Disappointments................

[gottaBme]

Ok, I know not all men are selfish pigs, but I just had an encounter with one. Why would a man spend a year and a half online of pm's,im's,pics,sexual innuendo and outright promises of the "best you'll ever have", to finally meet and after, oh, lasting 5 minutes into the fantastic head he was getting,which is fine, (most don't but can go again in a few right?)make a feeble attempt at best licking a clean,hygienically pleasant,beautifully shaven pussy(so no yukky hairs) for oh about 3 minutes and its like, that's it ,he has to get going.He actually thought I got off, I let him know I didn't in a nice way and can realize why he doesn't get many dates perhaps? Talk about a disappointment. LOL Now I am just more pissed than frustrated and needed to vent! Thanks Lit for providing that outlet

Any others have similar experiences/letdowns?Let me know so I can commiserate........

 

[mayi]

we must be meeting the same guys......

the ones who talk the line......but sure can't walk IT!!!

 

[Native Alien]

been there and done that one. maybe we should start listing screen names so we know who NOT to do. so you have my heartfelt sympathies.

the ones who "talk the talk, but can't walk the walk"

i got it, we need a dickless list.

 

[gottaBme]

yeah, must be LOL

They must be stopped lol

 

[venda]

You have to watch out for the guys that over-advertise!

It's us quiet silent types that really know what to do!

Hang in there, a new year is starting!

 

[Doc_Luv]

wow ladies,

Let me be the first to apologize for my fellow man (shame on him). Keep looking, the guys that love to give oral as much as recieving it are still here....

Doc (another quiet one) lol

 

[KHAN-E]

You have to watch out for the guys that over-advertise!

It's us quiet silent types that really know what to do!

Hang in there, a new year is starting!

Here's a "silent" guy bragging about his abilities! And check out his av.!! If he isn't "over-advertise"d I don't know who is!

 

[Native Alien]

I wish that all the quiet ones lived in Ohio. In about a 50 mile radius of me.

 

[mayi]

i wish all the talkers would just move away......but i seem to draw them like flies to a horse!!!

so when do the walkers arrive??

 

[curious2c]

If I were unnattached...well anyway...I am sorry that he was not 'into' oral as much as you would have liked. There are some men who love to perform orally and others who are at the other extreme.

My wife has shut me down on occasion due to my 'liking it too much' (Her words) ???

Anyway, I hope that you have better luck ladies. THere are men out there who love to orally please women. I know this to be true. Sometimes the search is justified when at long last you find that man.

 

[Ukin]

Ok, I know not all men are selfish pigs, but I just had an encounter with one. Why would a man spend a year and a half online of pm's,im's,pics,sexual innuendo and outright promises of the "best you'll ever have", to finally meet and after, oh, lasting 5 minutes into the fantastic head he was getting,which is fine, (most don't but can go again in a few right?)make a feeble attempt at best licking a clean,hygienically pleasant,beautifully shaven pussy(so no yukky hairs) for oh about 3 minutes and its like, that's it ,he has to get going.He actually thought I got off, I let him know I didn't in a nice way and can realize why he doesn't get many dates perhaps? Talk about a disappointment. LOL Now I am just more pissed than frustrated and needed to vent! Thanks Lit for providing that outlet

Any others have similar experiences/letdowns?Let me know so I can commiserate........

Geeeeez Gotta...what a sad, sad tale...and here is me, still a virgin in the USA, just waiting for the right one to come along. I promise - but you have heard this before I guess- longer than 5 minutes...and certainly longer than three minutes on the female. Maybe it's because I am older? Maybe it's because I love and adore the taste of the female juices.

IF you decide to venture that way again, may I wish you all the very best honey.

 

[Native Alien]

guys,

it wasn't just the oral that she was talking about. it was the fact that here was a guy that did the talking and couldn't deliver. i am sure that if you took a survey of women and that if they answered honestly...well, let us just say that the talkers far outweigh the walkers.

 

[crawler]

disappointments

how many times have u opened a whisper and read opening lines like "i wanna cum,fuck,spunk etc. up your ass".
these buffoons probably wouldnt have enough courage to ask u the time in real life let alone give u a line like they use on the net. the anonymity that a computer gives can make the shyest person brave. i think u must accept partial fault at your let down due to your own naivety in thinking it would work. forgive me if this sounds big headed but i would begin a conversation on line with a fem in exactly the same way i would converse if she was sat opposite me. i enjoy erotic chat online as do most i think. but this lack of manners, respect and common courtesy at the beginning of conversation (and it works both ways for both sexes) takes a shine off what could be great
i think your disappointment should not now be called a disappointment. think positive and tell yourself it was a valuable lesson/experience that would be put to good use if this situation arises again. p.s. im pissed as i write this so i hope u make sense of it and a little even helped tx. take it easy, keep chatting and make people earn your respect kev

 

[H'venlee]

Oh have I been there!

Lead you on....then drop you like a wet dishtowel.

Don't feel like you are the only one. We have all been through it with someone or another around here.

The internet gives us each a sense of freeness. We have no attachments...no worries. It is fine, until one makes it real.

Then things are not so fantastic...now they are real.

That is the scarey thought.

 

[~Dream~]

You have to watch out for the guys that over-advertise!

It's us quiet silent types that really know what to do!

Hang in there, a new year is starting!

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Oh yes I can GUARANTEE that it 's the Silent types that know what to do !!! mmmmm Dracoa is soo sweet and shy but as a lover He is a damn tiger mmmmm and he certainly had Me purring ... mybaby CAN and did most definately ' Walk the Walk ' mmm and I guess I am just 'lucky ?"

 

[TantaLiza]

Oh yeah... definitely been there... and got the tshirt... ~sigh~

Online and real life... either way, it's very disappointing... I don't like to be told how many times they'll "make me cum" then be thrown off as soon as they get theirs... I just want to tell them to shut up and do it!! lol

But then... I still remember the one or two that kept all their promises... now those are the ones I'll never forget.... *weg*


Happy New Year everyone... May you get yours this year!!

Liza

 

[gottaBme]

Crawler......

It started out as a very intellectual, intelligent conversation that led to sexual talk.I am not naive when it comes to men.It took him a year and a half to talk me into meeting him in person.If anything, I am guilty of being too optimistic maybe?When someone tells me something I am willing to give them the benefit of the doubt.I have no doubt my true friends respect me,I have done nothing wrong other than to take a chance on a situation I had no idea would turn bad, to me personally, he is like so ready to call me again "real soon". I think I will pass. LOL There is my self respect, as I have a "lesson learned" as you say and I always will look at the glass as half full.Just the idiot optimist I am.......

 

[gottaBme]

TantaLiza

Yes, there are the few and far between that keep me going..LOL

And not that I am the wanton sex godess that I play on t.v. lol but it is just the simple fact of reciprocity that should be a given.If you are too ignorant to even realize that it takes more than a lick on the outer lips to get a woman "off", if you'll excuse the crudity,you should keep your ass locked away at home where you are in no danger of misrepresenting the fantasy you led up to.

 

[gottaBme]

H'venlee....so true girl

and p.s. love your av

 

[Native Alien]

like ya'll said, now maybe we know why he has problems finding women that want a repeat performance. i don't mind the quiet, shy ones, or the smartasses either for that matter. as long as they know what they are doing, i am a happy camper.

it is the ones that do all the talking and don't have a clue that really just tick me off.

 

[Woodmiester]

I wish that all the quiet ones lived in Ohio. In about a 50 mile radius of me.

Where would "of me" be?

 

[Woodmiester]

... "lasting 5 minutes into the fantastic head he was getting,which is fine, (most don't but can go again in a few right?)"..... "make a feeble attempt at best licking a clean,hygienically pleasant,beautifully shaven pussy(so no yukky hairs) for oh about 3 minutes and its like, that's it ,he has to get going." ...

Sorry you found your time wasted but as you said, not all men are like that, just like not all women who tell you they'll give you the most earth shattering blowjob of your life and then make you wish you'd just kept walking and passed her by....

3 minutes? Now that is really sad so whoever you are Mr 3 min guy, please stop being an egg

 

[Native Alien]

check your pms Woodmeister and find out.

 

[Georgia Girl]

Whether here or over in chat, if someone tries to start a conversation with "I'm gonna fuck you til you scream" or some other line of bull I have found it quite helpful to point out that most conversations begin with "hello".

Like Liza, I have the shirt too, I've witnessed the duds who had all the right words and bravado online but face to face they did good to string 4 words together into an intelligible sentence.

Pardon me, ya'll got me on a role here and now I'm venting.

I'll get off my soapbox and go sit quietly in the corner.

I hope it gets better for everyone.

Dawn

 

[kikmosa]

At least you didn't get the "Your a beautiful woman that any man would be lucky to get" line right before he locked himself in his room because you asked for a kiss.