes and feel my own as I made them. I then asked her to accept these promises. She did.

I rang the bell one time, and lit one of the candles on the “altar” on the other side of the room.

STAGE II

We moved into the second stage of the ceremony. She continued to kneel before me and she kept her eyes downcast. I asked pet to read the letter of “offering” that she had prepared for me. (One note here, I had to move the candle closer to her so she could read the letter – poor planning on my part) It was lengthy and told me exactly why she wanted to submit to me, what she found appealing in me and in us, and what she offered. It was as touching as my promises were and she read them with a catch in her voice and a tear in her eye.

I then asked her several questions related to letter and asked her to confirm the promises she made in her letter.

I then rang the bell twice, and lit another of the candles.

STAGE III

As I have stated, my sub refers to me as DaddySir and I refer to her as Pet. Prior to this part of the ceremony I had been very careful not to use that name or any of the other nicknames that I use for her even when we first hugged. Her initial letter had required her not to use her name for me only to refer to me as sir. I discussed the names that we have for each other and their significance. I told her that in naming her, I as telling her and the world that our relationship was so special that it required us to assume new names.

I took a red lipstick and wrote her name across her chest, and told her that she was now named. She would use that name when she was with me and she would refer to me as DaddySir.

I kissed her softly, rang the bell three times and lit the third candle.


***
I hope you are enjoying this. I am of course summarizing, but I am including enough information so that you can understand what our ceremony was like. If you have questions or comments please feel free to ask/tell.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

When the knock on the door came, I was still so nervous that my hand was shaking. I remember thinking to myself, “This has to be right. It has to be perfect, so get your shit together!” This internal dominance calmed my nerves and focused my attention on my DOM space. (This short pause helped me and increased pet’s trepidation. She later informed me that she nearly called me again, in direct violation of her rules because she thought she had the wrong room.)

I opened the door and ushered her in. Since her bags were already in the room, all she had was her purse. I could see her panties clearly, as could have anyone else who was near her since she left the ladies room. They were damp and a trace of her scent was on them. I smiled at this act of public submission and closed the door behind her.

She stood at the door and looked up at me, then looked down. She wasn’t sure where to cast her gaze. The lights were off in the room so all she could see was the area around her bathed in the glow of a single candle. I leaned down and put my fingers under her chin and had her look up at me. We locked eyes and I kissed her softly on the lips. I whispered to her, “Know that as we start our journey, I love you dearly and I am overjoyed that you are here.”

I had pet undress except for her bra, white garter belt and hose. She handed me her clothes and I put them aside and stared at her. She was lovely, she was pure, she was innocent and she was ready to be mine. I then gave her some final instructions for the ceremony and asked her if she was ready to begin. She was.

STAGE I

I told her to kneel on the pillow and began the opening phase of our ceremony. I am a lecturer at heart so I took the time to review our relationship and to make sure that she was here for the right reasons and consented to being collared.

I then made my promises to her. I made sure that she knew that I understood that her submission is her most sacred gift and that I cherished it as I cherished her. I promised to provide her guidance as her DOM, and pleasure as her lover and comfort as her friend. I am not going to go into the whole list of promises, but know that I could see the tears in her eyes and feel my own as I made them. I then asked her to accept these promises. She did.

I rang the bell one time, and lit one of the candles on the “altar” on the other side of the room.

STAGE II

We moved into the second stage of the ceremony. She continued to kneel before me and she kept her eyes downcast. I asked pet to read the letter of “offering” that she had prepared for me. (One note here, I had to move the candle closer to her so she could read the letter – poor planning on my part) It was lengthy and told me exactly why she wanted to submit to me, what she found appealing in me and in us, and what she offered. It was as touching as my promises were and she read them with a catch in her voice and a tear in her eye.

I then asked her several questions related to letter and asked her to confirm the promises she made in her letter.

I then rang the bell twice, and lit another of the candles.

STAGE III

As I have stated, my sub refers to me as DaddySir and I refer to her as Pet. Prior to this part of the ceremony I had been very careful not to use that name or any of the other nicknames that I use for her even when we first hugged. Her initial letter had required her not to use her name for me only to refer to me as sir. I discussed the names that we have for each other and their significance. I told her that in naming her, I as telling her and the world that our relationship was so special that it required us to assume new names.

I took a red lipstick and wrote her name across her chest, and told her that she was now named. She would use that name when she was with me and she would refer to me as DaddySir.

I kissed her softly, rang the bell three times and lit the third candle.


***
I hope you are enjoying this. I am of course summarizing, but I am including enough information so that you can understand what our ceremony was like. If you have questions or comments please feel free to ask/tell.

*grins* i'm loving it, BUT, i hate the suspense..can we have more, please please pretty please? *giggles* i like the idea of the ceremony, Master and i also had one, though it wasn't quite as elaborate as Yours and i didn't get my 'say' in until after He had already left to go back to cali, because the night that He collared me, words just failed me....

 

[SECRETDOM]

*grins* i'm loving it, BUT, i hate the suspense..can we have more, please please pretty please? *giggles* i like the idea of the ceremony, Master and i also had one, though it wasn't quite as elaborate as Yours and i didn't get my 'say' in until after He had already left to go back to cali, because the night that He collared me, words just failed me....

I will try to finish it up tomorrow night, but I like building suspense!

I would love to hear about your ceremony some time. I am sure it was beautiful and wonderful. As far as pet having her "say", I was aware that pet was going to have a hard time organizing her thoughts and feelings on the spot, which is why I had her prepare her letter.

In writing this I see that it comes across as pretty elaborate. I spent some significant portions of my academic career researching rituals and ceremonies (secular and sacred) so I poured a lot of that information into this.

Glad you are enjoying it!

 

[SECRETDOM]

There are no other colours that matter...

I must respectfully disagree, I would include "spanked ass pink" and blood red.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

I will try to finish it up tomorrow night, but I like building suspense!

I would love to hear about your ceremony some time. I am sure it was beautiful and wonderful. As far as pet having her "say", I was aware that pet was going to have a hard time organizing her thoughts and feelings on the spot, which is why I had her prepare her letter.

In writing this I see that it comes across as pretty elaborate. I spent some significant portions of my academic career researching rituals and ceremonies (secular and sacred) so I poured a lot of that information into this.

Glad you are enjoying it!

*smiles* i was not implying that it was too elaborate, i actually like all of the thought and ritual that You put into it, as for our ceremony, it really was just me kneeling before Him, Him giving me His vows and promises, me stumbling on my words *giggles* and then Him placing the collar on around my neck(Him fumbling with the clasp and me giggling about it, just added to the whole 'us' about it) i've attached a pic of my collar, though if ya go back inthe thread, i've already posted it once, but didn't feel like digging through the pages so i'll just re-up again......

 

[SECRETDOM]

*smiles* i was not implying that it was too elaborate, i actually like all of the thought and ritual that You put into it, as for our ceremony, it really was just me kneeling before Him, Him giving me His vows and promises, me stumbling on my words *giggles* and then Him placing the collar on around my neck(Him fumbling with the clasp and me giggling about it, just added to the whole 'us' about it) i've attached a pic of my collar, though if ya go back inthe thread, i've already posted it once, but didn't feel like digging through the pages so i'll just re-up again......

That sounds wonderful! I am glad it meant so much to both of you. And if you are a good girl, (I am sure your SIR will tell me if have been good or not) Ill post a picture of pet's collar at the end of the story.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

That sounds wonderful! I am glad it meant so much to both of you. And if you are a good girl, (I am sure your SIR will tell me if have been good or not) Ill post a picture of pet's collar at the end of the story.

*grins* i'm always a good girl and i'd love to see a pic of her collar and i can't wait to read the rest of the ceremony.. *sighs*

 

[MasterPhoenix]

That sounds wonderful! I am glad it meant so much to both of you. And if you are a good girl, (I am sure your SIR will tell me if have been good or not) Ill post a picture of pet's collar at the end of the story.

A good girl? Now I have heard everything...