Distance Domination-Support Thread

[lil_slave_rose]

A good girl? Now I have heard everything...

i AM a good girl......most of the time

 

[myinnerslut]

[hijack]
rose and pheonix:

i dont care what anyone else in the entire forum says, you two just made me smile for the first time in two days with your witty back and forth (and yes, sammy-nis, but coming from a sub im not sure if its a bad thing)... grrr, i am in so much pain (and not the good kind)

[/hijack]

 

[myinnerslut]

..........

 

[MasterPhoenix]

[hijack]
rose and pheonix:

i dont care what anyone else in the entire forum says, you two just made me smile for the first time in two days with your witty back and forth (and yes, sammy-nis, but coming from a sub im not sure if its a bad thing)... grrr, i am in so much pain (and not the good kind)

[/hijack]

Glad to have made you smile.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

[hijack]
rose and pheonix:

i dont care what anyone else in the entire forum says, you two just made me smile for the first time in two days with your witty back and forth (and yes, sammy-nis, but coming from a sub im not sure if its a bad thing)... grrr, i am in so much pain (and not the good kind)

[/hijack]

*grins* i'm glad we could make you smile, and i'm sorry you're in pain (not the good kind) like i said i do know what it feels like...feel better soon..and here's a HUGE ::::::::Hug::::::::: to make it a littler better

 

[lil_slave_rose]

i never had a "real" ceremony. we bought it together, after looking through three other stores first. then he had me hold it in a bag until he pulled up to my driveway. as he hooked it around my neck he asked me a few questions, but each word gave me chills and i felt like there was so much meaning behind the few simple words that were said.

Sir: who are you?
me: your puppy, your slut, yours to use, simply yours
Sir: why am i putting this around your neck?
me: becuase you own me. becuase i am yours. becuase i love being yours and love you.
Sir: good puppy

and i havnt seen him since becuase he took a trip with his friends and isnt getting back untill directly before i leave for school.

and i cant post a picture becuase Sir wont let me, but its beuatiful

this made me smile. sometimes 'simple' is just as cool as the whole ritual/ceremony thing. like i said, Master and i didn't really do much either, though it defiantly was kind of a ceremony and we had an awesome scene afterwards *grins* but it was the meaning behind it, not the ceremony

 

[littleone77]

Most of the time was spent waiting. For them to come online. For the phone to ring. For the time to pass until we could meet or be together. I did enjoy chatting online and phone, and the time together although short was wonderful. But most of the time I was alone, and I hated it.

I don't think I could do it again.

I just had to reply to this before I slip off to bed.

I wait. I wait alot and ya, sometimes it sucks but I wouldn't change it. I even changed my sleeping patterns to be with Him. I wait because He is worth it. Its my choice. I Love Him with every ounce of my being and there is little I wouldn't do to please Him.

I don't think I was ever alone. He was always there with me. When I wale up, when I go to class, when I was waiting for Him and when I close my eyes at night. Sometimes I only had Him for a half an hour but every second was life saving oxygen. Thus far I have no regrets and I doubt I ever will.

Personally, the waiting and the seperation...it all depends on if you love Him I think. And in my case it does. I need Him.

 

[Rubnesque]

*smiles* thank you for sharing, and you're right the NEED to feel Him does make me that much more eager to please Him....though sometimes that need becomes overwhelming also, but soon enough i will get to see Him again *smiles* anyway, welcome to this thread and to our little corner of lit, and again, thank you for sharing that story

Thanks for the warm welcome! Actually, I've been a member on and off for a long time, but I've pretty much either used the site for masturbation material or lurked on the boards.

My Master and I actually both registered at the height of our relationship and posted a few stories, the same ones but from our own pov. I used to have them saved on an old computer, but of course there was no backup when the motherboard gave up the ghost. I was heartbroken as I lost 3 years worth of messages, emails, and shared stories between the two of us.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Thanks for the warm welcome! Actually, I've been a member on and off for a long time, but I've pretty much either used the site for masturbation material or lurked on the boards.

My Master and I actually both registered at the height of our relationship and posted a few stories, the same ones but from our own pov. I used to have them saved on an old computer, but of course there was no backup when the motherboard gave up the ghost. I was heartbroken as I lost 3 years worth of messages, emails, and shared stories between the two of us.

eek..that's really not cool, hate it when that happens. i've lost so much that way...from my computer giving on me in one way or another

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Thanks for the warm welcome! Actually, I've been a member on and off for a long time, but I've pretty much either used the site for masturbation material or lurked on the boards.

My Master and I actually both registered at the height of our relationship and posted a few stories, the same ones but from our own pov. I used to have them saved on an old computer, but of course there was no backup when the motherboard gave up the ghost. I was heartbroken as I lost 3 years worth of messages, emails, and shared stories between the two of us.

I lost a tonne of stuff like that when I had to abandon Vegas.

 

[BeBe81]

I wait. I wait alot and ya, sometimes it sucks but I wouldn't change it. I even changed my sleeping patterns to be with Him. I wait because He is worth it. Its my choice. I Love Him with every ounce of my being and there is little I wouldn't do to please Him.

I don't think I was ever alone. He was always there with me. When I wale up, when I go to class, when I was waiting for Him and when I close my eyes at night. Sometimes I only had Him for a half an hour but every second was life saving oxygen. Thus far I have no regrets and I doubt I ever will.

I agree with you for the most part.

It is very, very hard. I wait a lot. Master is very busy with his duties and obligations. He works very hard and sometimes is exhausted beyond words. I have a lot on my plate, like most people and it is very hard to try to find those moments we cherish.

It is usually late at night and we both need to be up early. I see how tired he is and I feel so grateful that he cares enough about me to not pass out. I also make sacrifices, but I do them with ease for him. He makes me such a happy Pet. It is my pleasure and choice to be able to do so to please him.

He has always expressed his lack of dependability from the very beginning of our relationship. He needs to travel a lot and will at times be away for amounts of time. Sometimes, I feel selfish for aching so much and feel melancholy, but I can't help it. I fight weakness and sometimes I lose.

Sometimes, I find it hard to express my concerns or fretting in words and Master fears I am not happy with us. That is not the case at all. It makes me feel pensive to not be able to fully understand my emotions. I get frighten that I can't be be strong enough and fear I will run from it. Losing him and a part of my soul. But, Master is so wise and he slowly lifts the layers and discovers the underline problems and reassures me.

Does it hurt or feel lonely? Yes.
Do I get so confused at times and feel lost? Yes.
Do I wish I was in his arms all the time? Yes.

But, the moments we share are the ones I think, love, make it through the day with. He is will me in my heart all the time. I know he would be here in a second with me as well if he could, but he keeps me brave and assures me that he is always here. I adore him.

So, after all that... I don't know if I will ever regret it, but I am happy with my choice to love him and accept what we offer each other. My only concern is how my heart will feel when we decided to part as I seek a 24/7 Dom and he becomes my Mentor. *cringes at the thought* I know it is a long, long time from now... but my heart skips a beat anyways. He will always be part of me.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

I agree with you for the most part.

It is very, very hard. I wait a lot. Master is very busy with his duties and obligations. He works very hard and sometimes is exhausted beyond words. I have a lot on my plate, like most people and it is very hard to try to find those moments we cherish.

It is usually late at night and we both need to be up early. I see how tired he is and I feel so grateful that he cares enough about me to not pass out. I also make sacrifices, but I do them with ease for him. He makes me such a happy Pet. It is my pleasure and choice to be able to do so to please him.

He has always expressed his lack of dependability from the very beginning of our relationship. He needs to travel a lot and will at times be away for amounts of time. Sometimes, I feel selfish for aching so much and feel melancholy, but I can't help it. I fight weakness and sometimes I lose.

Sometimes, I find it hard to express my concerns or fretting in words and Master fears I am not happy with us. That is not the case at all. It makes me feel pensive to not be able to fully understand my emotions. I get frighten that I can't be be strong enough and fear I will run from it. Losing him and a part of my soul. But, Master is so wise and he slowly lifts the layers and discovers the underline problems and reassures me.

Does it hurt or feel lonely? Yes.
Do I get so confused at times and feel lost? Yes.
Do I wish I was in his arms all the time? Yes.

But, the moments we share are the ones I think, love, make it through the day with. He is will me in my heart all the time. I know he would be here in a second with me as well if he could, but he keeps me brave and assures me that he is always here. I adore him.

So, after all that... I don't know if I will ever regret it, but I am happy with my choice to love him and accept what we offer each other. My only concern is how my heart will feel when we decided to part as I seek a 24/7 Dom and he becomes my Mentor. *cringes at the thought* I know it is a long, long time from now... but my heart skips a beat anyways. He will always be part of me.

wow...i couldn't imagine putting my heart and soul into someone, into a relationship, if i knew that eventually, we'd part ways as D/s and only be Mentor/student....i'm not knocking what you have at all, i admire your strength but i just could not fathom loving Master as much as i do, if i knew it wasn't a 'permanent' thing....and i'm right there with you on the feeling lonely thing, though Master and i are able to talk on the phone ALOT....only time we're not on the phone is when He is at work, or we're sleeping....it really does suck sometimes, but it's all worth it in the end...when i get to run to His arms and stay there for a week *smiles* and eventually, for good

 

[BeBe81]

wow...i couldn't imagine putting my heart and soul into someone, into a relationship, if i knew that eventually, we'd part ways as D/s and only be Mentor/student....i'm not knocking what you have at all, i admire your strength but i just could not fathom loving Master as much as i do, if i knew it wasn't a 'permanent' thing....and i'm right there with you on the feeling lonely thing, though Master and i are able to talk on the phone ALOT....only time we're not on the phone is when He is at work, or we're sleeping....it really does suck sometimes, but it's all worth it in the end...when i get to run to His arms and stay there for a week *smiles* and eventually, for good

Oh, no... I respect your thoughts/views and appreciate them. I'm so grateful you kindly give them to me.

I try to be strong, but it is so hard. So tough that my chest tightens at the thought of our departing. I'm so scared beyond words about my heart after us separating, but I love him so much and he is my perfect counterpart as my D. that I will risk it. He assures me that he will be my Master as long as I'm happy with that choice. Also, that he will always be part of my life in the future when I decide to pursue my 24/7 Master as well either as great friend or Mentor once again my choice. He is trying to figure out the best route and giving me advice of what I should seek. That the choice is ours together, but my happiness is what he wants.

We both know that he can never be my 24/7... not even a slight possible chance and that is the way the universe works, I guess. We didn't know that our relationship was going to develop to what it is today. We both knew our limitations to our relationship. But, fate put me in his hands and I trust him completely. He can read me like a book and knows everything while fully accepting it.

He offered me the guidance I was seeking as a novice with tender patience, so I could grow and understand safely with his wisdom. We discovered that we were attached and want to explore the levels together. Master expressed that our relationship/bond was uncharted waters to him and something he never experienced with another Pet. I still can't believe he could say such an amazing thing about me and that he is also sort of discovering new things with me, too.

So, we are here and I truly treasure our stolen moments from our reality of the responsibilities we have outside our haven. I never felt so alive and more like myself. I adore him.

But, I'm a bit frighten that I may never feel as happy as I am now without him. But, I still have a lot to learn and grow.

So, yes it is a double-edged sword, so to speak. But, not loving him is the only option that is non-negotiable. Please, always feel free to give me any advice or opinions. I would appreciate it.

 

[ChromeCollar]

Well... I've been talking to alot of people locally for the last 4 months or so, trying to become active in the scene here in Nor Cal and I've met some really cool people. Oddly enough, I've found myself drawn more to couples than solo Dominants and I'm happy to say that at the end of this month I'll be traveling a couple hours south to spend my first weekend with a Dominant couple I have been speaking with for the last couple months.

While I was with my Master he had agreed to let me visit with them with certain stipulations, but I've decided to pursue the relationship to the next level with them now that he and I are not together. They are a lovely couple, and I find myself eager to see what is on the horizon. I hope to continue visiting this thread, even though the distance between my Dominants and I will only be a couple hours and I will be visiting them frequently for the weekend. Wish me luck, I'm terrified! She is wickedly creative.

 

[the captians wench]

Oh, no... I respect your thoughts/views and appreciate them. I'm so grateful you kindly give them to me.

I try to be strong, but it is so hard. So tough that my chest tightens at the thought of our departing. I'm so scared beyond words about my heart after us separating, but I love him so much and he is my perfect counterpart as my D. that I will risk it. He assures me that he will be my Master as long as I'm happy with that choice. Also, that he will always be part of my life in the future when I decide to pursue my 24/7 Master as well either as great friend or Mentor once again my choice. He is trying to figure out the best route and giving me advice of what I should seek. That the choice is ours together, but my happiness is what he wants.

We both know that he can never be my 24/7... not even a slight possible chance and that is the way the universe works, I guess. We didn't know that our relationship was going to develop to what it is today. We both knew our limitations to our relationship. But, fate put me in his hands and I trust him completely. He can read me like a book and knows everything while fully accepting it.

He offered me the guidance I was seeking as a novice with tender patience, so I could grow and understand safely with his wisdom. We discovered that we were attached and want to explore the levels together. Master expressed that our relationship/bond was uncharted waters to him and something he never experienced with another Pet. I still can't believe he could say such an amazing thing about me and that he is also sort of discovering new things with me, too.

So, we are here and I truly treasure our stolen moments from our reality of the responsibilities we have outside our haven. I never felt so alive and more like myself. I adore him.

But, I'm a bit frighten that I may never feel as happy as I am now without him. But, I still have a lot to learn and grow.

So, yes it is a double-edged sword, so to speak. But, not loving him is the only option that is non-negotiable. Please, always feel free to give me any advice or opinions. I would appreciate it.

I think I know what you mean. Jounar lets me play with my friends as a way to fill a void that he just can't right now. And when we were first starting out we kinda based it on the idea that we would still live out side of this world that we had created for ourselves. As the first month went by he asked me why I don't find some one to take care of me here, my answer was no one would ever live up to what he means to me, so I wouldn't be happy with some one else. And I don't think it would be fair to some one else for me to hold him in such a high place in my heart and try to persue a relationship with them.

Well then I asked him the same, and he answered pretty much the same. Periodically the subject does come up, but not often. While we would each perfer to be together, in the same country even would be a bonus, we're content with how things are now. And I don't see that changing, tho hopefully the distance will eventually. *giggles*

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Oh, no... I respect your thoughts/views and appreciate them. I'm so grateful you kindly give them to me.

I try to be strong, but it is so hard. So tough that my chest tightens at the thought of our departing. I'm so scared beyond words about my heart after us separating, but I love him so much and he is my perfect counterpart as my D. that I will risk it. He assures me that he will be my Master as long as I'm happy with that choice. Also, that he will always be part of my life in the future when I decide to pursue my 24/7 Master as well either as great friend or Mentor once again my choice. He is trying to figure out the best route and giving me advice of what I should seek. That the choice is ours together, but my happiness is what he wants.

We both know that he can never be my 24/7... not even a slight possible chance and that is the way the universe works, I guess. We didn't know that our relationship was going to develop to what it is today. We both knew our limitations to our relationship. But, fate put me in his hands and I trust him completely. He can read me like a book and knows everything while fully accepting it.

He offered me the guidance I was seeking as a novice with tender patience, so I could grow and understand safely with his wisdom. We discovered that we were attached and want to explore the levels together. Master expressed that our relationship/bond was uncharted waters to him and something he never experienced with another Pet. I still can't believe he could say such an amazing thing about me and that he is also sort of discovering new things with me, too.

So, we are here and I truly treasure our stolen moments from our reality of the responsibilities we have outside our haven. I never felt so alive and more like myself. I adore him.

But, I'm a bit frighten that I may never feel as happy as I am now without him. But, I still have a lot to learn and grow.

So, yes it is a double-edged sword, so to speak. But, not loving him is the only option that is non-negotiable. Please, always feel free to give me any advice or opinions. I would appreciate it.

i'm glad you took my words as they were meant, and not that i was flaming you for your relationship, because i was honestly wasn't. i just put myself in your shoes, loving Master the way i do, i don't think i could 'leave' that relationship and find another to make me as happy as He does. when Master and i first started out, we weren't supposed to get 'serious' either, He was to be my Mentor, and help me on my journey through submission, but as you can see, it went way further than that. fate is funny that way isn't it? i'm glad your happiness is what matters to Him, and that He'll be there as long as you need Him to, though i also know eventually you will crave that 24/7 relationship. *sighs* a double edged sword indeed, but atleast you'll always have Him as 'something' Master is still very close to His first submissive. she taught Him to be the Dom He is today. not that He wasn't Dominant, but she brought it out of Him and taught Him alot. her and i are great friends as well. she's been my rock i don't know how many times, and even saved our relationship a couple of times. she still calls Him 'Daddy P' she is awesome and i wouldn't trade their relationship for nothing, i've never felt threatened by her at all, all she wants is happiness for Him and i both *smiles* anyway, ya don't have to worry about me giving you my opinions and advice, hehe i enjoy it, though i do try not to offend while giving them

 

[FurryFury]

it wouldn't let me do it bigger in my av..but here it is in it's original size

Thanks!

It's even better bigger where I can see details!

Fury

 

[catalina_francisco]

I just had to reply to this before I slip off to bed.

I wait. I wait alot and ya, sometimes it sucks but I wouldn't change it. I even changed my sleeping patterns to be with Him. I wait because He is worth it. Its my choice. I Love Him with every ounce of my being and there is little I wouldn't do to please Him.

I don't think I was ever alone. He was always there with me. When I wale up, when I go to class, when I was waiting for Him and when I close my eyes at night. Sometimes I only had Him for a half an hour but every second was life saving oxygen. Thus far I have no regrets and I doubt I ever will.

Personally, the waiting and the seperation...it all depends on if you love Him I think. And in my case it does. I need Him.

Yep, I changed when I slept and a lot of other things, and we spent nearly 24/7 in contact through some form of communication (lol, even when I went into hospital for surgery), but unlike you it wasn't enough for either of us and being together in the same house was the only option we considered worthy of our love. 4 1/2 years later we are both madly in love and certainly wouldn't change it to be long distance...even his business trips for a day or week, are too long for us to be apart. In hindsight I am glad we decided to forget about the details and just be together and sort it out from there as though I already thought life was too short to lose precious moments, it seems even more poignant now and every moment we breathe together are too few and the lost ones cannot be recaptured.

Catalina

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Yep, I changed when I slept and a lot of other things, and we spent nearly 24/7 in contact through some form of communication (lol, even when I went into hospital for surgery), but unlike you it wasn't enough for either of us and being together in the same house was the only option we considered worthy of our love. 4 1/2 years later we are both madly in love and certainly wouldn't change it to be long distance...even his business trips for a day or week, are too long for us to be apart. In hindsight I am glad we decided to forget about the details and just be together and sort it out from there as though I already thought life was too short to lose precious moments, it seems even more poignant now and every moment we breathe together are too few and the lost ones cannot be recaptured.

Catalina

I know where you are coming from Cat... I can't wait until rose and I are together 24-7....

The phone gets old.... and I have a crink in My neck from talking on it so much..

 

[SECRETDOM]

Our Collaring (part 4) – The Conclusion

STAGE IV
I moved across the room and sat in a chair. I told pet that she was to crawl to me. She bowed her head like a good puppyslut and crawled across the room to me.

When she was in front of me, I asked her to kneel and face me. I then discussed punishment and pleasure and what submission means to me.

We talked about spanking and some of the rules we had used for cyber-spanking (you would be impressed with how hard my pet can spank herself). I then explained to pet that I was going to spank her, not as punishment but because I desired it. She was asked to consent to this (as she was not truly my pet yet, I could not order her to accept it). She did so and laid herself across my lap.

Pet was then told to place her hand on her pussy and that she was not to cum. I began bringing my hand down on her ass in slow steady blows. She counted them and recited the things she was to recite as she was spanked.

Seeing her little ass turn pink under my touch was an incredible turn on for me. I could tell she was getting turned on as well as she was moaning, raising her ass for the next blow and pushing her hand against her sweet little sex. I reminded her that she was not allowed to cum and continued spanking through, I think, 30 swats.

When I was finished, I told pet to kneel at my feet and rest. We were both breathing heavily at that point and I needed to relax before the next state.

After a few minutes I rang the bell four times, and light the fourth candle on the altar. The light from the candles and her proximity to the altar allowed her to see her collar for the first time. I could see her looking at it with longing…

STAGE V
At this point I played a little trick (or I tried to anyway) on pet. I informed her that it was her turn to present me with a gift. I had hoped that pet would be flustered at this and I would have to lead her to presenting me with her body, but I underestimated her. She immediately offered her body to me as her gift and I began to take it.

I informed pet that she was to kneel in front of me. She was told to undo my pants and stroke my cock. She slowly undid the fly of my jeans and released my hard shaft. Her hands immediately wrapped around me and they felt amazingly soft and gentle on my hardness. After a few moments I accepted the gift of her hands.

She was then told to worship my cock with her mouth. She did so, sliding her soft wet lips around my hard shaft. She sucked me with passion and it was incredibly hard not to cum right then. I was becoming lost in the feelings, but I kept control and stopped her. I accepted the gift of her mouth.

I then told pet to lie on the bed, as I was going to claim her pussy. I reminded her that she was not to cum and I very gently entered her for the first time. I was in heaven. We were connected, we were one.

She clenched her tight pink pussy around my shaft and I nearly lost it. I had to stop after just a few strokes as I was very close to cumming. I accepted the gift of her pussy and told her to roll over onto her stomach.

Now it should be noted that until pet and I began our relationship, she had never had any experience with anal play. She was adverse to it for a long time, but gradually she began to show an interest in it. Prior to our meeting we had spent some time preparing her body for this. She spent time each week playing with her ass and was getting some enjoyment form inserting her finger inside this previously taboo place.

I knew that I was not going to be able to enter her anally with my cock so I spread her cute little cheeks and massaged and stroked her little rosebud. I planted a kiss there, applied some lubricant and then gently slid my finger inside her. I massaged her clitoris at the same time and then stopped. I accepted the gift of her ass. This gift I reserved it for my use and my use alone.

I then took pet into my arms and cuddled her, kissed her and told her that I loved her. I told her that she had offered me her body and her submission and I had accepted them. I reminded her that I would cherish these gifts as long as they were mine and that I desired nothing else in the world but her.

It was time for the final part of our ceremony.

I light the last white candle on the altar and rang the bell five times.

STAGE VI
I moved in front of the altar and asked pet to kneel before me. I then told her that the symbol of our love was before her and we were ready to complete the beginning of our journey together.

I asked her three questions. I asked her if she accepted my collar, if she accepted my dominance, and if she accepted and returned my love for her. She answered each question with, “Yes DaddySir” as I knew she would. We had hoped, planned, and discussed this for so long; there was no way that she would say no.

I looked at her for a long moment. She looked lovely, obedient, sexy and “owned”. It was clearly time to formalize that. I told her that this collar represented her giving herself to me: body, mind and soul and that once it was placed on her neck, she would be mine. Any other identities she had would be subservient to that role.

I then carefully and gently fastened Our Collar around her delicate throat and attached the leash to it. Pet moaned at this action, a moan of relief, of love, and of completion.

I tugged on her leash and had her stand beside me. We took one of the candles and lit the large black taper together, declaring our unity to each other. Our ceremony ended as it began with a kiss.


I hope you enjoyed reading this as much as I enjoyed writing it for you. Thanks for making me feel welcome.

As promised here is a picture of her collar:

http://uploader.chipszone.net/userfiles/1596/collar.jpg

 

[myinnerslut]

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[SECRETDOM]

you had me at puppyslut

seriously, very nice ceremony.. have you considered posting it as a story in and of its own right?

and lovely story

Thank you!

I had a feeling from your avatar that puppyslut might make you a little weak in the hindlegs

I have thought about posting it as a full story but I would need to discuss that with pet. It was OUR ceremony and I would want her consent.

 

[myinnerslut]

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[SECRETDOM]

right in one.
though i usually say "slutpuppy", not "puppyslut" so i had to read it twice to make sure iw as reading the right thing. to each thier own



if she wouldnt have a problem with it, it would make a great story.
does she post on lit?

slutpuppy, puppyslut, whichever, as long as she is on all fours like a little bitch, it is ok with me.


No she doesn't as of yet. I showed her this thread this evening and she enjoyed my summaries of our ceremony. I may ask her to join.

 

[myinnerslut]

slutpuppy, puppyslut, whichever, as long as she is on all fours like a little bitch, it is ok with me.

I like your reasoning