Daddy's Little Girl: Second Edition

[cascadiabound]

This is such a lovely thread to read through! It makes my babygirl side squirm with delight hehe - stable and supportive relationships tick all my boxes

Welcome peachyknott

 

[Lost_Yonder]

This is such a lovely thread to read through! It makes my babygirl side squirm with delight hehe - stable and supportive relationships tick all my boxes

Welcome to this delightful little corner of Lit. Hope you are enjoying your journey...

LY

 

[peachyknott]

Welcome to this delightful little corner of Lit. Hope you are enjoying your journey...

LY

Welcome peachyknott

Hehe, thank you both so much!!

 

[Smoothshavendad]

This is such a lovely thread to read through! It makes my babygirl side squirm with delight hehe - stable and supportive relationships tick all my boxes

Welcome! Enjoy your stay.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Good morning, everyone! Welcome, peachyknott.

I just wanted to stop in to this thread and answer this post from LY.

After ending my marriage, I started to meet DD and Ds here and other places. At the time, even the ones who were just friends, saw that I needed something very important, other than the comfort and safe places they provided. Self confidence. Maybe, more specifically, confidence or a backbone for my ex.

One in particular (not a Litster) wouldn't be sympathetic to me after I had a run-in with the ex. He wanted me to be able to stand on my own two feet and not take his sh**. I remember practicing how to say "fuck you" in a convincing manner (got to love those Brits! ). He also helped me get organized in those first months in my own house in a new state. I'm a procrastinator, so a diary of all the things I need to do outside of homeschooling was a game changer.
Keeping up and simply asking if I'm adding to it, keeping track, doing things without getting into my business was PERFECT. I loved how he was determined to help me not NEED a man. I can still hear his voice though it's been years.

My first Lit DD had a hand in me expanding my literature reading. I have read genre I would have never touched, stories and authors I would have never discovered if not for my required reading. This was something I asked him for, and he was gracious and willing.

Just_e... what can I say about him? This man helps me grow just by being himself. Loving, compassionate, hilariously funny. He's my soulmate, my best friend. The one thing he helps me with is thinking outside the box. He's in every aspect of my life, and when I am exasperated trying to teach something to my children, he comes up with ideas for projects to help with math and science. His gentle guidance is more of "coming alongside" not a "do this" and it helps me to think clearly and plan better.

I'll end it there, else I'll be gushing over him.

I've been wondering, so much attention on the DD/lg relationship is focused on the being: being safe, being wanted, being comfortable. But what about becoming - what are the best ways for a DD to foster and enable, to mentor and guide a lg into growing and transforming herself?

Though I am not involved with a lg now, in my previous relationship there was a significant age difference that also allowed for a more natural sense of supporting and guiding her personal growth, her education, her career path, etc. I know that is not as normal, yet we are all always in phases of growth (ideally at least )

For lgs, what do you find most effective from your DD for your becoming something more, of transforming, of changing some of your more negative behavior patterns, of 're-tooling' yourself to be better? And not just a better lg, but in advancing your career, or improving your lifestyle, or other interpersonal relationships...

And of course, finding time for pillow fights too!

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[HeavyBalls]

*passes out cookies and ice cream

 

[Lost_Yonder]

thank you bfg for stopping by and sharing!

Sounds like you connected with the right people at the right time. I've heard a number of less pleasant experiences in the past, of DDs not fully understanding or appreciating the needs of a little. Being able to listen to the unspoken is so important, for misreading and then misguiding a little can be so disastrous for them...

Hope everything is getting on track for you.

LY

 

[barefootgirl69]

thank you bfg for stopping by and sharing!

Sounds like you connected with the right people at the right time. I've heard a number of less pleasant experiences in the past, of DDs not fully understanding or appreciating the needs of a little. Being able to listen to the unspoken is so important, for misreading and then misguiding a little can be so disastrous for them...

Hope everything is getting on track for you.

LY

I think it's important for two people to get to know each other a bit before embarking on this dynamic together. You're more informed about what the other needs and you can figure out if that's what you can offer, if you're available for those needs. Whether you fit. Of course, there are always fluid moments in a relationship and things need to be reevaluated.

Misreading or misguiding someone can be emotionally devastating. I would be thinking "didn't you pay attention, didn't you care?" But, I also realize that Doms aren't perfect and we work together and you cut them some slack. I'm learning this in my situation.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

anticipa-a-a-ation...

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[barefootgirl69]

Everyone must be outside making snowmen

 

[Lost_Yonder]

Everyone must be outside making snowmen

down pouting rain in my part of the world! Perfect evening for sitting in front of the fire...

Hope everyone is staying warm, and safe!

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[INeedLove]

Hi everyone. I think there are a lot of single littles on the thread. What are some of your coping mechanisms when you are feeling lonely for a daddy?

I have two---1) heated blankets and 2) weighted blankets. Wrapping up in them are a comfort at night

 

[Lost_Yonder]

Hi everyone. I think there are a lot of single littles on the thread. What are some of your coping mechanisms when you are feeling lonely for a daddy?

I have two---1) heated blankets and 2) weighted blankets. Wrapping up in them are a comfort at night

Hope you are staying warm!

Those who are single, littles or Daddies, have a tough time making up for the lack of intimacy which sharing is so integral to our very being! Some of us aren't "single" but are alone, are without a Daddy or a little to snuggle with and cuddle with and build cushion forts with and have pillow fights with. That vacuum is even more troubling when we open our eyes and see ourselves, for whatever reason, with another who doesn't come close to fulfilling those needs, that innate desire to be in a DD/lg relationship...

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

For the ladies:

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5bbffc24958be

 

[elizabeth191]

Hi everyone. I think there are a lot of single littles on the thread. What are some of your coping mechanisms when you are feeling lonely for a daddy?

I have two---1) heated blankets and 2) weighted blankets. Wrapping up in them are a comfort at night

While I do have a Daddy, we're long distance and sometimes I get lonely (missing things like in person hugs and like LY said, pillow fights )

I've heard about weighted blankets but haven't tried one. Are they very different than say, a down comforter?

 

[INeedLove]

While I do have a Daddy, we're long distance and sometimes I get lonely (missing things like in person hugs and like LY said, pillow fights )

I've heard about weighted blankets but haven't tried one. Are they very different than say, a down comforter?

Sorry. I should have included everyone who can't be with their sweet ones too. Long distance relationships are hard for that too.

My blanket is sort of like a big bean bag (instead of down fillled). At first hearing the stuffing moving around distracted me but now I'm totally used to it. I'm quite partial to mine now.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Hi everyone. I think there are a lot of single littles on the thread. What are some of your coping mechanisms when you are feeling lonely for a daddy?

I have two---1) heated blankets and 2) weighted blankets. Wrapping up in them are a comfort at night

Blankets are always a comfort for me. I read up on weighted blankets today, and I like the idea! I'm cannot sleep without a quilt, even in the middle of summer. The weight helps me...so, I like your idea!!!

For the ladies:

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5bbffc24958be

You're such a lovely perv! Do you listen to Daddy ASMR on YouTube? *whispers* I do when I am having trouble relaxing.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

You're such a lovely perv! Do you listen to Daddy ASMR on YouTube? *whispers* I do when I am having trouble relaxing.

Hehe I'm feeling very little today. (Adulting can be so tiresome. )

I don't know who that is! *whispers* I'll go check him out.

 

[Cthulhu1138]

For the ladies:

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5bbffc24958be

Glad to see that my recommendation helped!

I enjoy this thread even though I seem to be rubbish at being a Daddy.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Hehe I'm feeling very little today. (Adulting can be so tiresome. )

I don't know who that is! *whispers* I'll go check him out.

I'll wait for a detailed report!

Glad to see that my recommendation helped!

I enjoy this thread even though I seem to be rubbish at being a Daddy.

Hi! So, what else do you have up your sleeve?

You’re popping up a lot lately! Good to see you on another thread I enjoy

Why do you think you’re rubbish as a Daddy?

Hi, Shy! That's a good question! Let's put him over there *points* on the couch and play "therapy". Do you need a pencil and a note pad? I always have extra!

CTHULHU... just relax. This won't hurt a bit!

 

[Cthulhu1138]

Hope that popping up is not a problem

A smart man listens to feedback positive and negative

Especially the negative.

Playing 'doctor' is fun. Not sure about therapy though....

I may have to skate on my Ryan Creamer recommendation for some time. I need to remain mysterious

 

[barefootgirl69]

Hope that popping up is not a problem

A smart man listens to feedback positive and negative

Especially the negative.

Playing 'doctor' is fun. Not sure about therapy though....

I may have to skate on my Ryan Creamer recommendation for some time. I need to remain mysterious

Of course it isn't a problem! Did you bring cookies?

Hey BFG!
Fancy a cup of tea while we delve into cthulhu’s psyche?

You can take notes, I just wanna stroke his hair and use soft tones - that usually gets me what I need

Yes, please! I would love one.
I'll take notes on how to stroke his hair!

 

[HeavyBalls]

*delivers cookies*

 

[barefootgirl69]

BFG - Decaf or regular? I’ve got peach tranquility, chai, and earl grey!
From the looks of his AV there’s plenty of hair to stroke, chest hair counts!


Cthuluhu our therapy is gentle not invasive! Only share if you want

And to answer the earlier sentiment, popping is definitely not a problem!

Chai sounds nice.

I hope I didn't scare him off.

 

[barefootgirl69]

*delivers cookies*

Woo hoo! How timely. Thank you HB!
Did you make these yourself?