Daddy's Little Girl: Second Edition

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You win the grand prize :rose:

It is from northeastern India and the craze du jour... though I'll stick with heavy black tea with mint or espresso...

I love making my own mint tea. I love mint in lemonade, too. And mint with my lamb. I even just eat a piece of mint. :eek:

Mint is good. :D
 
I love that photo, looks so comforting.

I haven’t been read to in years, its so soothing

Yes, it is. It's been a long time since a friend has pulled out that chapter book he was reading to me. I miss that, but life intruded. I wonder if I should ask for it.
 
Leaves out cookies and hot chocolate and grabs a blanket to wait out the next snow storm.


I’m so over this winter

We had a beautiful week here, up in the 70s. But, storms are coming through bringing the temps down. I know that doesn't sound bad compared to 30° somewhere, but I sure wish spring would get here. I enjoyed being out without a sweater!

There's some more blankies in the closet, next to the coloring books.
 
Hello!
I’m new on here
I’m a Little always have known I am since I explored this with my ex. Met a Daddy recently who really let me down but I realised I’m ready for a Daddy again.
PM if anyone would like to chat I’m UK based so would prefer if you were too for time difference perposes

(sorry if this is in the wrong place please move if necessary)
 
Hello!
I’m new on here
I’m a Little always have known I am since I explored this with my ex. Met a Daddy recently who really let me down but I realised I’m ready for a Daddy again.
PM if anyone would like to chat I’m UK based so would prefer if you were too for time difference perposes

(sorry if this is in the wrong place please move if necessary)

Welcome, little lady. You are right where you belong.
 
Hello!
I’m new on here
I’m a Little always have known I am since I explored this with my ex. Met a Daddy recently who really let me down but I realised I’m ready for a Daddy again.
PM if anyone would like to chat I’m UK based so would prefer if you were too for time difference perposes

(sorry if this is in the wrong place please move if necessary)

Welcome. This thread is for littles primarily and daddies too, a safe place to talk and learn and share. While folks have made connections through this thread, it is NOT a *hookup* thread. I suggest you beware of any daddy who only wants to interact with you in private.

I'm so sorry you had someone let you down. Any lessons you feel like you want to share? Things you learned or you know you are going to do differently next time?

There is lots of good resources sprinkled through this thread, and folks who are here to offer support and help.

Good luck as you dip youur toes in again! :rose:

cb
 
some daddy traits to look for...

Responsibility—that’s crucial,
empathy,
a huge emphasis on effective and sensitive communication,
draws you into their calm,
a strong ethical code that they actually live by,
compatibility of personality, views on D/s, and needs (before kinks or sexy stuff),
strong problem solving skills and a tendency to deploy them when needed
intellectual curiosity,
the tendency to deal with mistakes and failures with grace and compassion (both of others and their own),
a need to nurture,
a sense of humor,
a commitment to prioritizing you and your dynamic,
strength of character,
a tendency to ego-check themselves before they wreck themselves,
respect for subs in general (in practice—not just lip-service),
and a focus on the non sexual aspects of D/s even if you desperately just wanna get rawed, because most people will be up for that, but it takes a special breed to actually get fulfillment from doing the wolf shit.
 
That's a very good checklist, cb :rose:

I was going through it myself. What is "intellectual curiosity"?
 
Responsibility—that’s crucial,
empathy,
a huge emphasis on effective and sensitive communication,
draws you into their calm,
a strong ethical code that they actually live by,
compatibility of personality, views on D/s, and needs (before kinks or sexy stuff),
strong problem solving skills and a tendency to deploy them when needed
intellectual curiosity,
the tendency to deal with mistakes and failures with grace and compassion (both of others and their own),
a need to nurture,
a sense of humor,
a commitment to prioritizing you and your dynamic,
strength of character,
a tendency to ego-check themselves before they wreck themselves,
respect for subs in general (in practice—not just lip-service),
and a focus on the non sexual aspects of D/s even if you desperately just wanna get rawed, because most people will be up for that, but it takes a special breed to actually get fulfillment from doing the wolf shit.

This was one of the sexiest things that a woman on Lit has ever posted. Thank you
 
I’m not the least bit angry. I love that those qualities are important to her. I fall short, but they matter to me too.

*grinning* did you accidentally put the angry face at the top of your post, then? (I'm so confused!)None of us are perfect, we can only strive to be better, I think.

Keep an eye on your mailbox....:D

It's not going anywhere, we staked it to the ground! :p
This is the DS I've missed. I'm glad you're back, my friend!
 
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