Disappointments................

[gottaBme]

dream weaver 11.......

Been there, done that too.....and not meaning this particular person I was ranting about, but in the past. The reason I think it hurt so much was there was no explaination given at the time.I give so much of myself personally in a relationship,that when it crumbles I am the type of person who needs to know "Why?" and when there is no answer given, you tend to go into the self doubt mode. Thinking, "Gee, what did "I" do?" When it takes two people communicating on the same level for any relationship to work. And that doesn't happen alot I find. Everyone seems to have a different agenda.I too,am one of those people who sees the good in everyone until hit upside the head enough times with bullshit. LOL I have even found myself having cynical thoughts about people I don't fully know.Something I never would have done in the past. But you get shit on enough and you start to see things a little less rosy?I am sorry for your pain at the moment and yeah you've probably heard "don't worry,you'll get over it", but you will.Time heals all wounds and hopefully wounds all heels.Hugs to you hon.

 

[Native Alien]

i completely understand and agreed with ya on this one gotta.

 

[gottaBme]

to Native

 

[bashfull]

Ya' know...

it appears that there has been some emotional pain caused to some really nice people. If anyone needs a hug or a shoulder, I offer mine.

Bash

 

[gottaBme]

bashful

ty you are so sweet

 

[bashfull]

you would be amazed bashful, you would truly be amazed.

as for that above description, i don't believe it for a second.

for ya.

Don't believe me? hmmmm. Which part?

 

[RomanHans]

I can't blame my disappointment on anyone but myself. I believed what I wanted to believe, heard what I wanted to hear, and leaned heavily on someone else to fix things that I really have to learn to fix myself. The let down was a painful one.

This medium is an odd one. Here, we have no choice but to trust that the person on the other keyboard is telling us the truth. Chances are good tho, that they will whitewash it some. Many of us do, to some extent, I think.

Meantime, I've found that I have some really wonderful friends here, men and women, that I can talk to, vent to, laugh with and who care about me and want good things for me, as I want for them.

There was my daily blurt. I'm going to bed now.

I think that there are two categories of posters--those who take the anonymity of an on-line forum to just be themselves and completely honest, and those who use it to adopt a completely different identity and (willfully or not) mislead others...and the 'twain will always be separate. You're right, tho, the big problem is finding what kind of poster you're talking to at any given point in time.

I personally am a member of the type of person who divides the world into two types of people

Roman

 

[Native Alien]

to bashful...any part of it actually...

to gotta

to Roman, okay i have to ask, what two types are those?

 

[RomanHans]

Well, you asked

to bashful...any part of it actually...

to gotta

to Roman, okay i have to ask, what two types are those?

The type of people who divide the world into two types of people...and those who don't.

Roman

 

[bashfull]

Re: bashful

ty you are so sweet

Hehe...which part? uh oh, did I say that out loud?

 

[gottaBme]

Roman.......

Well, there are the

Haves and have nots

the thinkers and the doers

the tops and bottoms

the meek and the wild

the optimists and the pessimists

etc,etc.........

 

[gottaBme]

Bashful.....

The kind thought part.........

 

[bashfull]

Re: Bashful.....

The kind thought part.........

~walking funny and holding jar of something behind his back~
Oh, sure...I knew that's what you meant, ma'am. Uh..pardon me, but does anyone know how to get honey out of pubic hair?

 

[gottaBme]

a few well placed licks?

Just a thought.........

 

[Native Alien]

look out she is on a roll here.

bashful you are too cute for your own good.

i am with there Roman, and i prefer the doers.

 

[bashfull]

Re: Re: Bashful.....

~walking funny and holding jar of something behind his back~
Oh, sure...I knew that's what you meant, ma'am. Uh..pardon me, but does anyone know how to get honey out of pubic hair?

Hey, now that I shaved (honey is damn difficult to wash out), my little wimpy looks bigger! Yippie!

 

[Gusty Wind]

Re: Ya' know...

*Greeting* !!!

:4 all the sexy ladies...

hmmm...men.....

 

[RomanHans]

Re: Roman.......

OK, just to screw around with ya ...

Well, there are the

Haves and have nots

...and the want-nots?

the thinkers and the doers

...and the be'ers? (No, not the BEERS)

the tops and bottoms

...and the switches?

the meek and the wild

...and the wild at heart?

the optimists and the pessimists

...and the pragmatists?

etc,etc.........

Count me as all of the above



Roman

 

[mayi]

Re: Re: Re: Bashful.....

Hey, now that I shaved (honey is damn difficult to wash out), my little wimpy looks bigger! Yippie!

thinking bashfull is just a little bigger then he lets on

 

[hypatia]

Hi GottaBme,
What a disappointment to find 'all talk, no action'. But, I'm another incurable optimist, you have to keep hoping that you will find someone real one day. It's quite true that this form of communication has some strange effects on the people at the keyboard! Mice even turn into men on occasion So good luck and keep looking.
p.s. see what I mean? reading over this it sounds a bit trite when it's meant to sound sympathetic.

 

[bashfull]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Bashful.....

thinking bashfull is just a little bigger then he lets on

It's all done with mirrors, ma'am. Well, mirrors and tequila.

 

[Native Alien]

somehow, me thinks NOT bashful. just show us a pic and end all doubt.

no, hypatia, that doesn't sound trite. and everything that you said is true.

Roman, whatever are we going to do with you, my friend?

 

[RomanHans]

somehow, me thinks NOT bashful. just show us a pic and end all doubt.

no, hypatia, that doesn't sound trite. and everything that you said is true.

Roman, whatever are we going to do with you, my friend?

I have a feeling you already know the answer to that question...

Roman

 

[Native Alien]

yes, i think that we do know exactly what to do with you, Roman.

maybe the wire whisk treatment would be in order.......

okay folks, another disappointment for ya'll to discuss, ( and this one really burns my butt), people who make dates and stand you up, without so much as a by your leave. they don't bother to mail, call, nothing. not only is it rude, but it makes one wonder what one has done wrong.

 

[mfs686]

I don't wonder....I get even.