Bunny's Stuffie Corner

[BiBunny]

It’s always a good reminder they none of us are one thing.

Yep, this is definitely true!

I've been thinking about it, and the conclusion that I came to is it's the difference between wanting to be controlled and wanting to serve.

I don't really like to be controlled so much. Obviously, there's some amount of control in play, but I like a fairly long leash. I used to love to do things like do my exes' laundry, bathe them in the shower, and massage their feet. Things like orgasm control and being told how to dress and wearing a plug while doing chores? Not so much.

I enjoy service. But I want enough freedom to accomplish whatever service that's assigned to me in my own way. Let me love my Daddy. Let me take care of him. Let me make his life easier. Let me make him a god among men.

Of course, I've told him this, too, and gotten nothing, so maybe this approach is not appreciated by dominants.

 

[Purple_Fronds]

I think it’s a different side of the same coin, there’s lots of different ways to be dominant, it might not be his thing but doesn’t mean it wouldn’t be somebody else’s. The fact is that being a sub whose focus is on service but is independent can be a relieve to somebody that enjoys the control and the care for their sub but enjoys somebody who has a sense of themselves.