Degrading and Filthy Talk

[WannabeMontrealSlut]

Dirty talk is always a turn on

 

[Uksubgirl]

This is a huge turn on for me when done right and a huge turn off when done wrong.

There are certain words that I hate, the C word being one of them but also whore, so they are a no no, however, if im really really in the heat of the moment and deep in sub space, they become ok for me, its weird but thats how it is.

Also degradation has to start correctly for me too, perhaps correctly is the wrong word, but guys hitting on me via PM calling me a slut, is not going to light my fire , even though being called a slut is hot for me. Start by talking go me, show some time and patience before you walk me down that track, when you do it will be better for both of us.

As for things that degrade me, link them to my real life, my insecurities, my values, what I hold dear and it will be a huge success, get to know me, use what you find out to degrade me (I'm not going to give away everything here
But the sort of thing im talking about is, I hold my Dad's opinion of me highly, so that could be used in a "what would your Dad say if he knew you were coming on sites like this" and take that particular line of degradation from there) Degradation sessions that almost leave mental scars are so intense but it needs to be built up to.

When it comes to repeating mantras or degrading comments about myself tthats a real hit again, once you have me warmed up.

Basically the more turned on I am, the more shame and degradation I crave, and I crave it being more and more nasty. Just don't think starting out calling me a perverted slut is the way to go.

 

[KuriousKatUK]

This is a huge turn on for me when done right and a huge turn off when done wrong.

There are certain words that I hate, the C word being one of them but also whore, so they are a no no, however, if im really really in the heat of the moment and deep in sub space, they become ok for me, its weird but thats how it is.

Also degradation has to start correctly for me too, perhaps correctly is the wrong word, but guys hitting on me via PM calling me a slut, is not going to light my fire , even though being called a slut is hot for me. Start by talking go me, show some time and patience before you walk me down that track, when you do it will be better for both of us.

As for things that degrade me, link them to my real life, my insecurities, my values, what I hold dear and it will be a huge success, get to know me, use what you find out to degrade me (I'm not going to give away everything here
But the sort of thing im talking about is, I hold my Dad's opinion of me highly, so that could be used in a "what would your Dad say if he knew you were coming on sites like this" and take that particular line of degradation from there) Degradation sessions that almost leave mental scars are so intense but it needs to be built up to.

When it comes to repeating mantras or degrading comments about myself tthats a real hit again, once you have me warmed up.

Basically the more turned on I am, the more shame and degradation I crave, and I crave it being more and more nasty. Just don't think starting out calling me a perverted slut is the way to go.

I'm very similar. Terms that I'd usually consider totally vulgar all of a sudden become more acceptable as I become more turned on.

Like you say though... don't go calling me a 'filthy whore' or suchlike until I'm suitably warmed up though. At the start of a scene that sort of language does nothing for me, but once i've found the right subby mindset it'll have me dripping...

 

[SomeJohn]

Getting deeper

I've been chatting on Kik a bit recently with a couple of women, separately, who both enjoy degeneration and I'm realising how much I enjoy it. I've always called my lovers "slut" but never really taken it further. My wife prefers to be called "minx" but I've been developing my dirty talk with her too.

I've found a Kik partner who really likes degregation, and I am really enjoying continuing to explore this.

We spoke early on about limits and forbidden words. She said that she likes it all, and it certainly seems to be true so far.

I did make a little misstep one day of calling her eager or overeager when she didn't realise I was playing, and she pulled back, but I apologized and we quickly reconciled.

We are looking to do more stuff around getting her to repeat me, but I am looking for ways to improve my degradation game.

What are your favourite phrases or techniques around degrading dirty talk?

 

[ThePhun1]

Any subs like being degraded with words or talked to like a slut and being told what to do?? Share your experience or love for filthy talk if possible...super turn on being a dominant man...also available for messaging if you are too shy to talk about it in this thread...good morning to you all

My first experience with my Dom was her commuting over to my house telling me I should greet her naked she came in put her arm around me started to pinch and pull my nipples telling me I was going to be her good little slut when I became erect she began to fondle me telling me to stand still all the while telling me only slurs would get hard from having their nipples pinched and pulled
Unfortunately she met a drunk driver I greatly miss her whispering in my ear how is my dirty little slut today?

 

[ThePhun1]

This is a huge turn on for me when done right and a huge turn off when done wrong.

There are certain words that I hate, the C word being one of them but also whore, so they are a no no, however, if im really really in the heat of the moment and deep in sub space, they become ok for me, its weird but thats how it is.

Also degradation has to start correctly for me too, perhaps correctly is the wrong word, but guys hitting on me via PM calling me a slut, is not going to light my fire , even though being called a slut is hot for me. Start by talking go me, show some time and patience before you walk me down that track, when you do it will be better for both of us.

As for things that degrade me, link them to my real life, my insecurities, my values, what I hold dear and it will be a huge success, get to know me, use what you find out to degrade me (I'm not going to give away everything here
But the sort of thing im talking about is, I hold my Dad's opinion of me highly, so that could be used in a "what would your Dad say if he knew you were coming on sites like this" and take that particular line of degradation from there) Degradation sessions that almost leave mental scars are so intense but it needs to be built up to.

When it comes to repeating mantras or degrading comments about myself tthats a real hit again, once you have me warmed up.

Basically the more turned on I am, the more shame and degradation I crave, and I crave it being more and more nasty. Just don't think starting out calling me a perverted slut is the way to go.

We all need to remember we are all just a little bit different that is what makes us humans what excites one, of us can be the biggest turn off for others
Listen carefully and be enlightened

 

[Funnbrandy]

Slut

The word slut is a trigger word for me, I absolutely love being called the word slut during sex in a slightly degrading way...... took my boyfriend a while to get comfortable using it but now he wields it perfectly, lol, I have no idea why, but it gets me going!

 

[Saintdragonslayer]

A qualified "YES! ABSOLUTELY!!"

|From my husband, a full on yes please!! However it has to come from someone I trust fully and know the source of what they are saying.

I love it when my husband tells me dirty, degrading, humiliating things, and I love talking dirty and nasty to him, however, I know regardless of how deep into my psyche he gets and how demeaning and humiliated he makes me feel, in the end he loves me and respects me. I hope that makes sense

Makes total sense to me. People who spend their lives with each other and reach this level of intimacy... Got total respect for that. I want to call my wife so many dirty names when we have sex, but she is totally vanilla about this. To me it is not about being degrading. The odd time I have let loose and called her names is a compliment! I only wish she would take it in the spirit it was intended. You are lucky to have a partner who will call you a filthy name in the throes of passion, but would still take a bullet for you! Respect!