Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

[SnowIris]

A long(good) day today! Got up on time, treated myself to McDonald’s for breakfast, crafting time, went to the park for a walk, video games with my brother for his birthday and now laying in bed chatting with Him before bed

These are the kind of days I can get used to easily, but they don’t happen nearly enough

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Hi everyone. Sending hope for a good day to you all.
I woke up with a headache so I'm being very gentle with myself until it passes.

 

[Fl_maledad]

To feel safe and secure is a great feeling every LG should experience! Have a great day!

 

[barefootgirl69]

Hi everyone. Sending hope for a good day to you all.
I woke up with a headache so I'm being very gentle with myself until it passes.

I hope you're starting to feel better, Tulip.

 

[barefootgirl69]

To feel safe and secure is a great feeling every LG should experience! Have a great day!

That's why we are watchful and try to keep this safe for us. Good Morning!

 

[Fl_maledad]

That's why we are watchful and try to keep this safe for us. Good Morning!

And you do a wonderful job!

 

[RosewoodTulip]

I hope you're starting to feel better, Tulip.

Thank you
It seems to be here for the day unfortunately but it'll go eventually

 

[Fl_maledad]

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[Ingenue844]

This one because I think of a Daddy as a Protector

 

[RosewoodTulip]

The beginning of this, the wolf with the red roses is a good one.
"Will he starve without me and does he love me"

 

[Canbe4fun]

This one because I think of a Daddy as a Protector

It’s such a great song to lose yourself in. Melody, tone, and words. A ballad you can shape as you need, it lets one feel. Nice choice on many levels

 

[spankableBelle]

Subdrop.

Because I know some of us in here identify as submissives, as well as littles, and I'm not as much a part of the BDSM boards as I used to be...

How do you know you're in the midst of subdrop?

And what do you do to care for yourself if you're alone in the midst of it?

You know, asking for a friend...

 

[Ingenue844]

Subdrop.

Because I know some of us in here identify as submissives, as well as littles, and I'm not as much a part of the BDSM boards as I used to be...

How do you know you're in the midst of subdrop?

And what do you do to care for yourself if you're alone in the midst of it?

You know, asking for a friend...

Crying. Ok. Sobbing.

I cry to friends.

 

[Ingenue844]

Another song that makes me think of what it’s like to get to stop life and be the Little

 

[Fl_maledad]

Good one, another is “key lime pie” by Kenny Chesney…

Not too tart, not too sweet
My baby loves to watch me eat
Her key lime pie
Her key lime pie

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Subdrop.

Because I know some of us in here identify as submissives, as well as littles, and I'm not as much a part of the BDSM boards as I used to be...

How do you know you're in the midst of subdrop?

And what do you do to care for yourself if you're alone in the midst of it?

You know, asking for a friend...

I get ridiculously insecure, needy, weepy. Need buckets of validation that I did well, that my vulnerability was a good thing.
I only get to play online so I'm always alone after a session. I just try to be kind to myself which isn't easy. Make a soft, quiet space and give myself time to process and work through it.

 

[spankableBelle]

I get ridiculously insecure, needy, weepy. Need buckets of validation that I did well, that my vulnerability was a good thing.
I only get to play online so I'm always alone after a session. I just try to be kind to myself which isn't easy. Make a soft, quiet space and give myself time to process and work through it.

Thank you.
This is me, as well. Insecure, needy, weepy...
Buckets of validation... Yeah. I get that.

Aftercare can happen, even online, but when it doesn't... When instead there's distance or perceived distance...
The emotional brain can really play fucking dirty tricks...

 

[Ingenue844]

I get ridiculously insecure, needy, weepy. Need buckets of validation that I did well, that my vulnerability was a good thing.
I only get to play online so I'm always alone after a session. I just try to be kind to myself which isn't easy. Make a soft, quiet space and give myself time to process and work through it.

Yeah…to not get that. It’s traumatic.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Good one, another is “key lime pie” by Kenny Chesney…

Not too tart, not too sweet
My baby loves to watch me eat
Her key lime pie
Her key lime pie

I don't know, that one kinda made me roll my eyes. I'd say it's cheesy, but it's Key Lime Pie.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Thank you.
This is me, as well. Insecure, needy, weepy...
Buckets of validation... Yeah. I get that.

Aftercare can happen, even online, but when it doesn't... When instead there's distance or perceived distance...
The emotional brain can really play fucking dirty tricks...

You're right that aftercare can happen online, but it's often dictated by how much time is available. Sometimes that drop doesn't happen until later and I want those words of affirmation and his voice to get through it. Now I'm wondering if having a voice recording would help for those times.

 

[spankableBelle]

You're right that aftercare can happen online, but it's often dictated by how much time is available. Sometimes that drop doesn't happen until later and I want those words of affirmation and his voice to get through it. Now I'm wondering if having a voice recording would help for those times.

Yes, that is very true. Sometimes the drop doesn't happen until later... Sometimes a few hours, sometimes a day or two later... And the need for affirmation that all is well, that you're okay, that you're relationship/friendship, etc... is okay... That voice can be crucial... Can be a bridge to the other side.
Until you said that, I hadn't thought about it in quite that way.

 

[Babygirl_1975]

My morning,
I almost got D arrested this morning. I had to take the car in to the shop to get fixed and when I got out of the house the car was gone, I was close to calling then D called and said he took it in, every thing is good and go back to bed.
This is what I love about him.

 

[barefootgirl69]

My morning,
I almost got D arrested this morning. I had to take the car in to the shop to get fixed and when I got out of the house the car was gone, I was close to calling then D called and said he took it in, every thing is good and go back to bed.
This is what I love about him.

You were calling your DD or the police?

 

[SnowIris]

I experience something similar to what you have described as sub drop, even though I don’t consider myself a true sub.

Also, happy Friday!

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Good question.
I have yet to have this yet but I'd like it to be something comforting and nourishing as that's how I want a Daddy to make me feel