Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

[Sexy_Singer]

I come on the this thread a lot but dont always comment. I'm still new at this and want to make sure that I'm speaking in the proper context. My biggest disappointment, not just in lit but on another sight that I've joined as well, is that the term Daddy is so loosely thrown around that I rarely find a context that fits what I'm looking for. This thread has been a beautiful find. ❤

 

[barefootgirl69]

I come on the this thread a lot but dont always comment. I'm still new at this and want to make sure that I'm speaking in the proper context. My biggest disappointment, not just in lit but on another sight that I've joined as well, is that the term Daddy is so loosely thrown around that I rarely find a context that fits what I'm looking for. This thread has been a beautiful find. ❤

To some, it's the incest. To others, it's a word used as a fetish or kinky thing during sex. To most of us regularly posting here, it's a lifestyle. I'm glad you're here.

 

[Strixaluco]

How do you judge someone on their first post (unless of course it’s blatant there)? First we should engage them and encourage research on just what DD/lc is all about!

Well. For example looking at the way how someone searched for a "daddy" prior to coming here. And her other posts. Not just the first post here, of course.

 

[Sexy_Singer]

To some, it's the incest. To others, it's a word used as a fetish or kinky thing during sex. To most of us regularly posting here, it's a lifestyle. I'm glad you're here.

You're a fantastic person, BFG.

 

[Strixaluco]

I guess I have made a mistake here. I misunderstood the intent of this thread.

You cannot claim that all newcomers would be received badly here. It's actually very few all in all.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Hey, everyone. I'm sorry that this place hasn't felt safe or comfortable the last few days. I thought I was the only one and thought, maybe, I was just too sensitive because of pain, meds, and lack of good sleep. It's reassuring to me to see I'm not alone, as much as it's encouraging to know we all are using some discernment and being careful.

Let's try to relax and enjoy our day. I had something I wanted to put out there yesterday, but it didn't seem the right timing. Maybe later I can get to it.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

After reading the comments, I wonder if I belong here? I have felt accepted, don't get me wrong. But our dynamic is unique to us.
1. It's only long distance.
2. It's mostly of a sexual intent

I mean, my daddy cares for me, encourages me, adores me...
But I'm a middle , never a "brat" like I've read some littles can be, and Daddy is wonderful!!
But, do I relate to some comments here??
Yes and no.
This is lit. It's for the sexually minded. What I don't agree with, or can't relate to, I skip over.

Maybe I do belong...
Maybe I don't.

 

[Strixaluco]

After reading the comments, I wonder if I belong here? I have felt accepted, don't get me wrong. But our dynamic is unique to us.
1. It's only long distance.
2. It's mostly of a sexual intent

I mean, my daddy cares for me, encourages me, adores me...
But I'm a middle , never a "brat" like I've read some littles can be, and Daddy is wonderful!!
But, do I relate to some comments here??
Yes and no.
This is lit. It's for the sexually minded. What I don't agree with, or can't relate to, I skip over.

Maybe I do belong...
Maybe I don't.

I'm never a brat either. My little side has no age at all, I don't exactly do a@@ regression. I've had an offline relationship, which was very much sexual - but he also tucked me in at night etc.

Edit. And the amount of sexual in my current relationship is big, but I also get to be little.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

*starts assembling a purple and black themed birthday fort for everyone to party in tomorrow!!!!*

 

[Sexy_Singer]

After reading the comments, I wonder if I belong here? I have felt accepted, don't get me wrong. But our dynamic is unique to us.
1. It's only long distance.
2. It's mostly of a sexual intent

I mean, my daddy cares for me, encourages me, adores me...
But I'm a middle , never a "brat" like I've read some littles can be, and Daddy is wonderful!!
But, do I relate to some comments here??
Yes and no.
This is lit. It's for the sexually minded. What I don't agree with, or can't relate to, I skip over.

Maybe I do belong...
Maybe I don't.

I will be the first to say that I am not an expert on the DDlg relationship, but what I can say is that I've never had the impression that you don't belong here. You belong here as much as anyone I've seen.

 

[SassyPixiedust]

We protect the safe space for Littles.

This is the way.

This is the way

 

[RosewoodTulip]

I'm the sort of awkward girl who never really feels like she fits in anywhere but this thread is such a safe place to be a little or middle.
I'm still in the very early stages of figuring out what that means for me but I know there's not a one size fits all way to be a /lg and I also know that if I need advice I can come here

 

[SassyPixiedust]

I'm the sort of awkward girl who never really feels like she fits in anywhere but this thread is such a safe place to be a little or middle.
I'm still in the very early stages of figuring out what that means for me but I know there's not a one size fits all way to be a /lg and I also know that if I need advice I can come here

This!! I know this feeling!!!

 

[Babygirl_1975]

I am kinda both little and middle, it just depends on how I'm feeling. This group has made me feel safe to post and ask any questions.

 

[spankableBelle]

https://64.media.tumblr.com/59a609e4f2f3775c044463cdf8183d7c/tumblr_o882mf00A31vwv0efo1_500.gifv

Yes, please...

 

[Strixaluco]

I'm the sort of awkward girl who never really feels like she fits in anywhere but this thread is such a safe place to be a little or middle.
I'm still in the very early stages of figuring out what that means for me but I know there's not a one size fits all way to be a /lg and I also know that if I need advice I can come here

Here's another awkward, ill-fitting girl. Just recently I heard that it wasn't even just my feeling, even a classmate thought that I didn't blend in.

But here and in another thread or two I feel at home.

I also learned here that I don't need to be able specify exactly my littleness. And that I can be little without regressing and knowing if I'm little, middle or whatever. I feel little, innocent like a child at times, sometimes even childish, and need to be taken care of. That's enough.

It's a multidimensional variation anyway...

 

[barefootgirl69]

Question for the littles, if you don't mind. What is the one thing your/a "big" can do for you to let you know they care about you and your feelings?

Pay attention to what I'm saying, remember it. Ask about it later if it's something that is going on in my life. Right now, "have you been drinking water?" goes a long way to making me feel cared for.

ETA: great question!!

 

[spankableBelle]

Question for the littles, if you don't mind. What is the one thing your/a "big" can do for you to let you know they care about you and your feelings?

For me...

~Say so. Seriously, freakin' say so. Don't mince words, don't speak in riddles. Speak plainly, directly.
~Be consistent. In your attention, your affection, your intentions.
~Don't make me feel like I'm a bother or that I'm asking too much when I don't really ask much of anything at all. And if I've been vulnerable, let me know that I'm safe and you're there, and that whatever it is, we can work on it together.
~And spank my ass when we both know I need it...

There's probably a lot more, but, this is a start, I guess.

 

[Strixaluco]

Question for the littles, if you don't mind. What is the one thing your/a "big" can do for you to let you know they care about you and your feelings?

It isn't just "the one thing". There are so many ways!

Today my D asked me what he could do to help me when I feel depressed. Of course he can't cure it, all he can do is to be there for me, but it really showed he cares.

Bfg's answer is an example of a whole group of ways. For me setting a bedtime is one major thing. Or just listening to me and getting to the root of the problem, and giving an order to solve that. Like last year I got a rule of no social media before breakfast - to keep me from procrastinating my morning routine, which ends in the breakfast table. Isn't an issue now when I work.

 

[Strixaluco]

Cuddling me when I am down, apathetic, miserable - holding me safe from the world. Holding me close and allowing me to be silent as long as I need.

He's inquiring gaze, lifting my face and trying to read my facial expressions... Being patient when I am struggling to find words to describe something.

 

[Ingenue844]

Question for the littles, if you don't mind. What is the one thing your/a "big" can do for you to let you know they care about you and your feelings?

I think my answer is two-pronged.

First, listening to my concerns which seem silly to them but feels like something to me. And even if he doesn’t have time in the moment to listen, circling back to me and asking about it means so much.

And the response, which to me reflects the level of listening. Platitudes aren’t a response.
“I’m sorry,” “that’s too bad,” “it’ll be ok.” And then on to the next thing like I didn’t just bare my soul. I don’t always expect advice, or someone to fix things for me. But I can tell when I’m being blown off.

 

[Babygirl_1975]

Question for the littles, if you don't mind. What is the one thing your/a "big" can do for you to let you know they care about you and your feelings?

For me my D
sets rules and tasks to do.
He holds me or spanks me if I need it.
Sends me love texts and/or songs that reminds him of me or us.

 

[Sexy_Singer]

@FunFilled80 Good question.

 

[Strixaluco]

Platitudes aren’t a response.
“I’m sorry,” “that’s too bad,” “it’ll be ok.” And then on to the next thing like I didn’t just bare my soul. I don’t always expect advice, or someone to fix things for me. But I can tell when I’m being blown off.

So much this. I'm rather misunderstood than given platitudes. Misunderstandings can at least be corrected - not listening cannot.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Question for the littles, if you don't mind. What is the one thing your/a "big" can do for you to let you know they care about you and your feelings?

My feelings go up and down because of BPD and bipolar 2... So, daddy is very good about caring for me, depending on my mood. He never makes me feel crazy, he can sense from my correspondences if I'm hyper or low. He's very comforting, and he's very supportive of my writing, drawing, silliness..
...
Oops, you said one thing.. lol