Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

Hi everyone
A question for the /lg's if no one minds.

How do you soothe your little side when you have to be big? When you're the one in charge and making the decisions but your soul is aching for you to let go.
I find it hard to balance them and wondered how you all manage?
I'm going to be honest... I listen to a lot of music from my teen/young adult years, I smoke a lot of THC, occasionally drink, write, draw,..
That soothes me.
I get it it about adult life.. it's a challenge.. I never knew I needed to escape it until after I became a widow/single parent.. then I checked out of adulting.
Breathing, remembering that we can't control it all... All ways I try to soothe myself...
 
I'm going to be honest... I listen to a lot of music from my teen/young adult years, I smoke a lot of THC, occasionally drink, write, draw,..
That soothes me.
I get it it about adult life.. it's a challenge.. I never knew I needed to escape it until after I became a widow/single parent.. then I checked out of adulting.
Breathing, remembering that we can't control it all... All ways I try to soothe myself...
Thank you for being so honest and I'm so sorry for the struggles you have 💚
 
Hi everyone
A question for the /lg's if no one minds.

How do you soothe your little side when you have to be big? When you're the one in charge and making the decisions but your soul is aching for you to let go.
I find it hard to balance them and wondered how you all manage?
Headphones and music help so much (for me it’s 90s/00s pop - Britney, s club 7, Christina, BSB, etc or Disney Instrumentals)

Also for some reason lollipops do as well.
I have a tub of them at the office for this reason.

Compartmentalizing comes into play a ton as well and positive self talk, reminding myself that soon I can let go.
 
Headphones and music help so much (for me it’s 90s/00s pop - Britney, s club 7, Christina, BSB, etc or Disney Instrumentals)

Also for some reason lollipops do as well.
I have a tub of them at the office for this reason.

Compartmentalizing comes into play a ton as well and positive self talk, reminding myself that soon I can let go.
They all seem like great ideas.
Have to admit, my spirits are always lifted after blasting my favourite music.
To do lists with fun rewards so I can see I'm getting closer to getting what I need also help even though I'm far too disorganised to do that regularly 😳😂
 
They all seem like great ideas.
Have to admit, my spirits are always lifted after blasting my favourite music.
To do lists with fun rewards so I can see I'm getting closer to getting what I need also help even though I'm far too disorganised to do that regularly 😳😂
I can do agree on the disorganization bit!
To do lists are a blessing.
I use the tasks google app :)
 
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