Distance Domination-Support Thread

[CutieMouse]

now as far as the OP, why on earth would a couple NEED anyone to give them instructions on things to do and then 'tell them' how to punish the one who didn't do it??? *shrugs* i guess this falls under different strokes for different folks huh?

This entire thread is full of people who are in online/long distance relationships, and are given tasks and are punished (whatever) when they don't not complete them appropriately; I don't see this request as being mush different... The gentleman in question is simply interested in dominating a couple, rather than a singular person. Creating a heirarchy of domination- online master gives an online order to master-in-absentia, who carries out said order on the submissive.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

This entire thread is full of people who are in online/long distance relationships, and are given tasks and are punished (whatever) when they don't not complete them appropriately; I don't see this request as being mush different... The gentleman in question is simply interested in dominating a couple, rather than a singular person. Creating a heirarchy of domination- online master gives an online order to master-in-absentia, who carries out said order on the submissive.

while i understand that this thread is full of people who are in LDR's, as i am one of them what i don't understand is why a 'couple' if they are already Dom/sub, would need a 'middle man' so to speak, give said couple orders and punishments. and my LDR is not so much about being given 'orders' and then being punished when they are not completed appropriately, but more about an actual relationship based on love and a whole lot of trust. as i said in my original post, i guess it's just different strokes for different folks, as this is not something i am or would be interested in, but that doesn't mean someone else isn't. *shrugs*

 

[FurryFury]

This entire thread is full of people who are in online/long distance relationships, and are given tasks and are punished (whatever) when they don't not complete them appropriately; I don't see this request as being mush different... The gentleman in question is simply interested in dominating a couple, rather than a singular person. Creating a heirarchy of domination- online master gives an online order to master-in-absentia, who carries out said order on the submissive.

I've thought about it a lot. I think that could be hot for a sub/sub couple (like me and my husband, if my husband were interested,) and the Dom, but I'm not into any public exhibitionistic stuff. Oh hell no.

Fury

 

[raven2]

I've thought about it a lot. I think that could be hot for a sub/sub couple (like me and my husband, if my husband were interested,) and the Dom, but I'm not into any public exhibitionistic stuff. Oh hell no.

Fury

Hehehehehe.......too bad. Hi Fury, how are you doing.

 

[CutieMouse]

while i understand that this thread is full of people who are in LDR's, as i am one of them what i don't understand is why a 'couple' if they are already Dom/sub, would need a 'middle man' so to speak, give said couple orders and punishments. and my LDR is not so much about being given 'orders' and then being punished when they are not completed appropriately, but more about an actual relationship based on love and a whole lot of trust. as i said in my original post, i guess it's just different strokes for different folks, as this is not something i am or would be interested in, but that doesn't mean someone else isn't. *shrugs*

Ah, but you presume the couple are already in a D/s relationship. The arrangement could just as easily be a couple who is interested in D/s, but lacking confidence, and needs a mentor-ish sort of person to help them navigate the BDSM waters.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Ah, but you presume the couple are already in a D/s relationship. The arrangement could just as easily be a couple who is interested in D/s, but lacking confidence, and needs a mentor-ish sort of person to help them navigate the BDSM waters.

*nods* it makes sense that way, and you're right, i did assume too much

 

[FurryFury]

Hehehehehe.......too bad. Hi Fury, how are you doing.

I'm fine thank you. How about you?

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

Ah, but you presume the couple are already in a D/s relationship. The arrangement could just as easily be a couple who is interested in D/s, but lacking confidence, and needs a mentor-ish sort of person to help them navigate the BDSM waters.

That's hot to me too.

Fury

 

[Sprinkles22]

That's hot to me too.

Fury

Here's a possible variation to this topic:
2 couples ... one couple both submissive, one couple both dominant .... just think of the possibilities there

*this is my particular situation and we'll see how it begins to work by bringing my husband and his wife into the mix*

 

[myinnerslut]

i've been gone for a few days becuase my computer died but im back!!

.........

 

[BeBe81]

Sir and I got my collar today!!!!!!!!!!

It was my birthday present. Its for everyday wear and is actually a thin black and crystal choker necklace, that i can wear (and be appropriate) in a classroom when teaching, or in school, or around my family. i have two that are reserved for play.

Sir wont give me permission to post a picture of it, so you'll all have to trust me when i say is is absolutly gorgeuos!

Oh, congrats!!!!

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Sir and I got my collar today!!!!!!!!!!

It was my birthday present. Its for everyday wear and is actually a thin black and crystal choker necklace, that i can wear (and be appropriate) in a classroom when teaching, or in school, or around my family. i have two that are reserved for play.

Sir wont give me permission to post a picture of it, so you'll all have to trust me when i say is is absolutly gorgeuos!

Great news, and congrats...

 

[BeBe81]

*smiles*

Oh... my....

D. will be home in a little over 2 days!!!

I can't believe I made it!! Two weeks... wow....

I'm so excited!!

 

[FurryFury]

Here's a possible variation to this topic:
2 couples ... one couple both submissive, one couple both dominant .... just think of the possibilities there

*this is my particular situation and we'll see how it begins to work by bringing my husband and his wife into the mix*

That could be interesting. I was once in touch with another couple that I thought might fit with us that way.

*sighs*

At one point my ex online Dom was going to talk with my husband and give him some "commands" to use on me. My husband would not know what the commands would do but I would. He would find out when I performed accordingly. It sounded like a fun game to all of us. Too bad it never happened.

Fury

 

[DontThankJustSpank]

Very hot...but not damn likely at this point

At one point my ex online Dom was going to talk with my husband and give him some "commands" to use on me. My husband would not know what the commands would do but I would. He would find out when I performed accordingly. It sounded like a fun game to all of us. Too bad it never happened.

I would have LOVED to have this happen. My husband and I (post-last weeks discussion of my meeting my Mr. here online) had several very interesting little naughty talks about it.

As in, my Mr. being on speaker phone, talking to me and telling me what and how to perform, my husband being able to either act out or receive said acts, us on cam for Mr. to see and my being blindfolded and thus being able to imagine it is actually my Mr. and not my husband.

But as I haven't heard from Mr. in a week, who the hell knows? Not pushing for sympathy, I'm beyond even being upset at this point. Mr. knows how to get a hold of me, and if he chooses not to, well then his true colors have been shown.

A little pet, maybe still Mr's...

 

[FurryFury]

I'm sorry that you are hurting so.

*HUG*

Fury

 

[ChromeCollar]

Have a nice night all, enjoy your festivities.

 

[littleone77]

It is my opinion that the worst seperations are those which are unexpected and are unplanned.

 

[ChromeCollar]

I think any seperation is terrible. Planned or unplanned. You can watch slowly an approaching seperation, knowing deep in your mind that it will happen and still the pain is just as fresh and raw. Of course, I speak for myself only but loss is loss.

 

[BeBe81]

I think any seperation is terrible. Planned or unplanned. You can watch slowly an approaching seperation, knowing deep in your mind that it will happen and still the pain is just as fresh and raw. Of course, I speak for myself only but loss is loss.

Yes, If I know of the separation or not... my heart aches the same.

It feels sometimes like I can't breath if I allow myself to think about it and yet I can't stop myself.

Oh... 2 days.

 

[the captians wench]

I think any seperation is terrible. Planned or unplanned. You can watch slowly an approaching seperation, knowing deep in your mind that it will happen and still the pain is just as fresh and raw. Of course, I speak for myself only but loss is loss.

Depending on what you mean by seperation, I think planned ones can be worse. I'd be dwelling too much on the aproaching date of our departure from one another to fully enjoy the time we would have. This is something I've been trying to have a sort of plan of attack for, when I do get to visit my Love.

Now if you're talking break ups, I think a sudden drop off is the worst way to go. Because then you don't know if you did something wrong or why the relationship ended period.

 

[myinnerslut]

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[littleone77]

I just do better when I know He will be unavailable for whatever reason ahead of time rather than something unexpected popping up. I use the time preparing myself and adjusting to not being in contact with Him. Its a weird feeling...bereft all most. Like I had something precious in my arms which was suddenly taken away. *Sighs*

 

[FurryFury]

I just do better when I know He will be unavailable for whatever reason ahead of time rather than something unexpected popping up. I use the time preparing myself and adjusting to not being in contact with Him. Its a weird feeling...bereft all most. Like I had something precious in my arms which was suddenly taken away. *Sighs*

That is perfectly understandable to me. I feel that way too.

Fury

 

[MasterPhoenix]

seperation sucks. being together and then being apart sucks.

sir and i were both home for a little over a week... then he left to go to another country for ten days, and i have to leave for school 4 days after he gets home

i dont know if we are ever goignt o get a proper chance to be together

Co-sign

Speration does suck