Degrading and Filthy Talk

[ThatGeekyGirl]

I LOVE dirty talk, it's actually probably one of my biggest turn-ons. I'm also into repeating what a big-tittled slut, fucktoy, cock-craving whore I am too... it just tickles something in my brain.

 

[leomasoch]

Talking dirty

Dirty talk calling me names what I crave for

When my Mistress wants oral attention, she yells for me in wonderfully dirty-talk way. "Cunt-slave, come here at once. I need your tongue!"

Leo Masoch

 

[fl_openminded]

Any subs like being degraded with words or talked to like a slut and being told what to do?? Share your experience or love for filthy talk if possible...super turn on being a dominant man...also available for messaging if you are too shy to talk about it in this thread...good morning to you all

Definitely no to degrading. That would just make me angry but everything else I am not sure. Never tried it

 

[Young19sub]

I love being humiliated. Remind me where I belong.

 

[sub_aussie_male]

1000% yes

absolutely, but i agree with a few comments, Right person and time really does matter

 

[Digstink]

My wife and me like the filthiest talk. The dirtier I get with my words, the more she cums. And the more she craves to do them.

 

[Cumlover999]

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[Lothario1956]

Until recently I didn't even know I liked it, but then when He started I couldn't get enough, and I cum like crazy!!
I have no fucking clue why but being called a slutty worthless cum dumpster is just an instant turn on.
But I do agree with what most of you have said, has to be the right guy
And I have to know that he loves me for being all those things

and fuck do I love doing it - SUCH a turn on!!

 

[KBelle1104]

A huge turn on- especially from my DD. He knows how to push my buttons.

Slut, bitch, fucktoy, whore. Yes let me have it.

 

[Jaaarsh]

Awesome discovery

When we discovered how much she liked dirty talk it really elevated our enjoyment and it’s never been the same since. We had been drinking and both were horny, I let it slip while I was pounding her, I called her my dirty little slut and almost immediately she was quivering in orgasm saying thank you. A wonderful discovery that adds some terrific spice in between the sheets.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

I’m a verbal person, and for me, dominating talk is the linguistic equivalent of pushing her head into the mattress. It’s a way to push her down, psychologically. Really, it gets at the heart of D/s. Just as many people don’t find satisfaction in being pushed down - below - physically, others (and yeah, mostly overlap) don’t enjoy being subjugated with words.

 

[Cindy69love]

When we discovered how much she liked dirty talk it really elevated our enjoyment and it’s never been the same since. We had been drinking and both were horny, I let it slip while I was pounding her, I called her my dirty little slut and almost immediately she was quivering in orgasm saying thank you. A wonderful discovery that adds some terrific spice in between the sheets.

That's exactly how it happened for my husband and I. Now it's part of our sex life. It's gone a bit further but that would be a different thread.....lol

 

[TheBrat42]

I agree with so many, it takes the right guy for it to work. That, and for me we have learned there is a difference when He calls me a cum loving whore and His cum loving whore. For me, that possessiveness is part of the turn on besides the dirty name calling. I don’t want to just be a slut, a whore etc but I want to be His.

 

[cuckoldbill]

i love it when my wife/cuckoldress humiliates me. Calling me a worthless, cum loving, cocking sucking sissy is her just warming up. Gets my little cock twitching

 

[TraineeWife]

"Worthless fuckmeat" here

That nickname might answer the question... I get a lot from being insulted in sexual contexts. I get wet even from rude messages from strangers, and when it's actually during sex it sends me wild.

 

[Threadbare42]

I don’t think I’m good at talking dirty..but I love it when a man calls me dirty filthy names and makes me repeat it and then calls me a good girl if I say it right or spanks me if I say it wrong..and of course I say it wrong to get the hard spanks

Messing up and being punished is all part of the fun right? If I was feeling particularly cruel I would deliberately catch the sub out on some technicality, for instance "you said it too quickly" or "not loud enough", as an excuse for the spanks

 

[AnnieLit]

I agree with all of this. I'd add that dirty talk may or may not be considered degrading to different people. At what point does something become degradation? Is it when it includes embarrassment or something else?

^^^ that ^^^

You can talk dirty to me all you want and I will love it, but I don't see anything degrading about it. If we got to the point where it is even possible, it means that you actually like me. No matter what you say during sex, I am not going to forget that. Never been called a whore, but I don't view "slut" as an insult, sometimes I can call myself by that word and not because I was prompted by Him to do so. What else are you supposed to call a hungry for sex woman? Maybe my English is failing me, but I don't know any other appropriate words for that.

 

[SomeJohn]

I've been chatting on Kik a bit recently with a couple of women, separately, who both enjoy degeneration and I'm realising how much I enjoy it. I've always called my lovers "slut" but never really taken it further. My wife prefers to be called "minx" but I've been developing my dirty talk with her too.

 

[subsummer]

Bye now

 

[subsummer]

Bye now

 

[Thatdurtydawg]

I suppose it it similar to forcing her to repeat it, but my preference is to ask a question.
For example, "Tell me, my filthy fucking slut! Whose pussy is this?"
No matter how loudly she says, "This pussy is yours!", I reply in a sing-song voice,
"I can't hear you!", then I repeat, "Whose pussy is this?"
She will scream "THIS PUSSY IS YOURS!"


Ladies want to be desired.
Dirty talk is a way to make a lady feel desired.
Make sure the lady understands that she creates pure animal lust inside you.


I don't just want pussy, I want your pussy.
What I want is to use you like a hot fucktoy, make you cum, then pump you full of my hot cum.

 

[Thatdurtydawg]

I've been chatting on Kik a bit recently with a couple of women, separately, who both enjoy degeneration and I'm realising how much I enjoy it. I've always called my lovers "slut" but never really taken it further. My wife prefers to be called "minx" but I've been developing my dirty talk with her too.

I always ask if there are certain words to be avoided.
Some ladies hate the word cunt, others hate the word whore.
Killing the mood by using a word that offends a lady is counterproductive,
so I will ask if any words are off limits.

 

[Ashesh9]

So I'm curious. Being called degrading names is one thing, but what about being made to repeat? One of my favourite things is to have a sub repeat a mantra back to me like "I am a fucktoy, I love to be fucked because I am a whore..." etc.

Any others find that twist enticing?

Yes i love making my sub repeat degrading verse/mantra!!!

 

[seela]

I always ask if there are certain words to be avoided.
Some ladies hate the word cunt, others hate the word whore.
Killing the mood by using a word that offends a lady is counterproductive,
so I will ask if any words are off limits.

This is a good idea! If you have trigger words, it's important to communicate them even if you're not specifically asked about your trigger words. It's one aspect of negotiating limits, but I think one that many might forget. It's not always so easy, though.

At least for me, it's all about who says what and when. My limits with most people would cover certain topics rather than certain words that are generally considered degrading or filthy. Then, with some other people, those same topics are fair play. And there's one particular thing that either gets me really hot and bothered or completely turns me off depending on the day. Not to mention that it's easy to say things on the heat of the moment that you never really prepared for.

I'm pretty laid back about things like this and also enjoy degradation more than many other people. I can't remember any time when degradation gone momentarily bad would have ruined the entire thing, rather me and my partners have been able to adapt one way or another.

I think I need to know deep down that the degrading comments especially about certain insecurities of mine come from a positive place even if it doesn't feel like that right when it's happening.

 

[Curiousukgirl02]

This is one of my biggest turn ons with my lesbian fantasies. Being degraded through name calling and dirty talk, makes me feel worthless. Slut, whore, desperate, filthy, disgusting. The nastier the better!